A woman was depressed because she brake up with her boyfriend, and met his neighbor, just to hangout.He didn't have no apart. so she said:O.K you can stay with me while you get an aprt.But passing the time they fell in love and got married (now been 3 years, no kids).Then, last year she met this young guy at work, that changed her life.He is hansome,funny, likes to talk,romantic etc.They started like friends, but one day she said to him that she likes him and kissed him. After that she can't stop thinking about the young guy. He have done things that no man have done to her, even her husband.She said that she don't have sex with her husband since she met the young guy.She said that she is o.k with her husband but they are better as friends.This young guy is the love of her life, all she wants in a man, he has it. SHE IS 28, SHE IS A NURSE EARN $40 DOLLARS PER HOUR,HER HUSBAND IS 26 EARN $10,YOUNG GUY 20 EARN $9 AND IS X-RAY STUDENT. WHO WOULD YOU PICK? HUSBAND OR THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE?
2007-09-25
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Yulien
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➔ Marriage & Divorce
*shakes head*
2007-09-25 10:51:01
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answer #1
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answered by ? 4
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First, I'd tell the nurse to go back to school and learn how to write English. Then, I'd decide what is was I wanted in a marriage partner, and I think I'd stop sleeping around. and hanging out.... If this person is you, you are into what is called serial monogomy... a bed jumper...one after the other, probably now at 28, you have been doing this for at least 16 years. . Stay with one, then another, then another. You are what is as well called shallow... directionless. From this posting, you have no idea what the difference is between love, and lust....
In your place, I'd get into counseling, and find out what it was I was really searching for... make a list. Mine at your age looked something like this:
1. Have a job he liked and that paid him well
2. Same religion and politics as mine.
3. Have no children he was still supporting, or better yet, no children at all.
4. Non-smoker.
5. Had his head on straight.
6. Didn't mind that I had hobbies I did without him (showed horses, judged horse shows)
7. Have hobbies himself that I was not expected to participate in (he liked to ski and sail.... I hated both)
9. Agreed on how extra money should be spent and saved
10. Have lots of things we liked to do together and with friends.
11. Knew how to read write and speak the English language
12. A guy I could admire and respect, and trust.
13. Didn't do drugs.
14. Able to make a commitment.
The list goes on, but these are the important ones
You asked.
2007-09-25 18:18:21
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answered by April 6
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I would stay with my husband and not have put myself into this horrible situation... what kind of person does this stuff to the man they vowed to love and be faithful to??? It is sorry people like this that ruin men for the rest of the women population... A truely "GOOD" person would have never admitted that she liked some other man in the first place... Marriage is sacred... I think that people forget this... It is only natural to feel attraction to another person, but everyone has a point where they have to make a decision... do I act on this? Do I hurt the one I am with and risk losing it all??? Good luck
2007-10-03 08:11:30
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answered by daniegirl917 2
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Right away, I would choose the husband. Sex performance, age and present earnings are not the real measure of a person I want to be with the rest of my life. There are a lot more important considerations I take into account.
2007-09-25 17:51:50
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answered by Belen 5
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Yall all sound stupid, cause why is her husband still with her , he has to know something is up if she no longer has sex with him, she stupid for falling in love with a lil boy that only makes $9/hour (not to bash u, good luck in school), u u're silly for believing anything that come out her mouth. cause if she cheats she lies and you would have to be a fool to think that she will not lie, cheat and do ever she wants to to you when the time comes, assumably 3 yrs, since that is her track record
2007-10-03 12:47:25
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answered by shaunda 2
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Seems like stargirl is a player. She obviously does not know what she wants. Actually, she is a reason why men are such bitches to women. She is the ideal reason why men use women.
I would have stuck with my husband. After all, we have been through alot. I know him. He is more mature than xray dude.
Can't you knock some sense into this woman? Or is this woman u?????
2007-10-03 12:20:45
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answered by Anonymous
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Sounds like you've already picked the "love of your life" over your husband :(
Just be careful - Karma is a BlTCH !
Plus - when the X-ray student is old, fat, and imoptent from too much radiation - you can always bounce on to the next young guy that shows you any affection.
You too deserve each other - sick !!!
2007-09-25 17:51:06
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answered by aa889d 5
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Real love does not behave this way.A real woman would work on her marriage and love her husband.This male she has found is a DOG and will use and abuse her when he is done.But lust is blind! The woman should repent while there is still time.Stay with the man that has made a commitment to her,maybe he will forgive her betrayal.
2007-10-02 22:00:45
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answered by Anonymous
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I never would have picked the young man in the first place, as I was married. So, my husband.
2007-09-25 18:24:11
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answered by pussycat 5
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I f I was either one of these guys, I wouldn't pick HER. Even then I wouldn't base "picking" someone on how much they make per hour. I'd say stay with the husband if he still wants her, its always cheaper to stay together-since she cheated, he could ask for alimony.
2007-10-03 16:58:25
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answered by Jody H 2
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The spell of the young guy will wear off too, then off to another
"love of her life" The Black Widow will hunger for more prey.
2007-10-02 17:38:21
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answered by rainydaze 5
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