A lot of people think that by dating there gonna get over there brokenheart which may help but is dangerous for yourself or the person your dating.
Its been 2 months since things ended with my ex and Im still very hurt.I try to date but for some reason I feel I cant do it.I mean there always seems to be something wrong with the girl and I gotta let her go.In my mind Im shaking my girl saying "Why did you do this to us.Now I have to go through all this again".I know I still need a lot of time to heal.
I told this girl Im dating,not to get close to me cause my hearts to messed up to be in any relationship.I treat her good but I just dont care for anything serious with her or anyone.But Im honest with her so she can decide what to do.But she still tries for me and tells me that everything will be OK and shes different.
Im affraid shes gonna get hurt and then blame me that I only wanted 1 thing but its not like that.I think I should just let her go.What do I do?
2007-09-25 10:41:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Don't be selfish, if you really don't like her and have no plans in pursuing something serious, then let her go. Your just gonna hurt her in the long run, because your heart really isn't there!! Basically your just using her for a piece of A**, even though you said "it wasn't like that," Thats exactly what it is.
2007-09-25 10:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK rules of getting back into the swing of things after a relationship.
1) self esteem sex, go have some fun not someone you love just a gal for fun, don't lie to her or mislead her, but don't' get hooked on her
2)Rebound girl. You're gonna have a rebound girl, this is a gal you really fall for, it's gonna feel like love, but deep down you know she's not the one, you will have to have at least one rebound girl
3) never talk about the ex or any other women when you're with another woman or on a date. Never ever do this. It might give them bad insight into your situation. And they really don't want to hear about ex lovers or relationships
Follow these three things and you will be back on your feet in 6m. to a yr
Good Luck
2007-09-25 10:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take a vacation to an exotic land and clear your head. Out of sight out of mind. Then return with a fresh outlook.
2007-09-25 10:50:13 · answer #3 · answered by wishuponstarson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should back off on dating for a while. it's not fair to you or the girl to compare her to your ex. no woman wants that. go out with your buddys or a group instead. join a bowling league or something. anything to get you out in the world w/o the worry of dating.
2007-09-25 10:46:58 · answer #4 · answered by racer 51 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋