I know I asked this before but I need some input! Please!
There is this guy who at times, I think likes me, and then other times, I think the opposite. Around five times last year during the school year, he asked me out. I told him I didn't want a boyfriend at the moment (this happened each time). He with me when I see him and maybe I would take this as a sign but he flirts with a couple of other girls too. I know that sometime between the times he asked me out, he asked out someone else. I don't know what to make of this behavior because I know he thinks I'm good-looking and I don't know what his real intentions are when he acts like this. Then this year, he asked me out again, asking me to give him a chance. This was a couple of weeks ago. My response was, "I'll think about it" because I had to decide whether I liked him or not. And then recently (yesterday), he asked me yet again and he said to me: "All my guys know I like you a lot and I wish you were the same."
2007-09-25 10:47:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I told him that I can never really be sure if he is being sincere with me and
his response was: "I swear to god I will prove it to you and I really like you a lot, I'm going to show you that I care and I want to be with you badly." All of this (including the previous times he asked me out) happened over text messaging. I told him I didn't want to do it over the phone and I'd talk to him about it tomorrow. During school, he didn't say a word to me but asked me about it while we were walking home. I decided at that point that I was thinking too much and I decided to go and do whatever it is I felt like doing at that point and so I kissed him on the cheek. His response was TOTALLY blase like he didn't even care! His friend called him a little bit later and made a sexual joke about us and he got annoyed. I would take that as I good sign but...I am so confused! Help me make sense of this behavior PLEASE! He is 17 if that is of any help.
2007-09-25 10:50:51 · update #1
Is he a jock? Only thing he wants from you is a booty call.
2007-09-25 10:52:21 · answer #1 · answered by C93 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I ask a girl to out go out with me then she says no. Then go some where else. There are plenty of fishes out in the sea.
2007-09-25 17:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by Mattman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like a boy driven from desperation. He just wants to have a girlfriend and he doesn't care who she is..that's why he is asking more than one girl out at a time.
Find yourself a good boy that has only eyes for you.
:-)
Goodluck.
- ashummz05@yahoo.com
2007-09-25 17:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Oops, did I say that? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a chance he seems to really like you, let him prove it to you. stop being so god damned worryed about it, and dont give it up to him ethier unless ur ready for it, because it may be all he wants , but i doubt it
2007-09-25 17:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by *Young & Beautiful* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋