I have to choose either to break up with my boyfriend or go and live in his parents house. The thing being that his parents dont like me all that much. The reason is that at the moment him and I live in differant countries and well thats it either I go there or its over. To be honest I dont want either. Please help me
2007-09-25 06:02:38 · 12 answers · asked by bubu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that hes asking a little too much from you to have you move to another place and to live with his parents. not cool and why would you stay with some one that doesn't like you. i just don't understand that.
2007-09-25 06:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by rebel chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are those really the only options? Can you two save up so he can get a place and then you move?
I am in a similar situation. My boyfriend lives 600 miles away and has been trying unsuccessfully to get a job in my city. We've talked about breaking up and we've discussed marriage. We've decided to hang in there and continue to look at available employment.
If your relationship is strong and can stand the trials of a long distance relationship, discuss other options. There's gotta be something else you two can come up with.
2007-09-25 06:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by trysh_mc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? Can he get his own place? Tell him how you feel...you need to also consider what you will do away from home if things don't work out for you with him once you are in his country...hope he is not Arab...no offense intended but it can be a bad idea to go there...personal experience again with that Just a heads up NO offense intended
2007-09-25 06:10:21 · answer #3 · answered by just duky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did his parents open their home to you if they don't like you? Is there a possibility for him to move out of his parents' home and you can move in with him there? Why won't he move to be with you? There should be more of a compromise then him just saying move in with his parents or it's over. If he's not willing to compromise, maybe he's not worth moving out of the country for.
2007-09-25 06:07:26 · answer #4 · answered by graybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, so the choice is; either stay at home, or leave your homeland, & go live in a house where no one wants you except one person.
Sounds like a no-brainer to me. I go where I am most wanted.
2007-09-25 06:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it means moving to a different country to live with people who didn't like me.....
I think I would move on if a better solution couldn't be found...
2007-09-25 06:10:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to be in some strangers home in some foreign country ( i say stranger because its his paretns house not his own) i dont know your full situation but one thing you need is options dont back your self into a corner.
2007-09-25 06:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by a s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay quick question, is he worth it? that is the main thing you need to ask yourself. if you love him, then i think you can stand to put up with his folks for a little while. if you don't think that you can handle his folks then you might want to take another look at your relationship.
2007-09-25 06:09:52 · answer #8 · answered by plum_snake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that u should move in with him and try 2 start all over with the parents!!!
and everything will be okay!!!
2007-09-25 06:07:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Break up - why move in? Especially if they don't like you.
2007-09-25 06:06:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋