ok, so my bf and i live together. we put all our money together. long story short. i had left my purse in the livingroom and had all the money. when i check i was missing money i then asked if he new where it went and he lied and said no i know he took it. i just wonder why he didn't ask for it i would never say no. I am wondering if i should just dump him. i love him.but i feel that i may not be able to trust him. this is the second time it happens. help
2007-09-25 05:19:20 · 13 answers · asked by bla32pen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I would dump the guy. If he lies about taking money, he'll lie about bigger things to come.
2007-09-25 05:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by southernvixin00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, WHY did you leave the money in the SAME PLACE - if you burn your hand sticking it in fire once, do you stick your hand in the fire again, OR, do you really THINK about it first.
You say you love him - really? He steals when he does not need to, and lies - you FEEL maybe you should not trust him?? I GUARANTEE you should not trust ANYONE that has access to your house, including him.
Relationships do not work without trust. Chosing to live with a person who proves themselves unworthy of trust is not a wise decision.
2007-09-25 14:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"wondering if you should dump him"? He stole from you dummy. You think thats a good trait to have in a spouse?
You make me laugh. He's done it twice. Stolen AND lied and here you sit wondering if you'd be able to trust him.
You deserve what you get because you don't seem to see these as horrible characteristics.
just how old ARE you anyway little girl?
2007-09-25 12:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Also, why are you combining money with a boyfriend. Bad idea. I can see if you get married, THEN combining money, but not for a boyfriend.
Your story is a prime example of why I say this.
2007-09-25 12:25:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mybal Zitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm. Another narcissist sociopath in training? His actions do not bode well for a long and happy future together, do they?
Your bf needs some help. And, yes, he IS untrustworthy, obviously. Your choice. I'm sure you can do better :)))
2007-09-25 12:24:59 · answer #5 · answered by drakke1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay he stole from you, why didnt he ask, i think iuf there is no trust in a relationship why bother wasting time on such saddos and live your life to the full
get rid of him
2007-09-25 12:23:17 · answer #6 · answered by Perfectionist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
money is always a big problem, just think about what he did and ask yourself if you want that in your life. it suck to have someone steal the money you worked hard for
2007-09-25 12:24:06 · answer #7 · answered by Fatboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him thats just the start of things going on behind your back
2007-09-25 12:24:45 · answer #8 · answered by coach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's his money too why can't he just take it... does he really have to ask for his money? I agree though he shouldn't be lying about it.
2007-09-25 12:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Kamunyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just dump him, your boyfriend is a low life thief and shouldnt be bothered with.
2007-09-25 12:30:02 · answer #10 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋