Long distance relationships...?

Question

How long were you in a LDR before it got sour? What made you end it? Or are you still together???

I'm more interested in those that were not formed online.

Answer 1

Mine lasted 6 months after he was transferred to another state. I wasn't ready to leave my home, family, friends and career. We did OK but he began pushing for me to leave towards the end and I just called it all off. We actually were engaged prior to him leaving. Worse thing for us wasn't the distance but the fact he accepted such a move without really discussing it with me. I think that killed it more then the distance, it was the beginning of the decline.

Now I have a man who is 2 hours away but his odd schedule is the hard part. We are going on 5 months and not sour but we do have frustrating moments. Part of a relationship is the gentle touches on a bad day, those are hard to go without.

Answer 2

Zoe, sorry but mine was on-line. I met this women on-line a little over 3 years ago and we lived 2.5 hours from each other. We spoke on the phone or on-line every night and after about 3 months ended up meeting each other. We dated for 3 years and just May 20 of this year walked down the aisle together. I am one lucky individual I realize because there are a lot of horror stories about both long distance relationships and meeting on line. Sure before I met my wife I was chatting it up with some losers and users but was careful with the amout of info I shared with them. There are people on line that are there to find a cash machine, thankfully I was blessed by meeting my soul mate. Felt like the biggest loser in the world even going to such extremes to meet someone but all worked out and I am very grateful to report that.

Answer 3

i was in one for a month and a half i loved her so much, one day she called me and said it was over have not heard from her sence, my heart is still broken ans it still hurts, its been over for about 2 weeks