Why do guys assume this about women?

Question

That women aren't hormonal driven or aren't that interested in sex except for emotional reasons? and i hate it when a guy looks at other girls or cheats they use the excuse "well i'm a guy". Women have sexual urges too! We like looking at other men too! We just don't make it so obvious like men do. Why do people assume women are just emotional creatures? I'm in a serious relationship, but geez...c'mon now! I think it's a crock! Any women feel like they enjoy sex and like looking at decent looking men w/o feeling SOOOOO emotional?

Answer 1

REALLY!?

With men it is more PHYSICAL than mental.

Did you ever hear of a MALE rape victim who wasn't raped by ANOTHER MALE? (I've only found 6 in the U.S. after MUCH digging). Hell, in some states there is NO legal rape if the victim is not a woman.

DO YOU KNOW WHY??

Because to men, ALL sex is wanted!!!

Don't believe me... here's a simple experiment:

Put a not-so attractive girl in a bar at midnight, stand her on a table and have her yell "I will have sex with the next guy who asks me!" In minutes, SHE will get laid.

Put a VERY attractive man in a bar and have him yell "I will have sex with the next woman who asks me!" HE will be degraded and go home alone (or get arrested).

Now, a little science...

A woman produces an egg every month and passes it with her period...

A MAN produces MILLIONS of sperm a day and they stay put in the testicles until discharged. After a while they fill up like a water balloon and get painful (this is commonly called Blue-Balls). In fact, if we DON'T have sex for too long, the SUBCONSCIOUS takes over and relieves the situation via nocturnal emission (a wet dream). Why? Because the strain to our bodies from such a condition warrant the body taking over for the mind, in an attempt to protect itself.

This means the drive to have sex is a constantly building event with a guy. Women only experience the first level before the egg passes (this is the horror of PMS). Men start off at this level just AFTER sex... It gets worse from there.

Whether you want to admit it or not, we men get the urge MUCH worse from testosterone than women from estrogen (by about 17-times the neurotransmitter imbalance, which literally and significantly alters the way we think). This is why 'Roid-Rage' occurs from testosterone use, but not estrogen use.

The reality is, a man will have sex with a knot-hole in a tree if necessary. Now, women use toys too, sometimes, but you NEVER hear of a WOMAN chasing down sheep in Arkansas, or screwing Monkeys in Africa.

Face it, women, we got the lockdown on sexual drive. The only reason you do not believe this is because you have no frame of reference... just like women who say that it hurts just as much for them to get kicked in the groin...

NO CLUE!!!

Here are 8 different studies to back this up:

1). In the same study, 25% of men reported visiting a pornographic site in the previous 30 days; 4% of women reported visiting pornographic sites in the same timeframe. (Buzzell, 2005) .

2). Males have been found to make up two thirds of users of sexually explicit Internet sites and account for 77% of on-line time; 51% of women reported they never download sexual material (Cooper, Scherer, Boies, Gordon, 1999).

3). In a study of undergraduate college students, 98% of men and 44% of women reported having ever masturbated; Among undergraduate students, men reported masturbating an average of 12 times per month, while women reported an average of 4.7 times per month (Pinkerton, Bogart, Cecil, & Abramson, 2002).

4). About 60% of men and 40% of women reported masturbating in the past year; Nearly 85% of men and 45% of women who were living with a sexual partner reported masturbating in the past year (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).

5). 53% of men and 25% of women masturbated for the first time by ages 11 to 13; 5% of men and 11% of women have never masturbated (Janus & Janus, 1993).

6). Average prostitution arrests are comprised of 70% female prostitutes, 20% percent male prostitutes and 10% customers (Alexander, 1987).

7). 69% of white males had at least one experience with a prostitute (Kinsey, Martin, Gebhard, 1948).

8). 90% of men and 86% of women have had sex in the past year; 27% of men and 19% of women have had oral sex in the past year; 23% of men and 11% of women have bought X-rated movies or videos; 10% of men and 9% of women have had anal sex in the past year (Laumann, Gagnon, Michael, Michaels, 1994).

... Notice men have higher statistics in all areas except prositution (because males are the larger target market!)

So you see, it's not an assumption at all... It's fact... one which is OBVIOUS if you are male. We just carry it a lot better than women think (but not as well as women handle their urges... because their urges are, in FACT, less).

AND DON'T TELL ME WOMEN DON'T KNOW THIS!!!

That is why women are ABLE to use sex as a weapon, when man cannot. If the male urge was not stronger, you would not have such an advantage.

Now, this explains the urge being stronger, but cheaters who use this as their EXCUSE are cowardly and despicable.

P.S.: There is nothing wrong with a guy LOOKING at another girl. If you have an issue with this, that is YOUR issue and YOUR insecurity... a guy (or a girl) needs no excuse for this.

Answer 2

Compared to men, women are emotional creatures. No matter how tightly you close your eyes and pretend that men and women are the same, the fact remains... they are not. There has been some recent research that proved that even men and women's brains are different from one another. As for the "I'm a guy" excuse for cheating---that's just lame and unacceptable.

Answer 3

QUESTION
"Why do guys assume this about women? That women aren't hormonal driven or aren't that interested in sex..."

ANSWER
"We like looking at other men too! We just don't make it so obvious like men do."


Well, that's exactly the point. Since you don't make it obvious that you are truly sexual creatures, then men ASSUME that you are not. Seeeee, get it now?

Answer 4

"Well I'm a guy" is an excuse from feeble minded and ignorant males who can't admit they have the morals of a common prostitute, that's all.

There are plenty of women out there who just want a roll in the hay too with no strings attached. No emotions, no demands, just 'a good time'.

So...most men know women aren't portrayed as sex fiends and yes...most keep their desires and fantasies under control. Men too. If you're well mannered, cultured and a gentleman. Quite frankly I can look at a woman, think she's attractive and never have the though enter my head what she'd look like with her legs pulled back to her head. hard to believe isn't it but hey...beauty can be appreciated without having to think any further into it.

Answer 5

They assume this because for years that's the way women were treated, as some frail creature that needed to be taken care of. Women were taught by their mothers that sex was their "wifely duty" whether they liked it or not and they were told it was something to be tolerated. My man and I have an agreement, looking is ok (for both of us) touching isn't. That simple. The saying is true "WE'VE COME A LONG WAY BABY!"

Answer 6

yeah most men do assume that, fortunately I'm not one of them i mean you guys have urges too sometimes stronger than us and of course you're going to check out men any human looks at the opposite sex if they find them attractive, the reason why some men think that way is because women tell them those things and women are more low pro but this men are dumb enough to believe them, i mean its com on sense women are alive too.

Answer 7

Two reasons why this occurs.

1) Testosterone. You have no idea what this simple hormone does to a person. Ask women who have been on testosterone therapy for medical reasons. They will tell you how UNBELIEVABLY distracting the constant sexual thoughts are. We just grow up learning to live with it and you grow up not understanding.

2) There are soooooooooo many women out there that are more than willing to use sex as a weapon in a relationship that after awhile, even though you know that there are reasonable, affectionate women in the world, your chances of meeting one that is single is about 5%.

Answer 8

Because women (in general) ARE emotional creatures...that doesn't mean some of us don't have the ability to detach from emotion, but even when we do, it often doesn't come naturally.

Females are wired to be emotional and nuturing to raise and protect our young...men are wired to be less emotional and more practical. It's how Nature designed us...sure there are exceptions (there are emotional men and women that aren't) but the generalization is true enough that it's a common belief that we are all that way.

Answer 9

I do. I hate that men feel like we're just a buncha crying over-hormonal chicks that ***** & whine about everything.

I enjoy sex and good looking guys too, I just don't make it blatently clear or go to the extreme low of cheating if I'm with someone.

Answer 10

THat is so true. FOr some reason guys think we are less interested in sex but that is sooo not true! We think about it just as much as they do. But, We hide it better then guys do. I enjoy sex and I like looking at hot guys with out feeling emotional. Some woman like to "rip and dip" just like guys do unless I really have feelings for that man.

Answer 11

It's a big misunderstanding. Us guys you can say are pigs and are like that bc we are open about it... sorta obnoxious. You women arent as out with it and dont flawnt it as much as men do. And movie stereotypes don't help either. But Some guys do know that were all the same.