2007-09-25 05:14:14 · 23 answers · asked by carry 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There's no such thing. All you can do is take things day by day, week by week. Only when you're 90 and you look back on your life with a smile when you think about all of the wonderful memories the two of you made, will you know for sure! So ENJOY!
2007-09-25 05:17:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Perfect match for life goes way beyond sex. In other words- how well do you know this person out of the bedroom? do you have similar dreams, desires, points of view?
Here's a few things people miss all the time - do you two respect eachother? In other words - can you have your own lives, own points of view - and not be crucified for it later?
I don't know if there ever really is a "perfect" match. Relationships take work - so - are you and your lover willing to put in the effort to work through the tough times?
2007-09-25 12:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put drew bloods comment and candy apple together. Those two are really good answers only time will tell. it doesnt matter if you still feel tingly inside it love that matters the most.. in relationship the tingly comes in the begining and slowly fades either way with stress work and other things in life.. Temptation is the most thing anyone can make someone tingly its just the matter of acknowleging it. Try and make it work, later down the line you will say hmm, i spent my whole lifew with this person... People get married thinking there gonna spend the rest of there life with that other person and later down the road they get a divorce.. That only means cause they Gave Up!!! If you try and make it work it'll last a life time!!!
2007-09-25 12:24:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi hon...
Well, i've discovered, through my many years of living (50 to be exact) that every relationship we enter into is a "gamble"... even in friendships and with lovers as well.
If you feel this is right at the time, then talk with your lover about it... talk about your ambitions and goals, what you want to do with your life, how you handle finances, whether or not you want kids and when.... talking about things really helps to get to know a person.
rushing in blindly ? well that's a set up for disaster.
take your time and i wish you all the best in life!
2007-09-25 13:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In will be in your heart and in your head. Does your lover amount to all your qualitites that you dream of before you fell in love with them? Would you die for them also? theres no such thing as a perfect match its what you accept in your lover that your willing to live and share your life with!
2007-09-25 13:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant. you can only know that you are compatible with your lover or not. Then in time can that compatibility grow into love and that perfect match? ONly time will tell. But perfection doesnt normally come around
2007-09-25 12:18:47 · answer #6 · answered by okiemuskvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have very healthy attitudes regarding open communication. (i.e. really understanding each others frustrations, hopes, etc..)
You will have a respect for each other, (i.e. no name calling)
You have talked about the big issues in life and are on the same page.. or at least are accepting of the others' views if you don't agree (i.e. children? yes or no, Religion,etc..)
You both trust each other completely.
And most importantly...
You must be absolutely in love with this person & vice versa.
Nothing is perfect, but if the love, trust, communication, respect, and connection are there, you got it made. :)
2007-09-25 12:22:23 · answer #7 · answered by S&NFervor4Ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the issue is if you can know if that person is a perfect match unless you seek God for guidance. But if you can see yourself being with them and growing together for the rest of your lives then that's more than enough if you're willing to accept that person for who they are.
2007-09-25 12:50:08 · answer #8 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, there are no guarantees in life. People change, situations change, you have to roll with life and adapt as things come along. If the two of you can adapt together then you will probably be together for a long time.
2007-09-25 12:20:22 · answer #9 · answered by ophirhodji 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is what dating, engagement is all about. All the little quirks, dislikes, habits will show up then. That is when you decide what you can live with. You can't change someone. To base your match on just your sexual side right now is just part of it.
2007-09-25 12:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋