First off i love him very much and i know he loves me,and i have heard from his sister he has said good things about us and he opens up to her about stuf.He has taken on 3 jobs now and i went from seeing him 4x wk to 2x wk, then to 1.I know he is trying to save for a new car and own place,so i let him know that i respect that and would be there for him.He said hes sorry,hes just been working a lot,he still said i love you,would kiss me,ect. we were suppose to chill he didnt answer,the next day didnt answer,VERY unlike him at all... I wrote him an email,i said i know you work one job to the next and when home sleep,ive been there with him, but i feel like sometimes he just deosnt care,hell forget about my family things, and i dont want a relationship where i see him once ever 2wks,i said i want this to work,but if he didnt have time for me to let me know,and to be able to look me in my eyes and tell me.well now i havent heard from him at all. his sister said he has been miserble ther 2.
2007-09-25 11:02:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
also,he lives with his sister and her husband,his sister is like his best friend,when i went by there she was like he has def. been acting weird this last week,shes like i think hes working too much, i told her about everything,shes like that is weird.she usualy chills with him too,shes like i havent chill with him in like a week, i told her ive tried to call him i was worried something happened thats why i came by, he hasnt even called back. so now i havent talk to him in a week tomorrow. the last time we talked he did mention he didnt want to just keep me on the back burner, he wanted me to me happy,than the next day was the day we were suppose to chill and he didnt asnwer,so then that is when i decided to write the email.i didnt want to end the relationship bc he worked alot,i only wanted him to make some time for me. if he thinks ill be happier without him,no. i love him.my last call i left a message that just said,i love you i miss, i guess you dont want to be w me anymore.
2007-09-25 11:14:28 · update #1
why is every one assuming i dotn have a job...i do!!!! lol....and sorry about my spelling i am typing so fast, and i am sad...leave my spelling alone....finacial aid, ive been to college hunny
2007-09-25 11:18:12 · update #2
wow everyone is making me feel like ****....i work two jobs, graduated college, always drove to his house, bought him food...i know i was a good gf...and he has been a good bf...he def is not the cheating type...one he has been hurt, hes talk to me about it, and hes sister who is like his best friend too has been hurt, hes dad passed away, he has been a good man....anyway...most of you are making me feel like ****,,,thanks for nothing....
2007-09-25 11:22:29 · update #3
Please work on your spelling...please.
2007-09-25 11:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any time someone has to work three jobs to make ends eet, it creates a hardship on himself and on the people who love him. That is no way to live life at all. He wants a new car. That would be nice. But what he needs to do is save his money so he can enroll in college or a trade school. If he doesn't, his life will be long and hard and eventually, he will become bitter about it. Then he will become angry when he sees all the things he cannot have. He may be at that point now.
As for you, yes , you love him. But love doesn't pay the rent or put food on the table.
2007-09-25 11:11:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My, my, aren't you the demanding little thing? The man works three jobs, for God's sake. He goes from one job to another. He barely has time to shower, sh-t, and shave. He is trying to save for a new car and his own place (and maybe a place for you, too, if you would think about it) and you don't care if he rests or not, so long as he is there, sucking up to you. Sorry, honey, I have no sympathy for you. Why don't you get out there and get a job, too. Many you two could start saving jointly for the things you want. You have a man who is willing to work very hard for the things he wants in life, and you are about to screw it up, big time.
2007-09-25 11:10:12 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in that same position as ur in now. my boyfriend is always workin and i only see him like once a week and sometimes even two. i talk to him almost everyday but i get tierd of this sh*t, but he always says he loves me and he says he has to work that much because we have a baby on the way (im 34 weeks prego). It gets old but i live with it we are finally gettin a place together in a week. so it will pay for all the time he has been away. ur bf might be trying to do all he needs to do but once he is done it will be about you.
2007-09-25 11:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by *Young & Beautiful* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks that saving up for a car is more important than spending time with you, don't even bother with him. You've let him know that it won't work if things continue like this and if he doesn't care or if he doesn't take notice, then it's time to move on and get over him.
Good luck!
2007-09-25 11:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cleaners, theres a UN video on youtube, the position they interview someone in Belgium who reported a woman is termed a "cleansing woman" a guy is termed a "floor technition" so as that they can get distinct pay, also checkout operators, adult men get better than females, for no reason. EDIT: properly, the UN vid confirmed it happening in Belgium, Ive also heard of it happening in Walmart, (howdy, i worked in a food market too :P ) yet what occurs alot is that womens paintings is undervalued, like, maximum admin crew are females, and its seen "womens paintings", ie, no longer as sturdy as mens paintings, becasue its "effortless" yet i understand admin workers, and they do a helluva lot of work for a pathetically low pay, and that i canthelp yet ask your self if there replaced right into a guy in that specific same interest, might want to he get extra pay? it might want to correctly be an thrilling attempt to come across out, we'd want to continuously attempt it sometime.
2016-10-20 03:18:18 · answer #6 · answered by leinen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BRACE YOURSELF....
My fiance is in the Army. Since July 10th, I've seen her once. And only for a weekend. I'll see her again at the end of October. In the middle of November, she goes to Iraq for 12-15 months. You have it EASY. Just bear with him or help him out. Things will get worse before they get better. Just be patient......
2007-09-25 11:12:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if someone forgets all about the things they were supposed to do or places they were supposed to be(with their long-term gf), they don't care. Working alot is not an excuse for missed dates and unreturned phone calls.You gave him the ultimatum, and he won't respond to it. It sounds like he is trying to get you to break up with him ( by being a jerk)so then it's "your fault" instead of his. I'm sorry I sound so negative.
2007-09-25 11:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by Alliegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get financial aid and he can go to college OR maybe u can get a job he can have a job and both of u get a part time job why is he the only one working? Good luck...
2007-09-25 11:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a job? If you dont, why dont you offer to get a job so he does not have to work as much so you can see each other more often.
That would show him that you really care and want to be with him.
2007-09-25 11:06:34 · answer #10 · answered by Dimitar A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probally pissed that hes doing all this to better HIS life and your being selfish. If its a truely loving relationship, youll wait for him to finish his chaos and later you can stop and smell the roses together. Either that or if one of his jobs is in the restaurant business he's probally shacking up with a waitress... infamous hookup jobs!... G luck
2007-09-25 11:08:10 · answer #11 · answered by mac/pc man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋