we have so much in common and he's really funny and really great but he's just obssessed with sex. and i want to go out with him but not have sex with him. what do i do? and don't tell me there's plenty of fish in the sea cause guys generally don't like me. they think im hot but too weird.
2007-09-25 10:41:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't like you. He wants to have sex with you.
2007-09-25 10:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No no no, forget it, there's lots of guys out there that like weird and i'm sure your not as weird as you think you are. Players are all usually great and funny because they all just want to charm you into bed. Be strong and you won't have any regrets. Just remember, if you do take that plunge your having sex with everyone he's had sex with ugh!!!
2007-09-25 17:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Lynn H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So go out with him, but be aware that everybody in school is going to think you are having sex with him whether you are or not, because that is his reputation. And soon it will be your reputation, too. But whatever you do, don't have sex with him because, honey, you don't know where that thing has been. He is a walking time bomb, just looking for an STD. And whether other guys generally like you or not, dating him will not be worth the grief you get over it.
2007-09-25 17:47:31 · answer #3 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his sex drive it a 10 and yours is a 0 (not that you wouldn't enjoy sex, but you don't want to have it) then that will cause too much sexual frustration for him and too much emotional pain for you to bear because you will begin feeling obligated to have sex with him due to all the pain you're causing him by choosing celibacy.
I say don't go for it because it will cause too much of a disturbance in the relationship. Let me say that I am very proud of your choice to withhold from sex.
2007-09-25 17:48:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jewish FiLiPiNo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh...btw, i like your name...questionable...It kinda fits. Anywho...if you don't wanna have sex with the guy (which I advise to be something you do AFTER marriage), then I would either talk to him about not having it while going out, or not go out with him at all. Guys that are obsessed with sex...it's not right. And there's always the chance he's got a disease...so I would consider the results of your actions before you make any.
2007-09-25 17:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by XDefineDX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Saying he has sex with everyone is maybe a gross generilization. Maybe he has been around the block, however to hate him because of it is rediculus, maybe it was more the girls he had date before then were very easy. Just make it known from the start that you want to take it slow, and if is ok with that then fine, if not then dont bother with him because that will truly show his character.
2007-09-25 17:47:23 · answer #6 · answered by Lennon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hate guys like that and i kno exaxtly how u feel my bf is obsessed with it too. thats what it always seems like at least. i am 34 weeks pregnant and have not been in the mood to have sex the last couple months it is just so uncomfortable but yet he is always beggin. just dont give in to him and c what happens if he respects ur descion and if he really likes u he will stay with u otherwise he might leave you just tell him about it and c what happens. good luck
2007-09-25 17:49:47 · answer #7 · answered by *Young & Beautiful* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like it is going to work.
You want a non-sexual dating relationship. He wants a sexual relationship or simply to have sex with people.
These are two different goals.
So in order for this to work you are going to have to either decide to have a sexual relationship, which is no guarantee he will be faithful. Or you try and convince him to have a non-sexual relationship (good luck with that).
But in any case I don't see an obvious solution to your problem. Relationships rarely work unless both partners have similar goals.
2007-09-25 17:43:45 · answer #8 · answered by ZCT 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you he will wait! If he doesn't respect your decision than it isn't worth being with him. That just means he is picking sex over you. Again men are men. lol..they are going to want sex...but if he has been with a lot of girls..make sure he doesnt have deceases
2007-09-25 17:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by MisSy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is that way, then what makes you think he will go out with you if you are not willing to give up the goods? Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Maybe you can change him, but don't hold your breath.
2007-09-25 17:44:29 · answer #10 · answered by ☆Zestee☆ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋