Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

My twin sister's friend asked her, "Why do you look like your twin sister? Why do you look fat like her on this picture? Were you pregnant?" Now if you were me (the supposedly FAT twin), would you be offended to see this question posted on a picture comment on MySpace? My feelings are really hurt.

2007-09-25 06:35:07 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife won't go to bed at night without a lullaby and a bedtime story! After 12 years of marriage, this is getting ridiculous! Help?

2007-09-25 06:34:15 · 20 answers · asked by Aspurtaime Dog Sneeze 6 in Marriage & Divorce

It has always been this way, but how do I approach him in a way that makes him want to get things done? At his job, everybody says what a hard worker he is.

2007-09-25 06:33:03 · 25 answers · asked by hermoine54 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you think ;she would like from london .

2007-09-25 06:26:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Why not wear a costume that's, ohhh I don't know... SCARY or CREATIVE instead of simply trying to get attention? Seriously, don't you have any self-respect than to wear something that's almost nothing... What is the point?

Please, for the sake of the children that look up to grown-ups
Set a good example and don't lower yourself as a person.

2007-09-25 06:25:05 · 35 answers · asked by Mr. Cool 4 in Singles & Dating

His ex refuses to work, though she is perfectly capable, and lives off her children's benefits instead of getting her own job and supporting those children. I think child support should be used only for the kids and not for her own living expenses and travel - I feel the courts should make her get a job in order to collect child support. she should have to support her own children, too.

2007-09-25 06:22:18 · 32 answers · asked by tazrunner1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has a very addictive personality and he was a smoker since we have been together it has been an issue and he had said he was done well on a number of occasions I have found him doing it yes it bothers me because I think it is selfish but more so because he lies to me about it and will tell me he is not doing it. My thing is don't hide it if you are doing it and do not lie about such a stupid thing because then it makes me wonder what other lies you are telling? Am I being crazy

2007-09-25 06:14:18 · 23 answers · asked by Kristi S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

can i find my biological father and take him to court? sue him for unpaid child support? and get the backpay? i am 22 yrs old. and im in financial troubles. my biological father never gave my mom a dime for 18 yrs. he left when my mom gave birth to me. can i sue him for 18 yrs of child support? i also believe he was older then 18 and my mom was 15 when they concieved me. will that play in my favor in court?

2007-09-25 06:06:08 · 18 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family

I have been married what will be 5 yrs soon and the good times are being seriously out weighing the bad.I am 25 yrs old going on 26 and my husband is 35 yrs old.I have a daughter who is 5 yrs old from a previous relationship and a son who will be turning 2 yrs old soon paternity is the issue here though among other problems.My husband cheated on me with his secratary while we were trying for a baby i found out and we seperated for 5-6 months(he moved in with her).I was very angry and in a emotionally depressed state out of revenge i had sex with my daughter bio-dad.A week or 2 later my husband came home and we chose to try to work things out.Soon after i found out i was pregnant i did tell my husband about hat happened with my ex.But when the doctor placed the conception date at the same time we got back together hubby said all was water under the bridge.When my son was only 1-1.5 yrs old we had an medical emergancy it turned out that my hubby as not my sons bio-dad.Read on please.

2007-09-25 06:05:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have to choose either to break up with my boyfriend or go and live in his parents house. The thing being that his parents dont like me all that much. The reason is that at the moment him and I live in differant countries and well thats it either I go there or its over. To be honest I dont want either. Please help me

2007-09-25 06:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by bubu 1 in Singles & Dating

So I saw my ex last night, I hadnt seen him in moths. Here's a little background he cheated on me and I found out in a very harsh way. We then broke up and he decided to go out with her. Now all of the sudden he calls me to tell me he has some of my stuff and for me to come pick it up. It just so happens that they're not together anymore. When I saw him I realized that I still have feelings for him, but at the same time it brought up old feeling of what he did. I sent him a txt saying it was nice to see him again, but he hasnt responded. That makes feel even worse, what should I do? Should I tell him that I still have feelings for him? I dont understand why he called about things almost 4 months later!!!!

2007-09-25 06:01:29 · 25 answers · asked by x8Jaded8x 1 in Singles & Dating

Should the man Pic the 3rd party of a 3some or the woman , or should both pic and agree?

2007-09-25 05:58:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

without hurting there feelings

2007-09-25 05:56:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

What do you tell parents when they treat you like you were a little child, although you were 17? Its just not right.

2007-09-25 05:56:03 · 38 answers · asked by Elizabeth A 1 in Family

I have seen several people, myself included, put up with so much pain from a bad relationship or marriage. I understand there are many factors in it, but when the good outweighs the bad (way outweighs) what makes you stay? Fear of change? Low self esteem? Why do we take it when we could be a wonderful girlfriend/boyfriend or husband/wife to someone who actually deserves it! I know there are happy people out there, and more power to them, but does anyone care to weigh in?

2007-09-25 05:53:39 · 25 answers · asked by Kristen 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I am curious what on earth gives males the right to abuse women?? I know not all men are guilty of this but there are a lot who are. I was in a bad marriage to where my Ex-husband took it upon himself to urinate over me, heck I would not even treat a dog this way. So what gives a male that power???????

2007-09-25 05:51:35 · 17 answers · asked by lynnette b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i just had a conversation with a friend who told me that lately, when she goes on a date, the guy expects her to pay for herself. i think this is BEYOND rude. not because the guy should always pay, because he shouldn't, but because whoever does the asking should be expected to pick up the tab, right? i mean, you ask a girl to a restaurant, you pick a place within your means and be prepared to pay the bill entirely..and if the girl asks you out, she should pay..but isn't it wrong to ask a person on a date and then when the check comes, ask them for half the money? in my opinion, that is just classess. i know people are gonna say things like i must be a gold digger or something but please read carefully...if you ask me out, you pay. if i ask you out, i pay. right? but you never suprise someone like that. i've been on dates where all i had was my phone and an emergency $20. i wouldn't even have half the money in that situation...but on the other hand, i've done the asking & paying, too.

2007-09-25 05:50:42 · 17 answers · asked by phlygirl 3 in Singles & Dating

So as a few here know my future in-laws are a bit out there. Well, it got better. My FFIL has been having issues with a billing discrepancy at the hospital. So Saturday, he smashed the phone. Sunday, he was driving, and ripped a bunch of political signs out of someone's yard. Went home, popped a bunch of Xanax, FMIL takes him to the hospital, on the way there, they stop at that same stoplight. He jumps out of the car, rips the signs out AGAIN. (after the cops warned him he'd get arrested if it happened again). They get to hospital, they ask him why he did it, and he tells them "I figured popping a bunch of pills and calming myself down a risking killing myself was better than my original idea of going to the store and getting a gun and killing somone". Well, they let him outta the hospital, and we don't know what to do. We don't want him at the wedding (afraid he will cause drama) but don't want to start drama with his mother (this is his stepdad). What would you do?!?!

2007-09-25 05:49:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've heard once that there was a person born from normal parents, but he/she was not a human, but a ninja, how can this be?

2007-09-25 05:47:28 · 9 answers · asked by sakura 1 in Family

Seriously, if a guy meets a girl and gets to know her a little bit and starts to fall for her and even is with her one night, can he run shy of a relationship? I mean, not call her, avoid her? Does he really need a strong message of interest from the girl before he would get on further? What should a girl do to indicate that she is also falling from him without scaring him off?

2007-09-25 05:38:58 · 1 answers · asked by profe 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 05:35:20 · 17 answers · asked by Hollywood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i swear i'm not! i know i skip breakfasts some mornings, but it's only because i don't want to eat lunch like, an hour after breakfast!
i usually eat a bowl of porridge, then a special K bar and peanut-butter and jelly sandwich at lunch. for dinner, i eat as much as i physically can [she cooks and serves, so i don't really get a choice there]. i never usually snack, but if i do, it's only ever a bag of popcorn or a cookie.
she keeps telling me that i'm far too skinny, and no wonder my pants keep slipping on me [i'm sorry, but NO jeans ever fit me. ever.] i'm a clothes US size 6, so i'm not all that skinny, but she won't leave me alone!!! how can i convince her i'm not starving myself!? we were never really that close, so i find it hard to talk to her, my dad doesn't get involved in rows like these... i can't really talk to my trusty girlfriend [weight is a bit of a touchy subject there..] and i don't think any of my guyfriends would understand... i need help!

2007-09-25 05:33:12 · 11 answers · asked by lexie 5 in Family

About 4 years ago, i had an affair with a married man (i was also married) i know its wrong, please don't tell me!!! Anyway, we had a year long relationship, he left his wife for me and i distanced myself from my husband. It became a very serious relationship, we both believed we were soul mates. My problem was leaving my husband, i felt bad and always thought about what others (family mostly) would think about me. My husband is a drug user, mentally and verbally abusive. We have a dauther together as well.

After a year of cheating with each other, he couldnt wait for me anymore to leave my husband. It turned out very nasty, he called my husband....... and now it's 4 years later. Every now and then we texted each other to say hello and see how each other is doing, he is dating somebody else (for the last 3yrs.) For some reason, i still have yet to get over him. I love him so much, never loved anybody this much.

What should i do????????? Is there anything i can do?

2007-09-25 05:31:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

That women aren't hormonal driven or aren't that interested in sex except for emotional reasons? and i hate it when a guy looks at other girls or cheats they use the excuse "well i'm a guy". Women have sexual urges too! We like looking at other men too! We just don't make it so obvious like men do. Why do people assume women are just emotional creatures? I'm in a serious relationship, but geez...c'mon now! I think it's a crock! Any women feel like they enjoy sex and like looking at decent looking men w/o feeling SOOOOO emotional?

2007-09-25 05:27:41 · 25 answers · asked by ~)~) 3 in Singles & Dating

We ended on a bad note, I found out he was getting married and I had no idea. I knew him and I knew he was not ready for that type of commitment. It wasnt two weeks later and he was calling me again. I knew I could not see him anymore. It has been almost 3 years since hes been married and I still love this man even though I dont even talk to him. I can still feel him in my bones and I have really tried going forward but I am still stuck at square one with no progress. Now I just found out that he is in jail and I want to contact him. It has been so hard to be patient and think it out. I just want him to know that I really did love him and I still do and Im here for him. I know that this sounds open and shut but my my feelings wont go away. I need someone to give me some guidance. I cant talk to my best friend about him b/c she thinks he is such a loser for what he did to me. But my heart is real and I dont know what to do I want contact him what should I do?

2007-09-25 05:25:29 · 17 answers · asked by Mrs. 530 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 05:20:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so my bf and i live together. we put all our money together. long story short. i had left my purse in the livingroom and had all the money. when i check i was missing money i then asked if he new where it went and he lied and said no i know he took it. i just wonder why he didn't ask for it i would never say no. I am wondering if i should just dump him. i love him.but i feel that i may not be able to trust him. this is the second time it happens. help

2007-09-25 05:19:20 · 13 answers · asked by bla32pen 2 in Singles & Dating

hello..this guy i like stay in different city..i plan to pay him a visit and this will be our second time seeing each other..i was introduced to him last 2 week when i went to his city. Is it ok if a give him a present when i meet him..am i too fast??

2007-09-25 05:17:42 · 17 answers · asked by kushimys 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 05:14:14 · 23 answers · asked by carry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-09-25 05:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce