lies about everything from the finances to what he has eaten on any particular day? And when he gets caught in his lies, he lies more to cover up the previous ones.
2007-09-25 08:36:02 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well, i'm going to tell you about Me for a minute, i hope you don't mind.
last year i met a "nice" guy who lied to me about everything.... he made up all sorts of things about himself to make him look good... truth was, he was just the opposite of what he claimed to be, and after about 9 months, the truth came to light. we had moved in together. i told him that i didn't trust him anymore and i certainly don't respect him. well, i'm looking for a place to live, and still at his house..... he still lies all of the time, and apparently he doesn't "get it" that lying is wrong.
i am moving out the first of november, and i'm sure he will continue to lie until then...
in my case, i'm leaving... i won't tolerate a liar. if a person lies all the time, how can you really KNOW them? in my opinion, you can't.
take care of you...
2007-09-25 08:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I plain out tell him you are a liar and i do not believe a word you say. Trust and honesty go hand in hand and without one you cannot have the other. So i simply told my man 3 strikes you are out. I told him until he can be honest with me i have no trust in him and if he lies a third time and is caught, then he can find someone else to tell stories to. Needless to say he has been good for 3 months now and is still going strong......as far as i know.....in other words i have not 'caught' him lieing again. Heheh
2007-09-25 18:07:53 · answer #2 · answered by LawlietLover 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Has he always been this way or is this something new? I wish I could help you, but I don't know what I would do if my spouse started lying about everything. I'd probably leave him, but it's hard to say because we've been together for 7 years. Maybe try counseling for him if he's willing? I wish you the best of luck!
2007-09-25 19:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by ♥bigmamma♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
they call those people "habitual liars"... I used to go out w/ one... he happened to be a cheater too... but, anyway, he lied about everything! he would say he ate out but actually ate at home... or he would say he had worked out w/ weights but never did such... and of course he told me he was not cheating, but, he was... =(... I must add that he is on his second marraige... I wonder why??? lol!!! hmmm... his family lies too... when his mother died, they stated in the paper that they had 3 granddaughters, but, actually had 4... I had his daughter, too... =(... she was the one who was not counted =(... he told his dad she was not his... and of course the paternity test proved otherwise! jerk... if I were you I would be wondering if your man is cheating too... he lies so you can't tell when he's telling them anymore... I'd dig deeper into his lies...
2007-09-25 15:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave cus lies cause distrust and no relationship works without trust.
2007-09-25 15:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Understood 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relationship requires trust, even in the minute things. If he can't be honest to you, what else would he be willing to hide? You can't live like this, it's not healthy. Take it for what it is, and act accordingly.
2007-09-25 15:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle Rayner 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would think strongly about leaving somebody cuz the lack of trust is going to destroy your relationship if it hasn't already.
2007-09-25 15:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by good girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You telling lies thinking I can't see
You don't cry 'cos you're laughing at me
I'm down (I'm really down)
I'm down (Down on the ground)
2007-09-25 16:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Mergler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave. Something's up.
2007-09-25 20:53:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
seek counseling!!! lol
i dont know...sounds crazy..what is his deal? does he do this to everyone?
2007-09-25 15:40:39 · answer #10 · answered by Mindy S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋