Family & Relationships - 25 September 2007

2007-09-25 11:29:15 · 23 answers · asked by jwallman24 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends stole from me! (No Wetzal, it's not you!!!)
I know who it is and what they stole because I saw them do it!
They did it right in front of me but I didn't say anything right then because I was so freaked!
Any suggestions?

2007-09-25 11:28:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf found out i was sleeping with a nother guy and got really mad and called me a filty hoe! and wants to get back together now! what to do?

2007-09-25 11:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like a lot of women trivialize men's needs in a relationship. If a bf/husband is supportive of his wife, and fufills her emotional needs, isn't she somewhat obligated, as a good partner and wife, to fulfill her bf/husbands needs?

(This is of course providing that he's unselfish in the bedroom, and doesn't expect it like five times a day or anything...)

2007-09-25 11:26:45 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got engaged to my fiance. Last night, the question came up about my bachelor party. We both have preconceived notions of what the limits should be. First off, I love my wife to be very much and can't wait to settle down and begin our lives together. Prior to seriously dating her, I lived a fairly wild life and come from a more open background than she does. Her limit is that of "look, but don't touch", where touching is considered cheating. My definition is intercourse or oral. Having been to a strip club before, to me, lap dances are pretty meaningless. Her perception of a strip club is more akin to a brothel. Any attempts to tell her how it really is gets brushed off. How can we discuss this productively? Its not that I feel the need to get a lap dance, but I dont want to be told what I cant do. I want to just be able to confront the issue when it presents itself, and be able say goodbye to that part of my life and move on with her.

2007-09-25 11:25:44 · 22 answers · asked by ZombieExpert 2 in Weddings

Ok, well, I have a small and slim body type and some of my friends are like "omg you're so cute/tiny!" or "wow you're small" or "you're so skinny!!!!". It's getting on my nerves. I know, there are worse things than being called small, but it's annoying all the same. Help?

2007-09-25 11:22:53 · 7 answers · asked by Pastor of Muppets 5 in Friends

I'm a 14 year old freshman, and my father passed away this morning after 1 and a half years of battling with cancer. Any advise with getting through this?? Thank you very much.

2007-09-25 11:18:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why or why not?
I have had someone say a man I am related to who is much older is my date and worse when he had the same last name.
I thought someone who is a guy was dating an older hag when she is related to him.
How do we prevent this?
Do we not hire family?

2007-09-25 11:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by * 4 in Family

I am a grown woman with 2 teenage children and a wonderful husband of 23 years. I don't have any girlfriends really. I mean I am friendly with the women that I work with. I just don't really have a best girlfriend. My husband is probably my best friend and I have a great relationship with my sister, mom, and an 81 year old neighbor. Still, I don't really have anyone my age that I am "very" close to. I was wondering if any other women are like me. Is it just that we are so busy that we don't have time to make friends?

2007-09-25 11:13:44 · 1 answers · asked by i'm trying 3 in Friends

How long were you in a LDR before it got sour? What made you end it? Or are you still together???

I'm more interested in those that were not formed online.

2007-09-25 11:12:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

MY SISTER IS SOOOOOOOOOOO EFFIN ANNOYING! im doing homework and shes always bugging me! she does much more and tattles on me and i wanna beat her up sooooooo bad! i wanna get back at her and thats where u come in. i want any way to get back at her not jst "moooommmmyyyyyyy" im 11 yrs old, thats just childish. I want something like a practical joke like "water in a bucket on her door" trick except my mom would literally kill me if i hurt her or get her sopping wet. I just need a way. any way to get her to realize how much she bugs me and so she'll never do it again! no im not gonna sit down and talk with her, shes my sister, c'mon.

2007-09-25 11:10:55 · 2 answers · asked by shnish 4 in Family

There's this guy in my social studies class, he's new and pretty popular, He sits in front of me in social studies. We flirted the whole class, that is until Mr. Burney yelled "CAMERON! Turn around and quit staring at Molly!!" He turned bright red, the whole class laughed. then Mr. Burney said "We AAALLLL know you and Molly were flirting." More laughter. 5 minutes later we were laughing and grinning again.
Then Mr. Burney is reeeaaallly mad, "CAMERON QUIT FLIRTING WITH MOLLY!!, YOU GUYS ARE LOOKING AT EACH OTHER GIGGLING AND SMILING." While the class was busting a gut, it was my turn to turn redder than Cameron.

I think he likes me? Does he? How do i get him to notice me? Or has he already?

One more thing, he's black and im white, i'm afraid someone will make rude comments.

2007-09-25 11:10:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-09-25 11:05:57 · 6 answers · asked by janigurl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mutual attraction?
Physical looks
Personality
Compatibility
?
?

2007-09-25 11:04:33 · 10 answers · asked by janigurl 2 in Singles & Dating

My sister is a gold digger her first husband was a rich old man and then two months after they got married she divorced him, Her second husband was another rich old guy and then she divorced him after half a year, and now she’s marrying a rich fat guy. No one in are family is going to the wedding (except are parent) she keeps calling my brother, my cousins, and me. She will not leave us alone, how can I make her understand how we feel about this and to leave us alone?

2007-09-25 11:03:33 · 2 answers · asked by Shan Patridge 2 in Family

First off i love him very much and i know he loves me,and i have heard from his sister he has said good things about us and he opens up to her about stuf.He has taken on 3 jobs now and i went from seeing him 4x wk to 2x wk, then to 1.I know he is trying to save for a new car and own place,so i let him know that i respect that and would be there for him.He said hes sorry,hes just been working a lot,he still said i love you,would kiss me,ect. we were suppose to chill he didnt answer,the next day didnt answer,VERY unlike him at all... I wrote him an email,i said i know you work one job to the next and when home sleep,ive been there with him, but i feel like sometimes he just deosnt care,hell forget about my family things, and i dont want a relationship where i see him once ever 2wks,i said i want this to work,but if he didnt have time for me to let me know,and to be able to look me in my eyes and tell me.well now i havent heard from him at all. his sister said he has been miserble ther 2.

2007-09-25 11:02:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Im sending my gf flowers at work, and I dont want the card to say "just because". I think thats a little played out, and Id like some help coming up with something original. I was thinking "just something to brighten up your week" or something along those lines. Thoughts?

2007-09-25 11:02:10 · 12 answers · asked by methodistmaniak 2 in Singles & Dating

Obviously we're intending to send thank you cards out from all our gifts we recieve during showers and our reception. my fiance and i found these thank you cards and think they're hilarious (this really all depends on your sense of humor). We really want to send them...obviously as a joke, but we're trying to come up with the best way to do it.

I feel if we send that by itself and wait a week to send the real ones..it gives people too much time to get offended. We're also going to send out the thoughtful hand written notes as well...we're just wanting to know the best way to go about it.

Everyone knows we're kinda quirky and out there though..im just not sure.

any advice?


here are the joke thank you cards btw.

http://www.knockknock.biz/commerce/Cards/Everyday-Cards/Boxed-Cards/Thank-You-Bridal.html

2007-09-25 11:01:23 · 15 answers · asked by Courtney 4 in Weddings

ok so we pretty much would be filthy rich if my fther was any smarter....but we are just middle class...my dad recently invested 15k and got 2 back....
how can I say to my dad let me handle the money without taking his pride away?
I mean is not that just occasion he has a book worth of stupid crap....

he is so proud, I mean you tell him something he goes is my life my money...I need to fix that...I mean I'm working on a financial degree in college and he still says he knows money about money

thanks a good answer gets best answer for sure

2007-09-25 10:59:20 · 7 answers · asked by MNNNN 1 in Family

so this boy used to live in my apartment and we used to hang out like everyday. but like 3-4 years ago he moved now we go to the same middle school and he doesn't say hi!! my friend asked him if he knew me at first he said no but then he said yes. he just looks at me and looks away real quick sometimes he doesn't even look at me. theres no way i am asking him if he remembers me cause i'm not adventurous! so please help!! opinion? Advice?

2007-09-25 10:58:19 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Could you stay with someone like this?

Some woman called me on Sunday and they told me "you don't know me, but I know you and I know him" and she mentioned our names. She told me personal info about me that he tells her during phone sex sessions. I believe this to be a phone sex operator. She told me "enough is enough" and decided to come clean with me about whats going on with him. She said he is heavily into phone sex.

I knew he was looking at porn and I had told him I was very upset about it. We had just spent 5 nice days together and then in the middle of a phone argument I get this call from her. She really threw a wrench into our whole relationship!!! Now Im dealing with it. He continues to deny its going on, and says this person is lying. I feel she has compelling evidence. She knows my whereabouts and only he and I know, so he must have told her. What would U DO? Could you stay with someone like this? IS THERE ANY HOPE.

I will add details 2 responses so please read.

2007-09-25 10:55:45 · 6 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Singles & Dating

beat the snot out of someone because they are extremely lazy, do nothing at work except socialize (but still get paid for it like they are doing the work), smell really bad because of the over-application of perfume, are chronic liars, and always have "the same thing" happen to them, regardless of if it is impossible or not? What did you do to cope with this urge?

2007-09-25 10:51:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been taking my best friends child to school on and off for about a year and a half. First it was just every so often as a favor, now it's 3 days a week. I don't mind doing favors now and again but this has become an obligation. Her school is about 14 miles round trip each day. My question is how do I get myself out of this without hurting any feelings, she is going through some stuff right now and I'd like to be sensative to that. I will also add that I do several other small favors for her as well and I'd kinda like to put a stop to that too.

2007-09-25 10:51:40 · 3 answers · asked by I got answers! 4 in Friends

I know I asked this before but I need some input! Please!
There is this guy who at times, I think likes me, and then other times, I think the opposite. Around five times last year during the school year, he asked me out. I told him I didn't want a boyfriend at the moment (this happened each time). He with me when I see him and maybe I would take this as a sign but he flirts with a couple of other girls too. I know that sometime between the times he asked me out, he asked out someone else. I don't know what to make of this behavior because I know he thinks I'm good-looking and I don't know what his real intentions are when he acts like this. Then this year, he asked me out again, asking me to give him a chance. This was a couple of weeks ago. My response was, "I'll think about it" because I had to decide whether I liked him or not. And then recently (yesterday), he asked me yet again and he said to me: "All my guys know I like you a lot and I wish you were the same."

2007-09-25 10:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A woman was depressed because she brake up with her boyfriend, and met his neighbor, just to hangout.He didn't have no apart. so she said:O.K you can stay with me while you get an aprt.But passing the time they fell in love and got married (now been 3 years, no kids).Then, last year she met this young guy at work, that changed her life.He is hansome,funny, likes to talk,romantic etc.They started like friends, but one day she said to him that she likes him and kissed him. After that she can't stop thinking about the young guy. He have done things that no man have done to her, even her husband.She said that she don't have sex with her husband since she met the young guy.She said that she is o.k with her husband but they are better as friends.This young guy is the love of her life, all she wants in a man, he has it. SHE IS 28, SHE IS A NURSE EARN $40 DOLLARS PER HOUR,HER HUSBAND IS 26 EARN $10,YOUNG GUY 20 EARN $9 AND IS X-RAY STUDENT. WHO WOULD YOU PICK? HUSBAND OR THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE?

2007-09-25 10:45:15 · 24 answers · asked by Yulien 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have spent the last 12 years showering my wife with love, attention, consideration, gifts, trips, dinners, drinks, and excitement. It didn't take her long to come to expect these things regularly. Now she's a stay at home mom to our twin daughters, and I have a home office. But it's taking it's toll. Am I wrong to expect her to wake up before 10am when the babies wake up? Am I wrong to expect her to keep the house clean? Am I wrong to ask HER to cook once in a while? Am I wrong for expecting her to go to the grocery store once in a while instead of the mall? I love my wife dearly and we have a WILD personal life behind closed doors! But lately I just feel like we've been lousy partners. How do I get things to be more 50/50 instead of 70/30? How do I get her to see that that the world doesn't revolve around her and HER wants & needs and that I have wants and needs too? How do you "un-spoil" a wife? (no we don't live in Orange County CA!)

2007-09-25 10:45:10 · 18 answers · asked by ? 5 in Marriage & Divorce

what are some good phone conversation topics if i start to feel a conversation is stalling? i want to keep a convo i'm having tonight flowing.

2007-09-25 10:44:38 · 14 answers · asked by tg 1 in Singles & Dating

we have so much in common and he's really funny and really great but he's just obssessed with sex. and i want to go out with him but not have sex with him. what do i do? and don't tell me there's plenty of fish in the sea cause guys generally don't like me. they think im hot but too weird.

2007-09-25 10:41:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A lot of people think that by dating there gonna get over there brokenheart which may help but is dangerous for yourself or the person your dating.

Its been 2 months since things ended with my ex and Im still very hurt.I try to date but for some reason I feel I cant do it.I mean there always seems to be something wrong with the girl and I gotta let her go.In my mind Im shaking my girl saying "Why did you do this to us.Now I have to go through all this again".I know I still need a lot of time to heal.

I told this girl Im dating,not to get close to me cause my hearts to messed up to be in any relationship.I treat her good but I just dont care for anything serious with her or anyone.But Im honest with her so she can decide what to do.But she still tries for me and tells me that everything will be OK and shes different.

Im affraid shes gonna get hurt and then blame me that I only wanted 1 thing but its not like that.I think I should just let her go.What do I do?

2007-09-25 10:41:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Even if he is on meds and seems better and is getting the help he needs and moving on in life and doesn't want to hear her problems (that he created- even when she tried to get away but he kept after her and she couldn't get a restraining order at first) while she is still tortured by memories of the past and worries of what he will do to her, especially if he gets off the meds or needs an adjustment?
She has been through counseling, and can't afford for her to get the help she needs. The husband is getting his help but barely able to pay for it. It is either he gets help or she does. He makes too much to qualify for financial assistance but in cases of mental illness like this, the money seems to disappear.

2007-09-25 10:38:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce