hello..this guy i like stay in different city..i plan to pay him a visit and this will be our second time seeing each other..i was introduced to him last 2 week when i went to his city. Is it ok if a give him a present when i meet him..am i too fast??
2007-09-25 05:17:42 · 17 answers · asked by kushimys 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ok i dont mean expensive gifts. actually plan to give him box of home made peanut butter cookies..because we always talk about our favourite food..
2007-09-25 05:31:42 · update #1
actually he's from same state with my parents but in different city, and i've move to a capital city because of my job. so i'm going to visit my family and at the same time taking the opportunity to see him..i dont mind spending on my fare and accomodation. i'm just going to spend a night visiting him. no plans for sex. since i've just known him, i just want to know him more and hope something develope..he's very busy and i have more time to travell. so i thought why dont i go and see him..
2007-09-25 05:47:35 · update #2
Something small and not expensive would be OK. Like a box of chocolates. Don't be disappointed if he has nothing for you.
2007-09-25 05:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Memory 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you going back to his city primarily to see him or for other reasons? Men value a woman more if they do all the chasing. For example, they travel to Africa which costs a lot of money, they hire guide, guns, ammo, and pay for accommodation and get into special clothes and then they risk their life going into the jungle and then they shoot an animal and bring back its head to put on the wall. They enjoy the whole scenario. If they went into a gift shop and bought an animal head and put it on the wall, they would not have had so much adventure. This is how they like hunting for women. But you are not going to take any notice of me. If you take him a present, take him a book or souvenir of where you live, or get him something at the airport when you arrive and make sure he knows it is something you grabbed at the airport. Is he paying your fare/ petrol/ accommodation? If he is, don't think you have to pay it back with sex. And don't be available to him every night. Have others to see alone. Invent rellies. He should be coming to see you in your city, first.
2007-09-25 05:36:44 · answer #2 · answered by wemblania 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u shouldn't be buying him gifts yet, u should wait til u've had sex with him at least 3 times. i would think he would be happy for the first time to just have great sex with u, but maybe pick up a little item or leave something thats urs so he keeps thinking about u when ur gone. i think leaving him with hot memories would be a good start.
2007-09-25 05:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Driving to see him is gift enough. Don't move too fast. If you want to spend your money, either buy dinner or buy him a little trinket while you're out shopping.
2007-09-25 05:21:34 · answer #4 · answered by theewokprincess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a sec...
Unless during your first meeting he mentioned something about YOUR city...then maybe a souveinir from your city !
That would make such an impression on me without seeming 'pushy'.
Good luck !!
2007-09-25 05:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe to fast try offering to buy dinner or something less committing men get weird about "gifts"
2007-09-25 05:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by Laine 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No presents. But you can offer to take him out to lunch when there. I hope this gift would not include sex....
2007-09-25 05:22:26 · answer #7 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think thats a great idea,just don't make it an expensive gift.
2007-09-25 05:23:36 · answer #8 · answered by Candi Apples 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Way to fast. No gifts until you've been seeing each other regularly for at least 3 months or more.
2007-09-25 05:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Too fast, you will totally come off as needy,clingy and desperate.
2007-09-25 05:27:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋