Should the man Pic the 3rd party of a 3some or the woman , or should both pic and agree?
2007-09-25 05:58:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We have done it before but I didnt like her Best friend.. so it was wack and she didnt like it either so this time Im wondering who should pick?
2007-09-25 06:08:46 · update #1
We have done it before but I didnt like her Best friend.. so it was wack and she didnt like it either so this time Im wondering who should pick?
2007-09-25 06:08:47 · update #2
Both should pick someone they both find attractive. Gender means nothing when both have agreed into bringing someone else.
2007-09-25 06:06:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The decision should between the two of you. 3somes are fun, but u have to pick the right person. Then again, I dont highly recommend it for a married couple.
2007-09-25 13:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Tru_New Orleanian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it would have to be who came up with the idea. If your wife suggested it and you were cool with the idea then she should get to pic. The next question is doo you end up with 2 men or 2 woman and i guess that depends on who started the idea, doubtful that you want 2 men and your wife, more likly you want her and another woman.
2007-09-25 13:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by very confused 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who is gonna be doing something with that other women. If both of you are gonna touch her then both of you need to pick. If it only you then why would your women care what she looks like. If it is just her then she needs to. No matter who it is that person or persons need to feel a sexual attraction in order to enjoy it. Have fun!!
2007-09-25 13:06:30 · answer #4 · answered by pcqkm2921742_04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are so convinced that a threesome is the way to go for both of you, wouldn't it just make sense that the 3rd person be picked by both of you?
2007-09-25 13:02:02 · answer #5 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The woman. Because it will be a lot more fun for you if your wife is comfortable. And you need to make sure that the fist time is more centered on her. That way she is enjoying herself and will be more willing to do it again.
2007-09-25 13:04:05 · answer #6 · answered by Reckless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you kidding me, your wife is going for this? both should agree but are you ready for the consequence if any. this could make or break a relationship, are you ready to face it?
have your partner contact the 3rd person
2007-09-25 13:02:51 · answer #7 · answered by Adrienne L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the woman
and then you both can agree on it
it would probably be in the best interest of the male to dispute that the female she chose isnt the best and then finally agree
2007-09-25 13:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Joey 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are other websites that you will find better info on these types of questions than here.....this site is conservative when it comes to marriage and dating (at least on some levels) and let's face it, some marriages seem to work just fine with the whole threesomes and swinging concept.
2007-09-25 13:03:58 · answer #9 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have done this before. Both didn't like it. But yet you insist. Mark my words. Your going to end up divorced and cursing yourself for being so dumb.
2007-09-25 13:13:28 · answer #10 · answered by Memory 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋