my bf found out i was sleeping with a nother guy and got really mad and called me a filty hoe! and wants to get back together now! what to do?
2007-09-25 11:27:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are a filthy hoe. You should consider yourself lucky that he wants anything to do with you. If you want to be with him then be with him, if not then tell him no.
2007-09-25 11:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by California Kush 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While I don't believe in name-calling, you can understand your boyfriend's anger at your infidelity. The idea behind having a steady guy or gal is exclusivity;hence, there is always pain and anger when there is a violation of that belief.However, if you still love your boyfriend and want to resume your romance, then you have to:1) acknowledge your mistake2) apologize for it and ask him to forgive you3)promise not to repeat it and mean it4)if possible, find out why it -the cheating- happened,discuss it, and try to find ways to prevent it from occurring again5) do your best to strengthen your current relationship to bring you both closer. These actions will help you both get over a bad period in your romance, and move forward in a stronger more positive direction. But if for your own reasons you do not want to repair your broken relationship and stay with your boyfriend,then you should let him know that now and each go your separate ways hopefully remaining friends.I will suggest you think long and hard before you end it though. Remember, what goes around comes around; also do unto others as you want done to you. Think about it.
2007-09-25 11:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and stop being a filty hoe.
2007-09-25 11:31:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he wants to get back together even though you are sleeping with another guy then that means he doesn't mind sharing. So unless you wanted to keep the other guy a secret I really don't see the problem.
2007-09-25 11:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait - your BF and your LOVER are two different people? That just doesn't make any sense. Pick one.
and if your BF isn't your lover, then don't waste his time by trying to get back together with him.
2007-09-25 11:33:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a filthy hoe and you're lucky he's willing to take you back.
2007-09-25 11:31:54 · answer #6 · answered by Arnold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are heartless, i think he deserves better than you, and you should just save him the pain and turn him down before you hurt him again.
2007-09-25 11:55:37 · answer #7 · answered by nochance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure go ahead but expect him to either treat you like sh1t, different, or cheat on you.
2007-09-25 11:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by Sol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋