We talk 3 time a day and were flirting back and forth, then I found out he has a girlfriend and seems pretty happy with her. He doesn't seem to see anything wrong with it, but I'm a little uncomfortable. Am I overreacting? Is it wrong to keep talking to him?
2007-09-25 01:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by crazyjen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should tone down the flirting and put it back on strictly friendly based conversation
who knows how much this girl really likes him and what if she reads your flirting back and fourth?
it would hurt her even if she says personally that she has no problem with it
just imagine how you would react to this if you were her and go with that
2007-09-25 02:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.Now since u know he has a girlfriend u kinda keep the relationship as a friend or just get over it u r never gonna get him.But if he says he is also interested in u and u r also interested in him try taking it slow n try 2 get to know him better, try expressing yourself on who u r so it will be easier for him to decide :)
But if u said that he is ok with it,its better not 2 know him because let's say u got him u may never know what he is doing behind your back like what he is doing to his current girlfriend.
2007-09-25 09:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by asher0063 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are the two of you exchanging nude pictures and undressing each other with each other's keys? Is he typing explicit sexual details with the caps lock on? If not, he's probably just flirting or making small talk. He may actually be building his bench. Ya know, finding quality reserves because the batter is starting to lose her value. When he asks to meet you, that's when he's crossing the line.
2007-09-25 09:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Personal Insult 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that before.
He had a girl,didn't care..flirting big time.
We even wrote letters to each other through mail.
I know the both of us wouldn't let it go further then mail and Ims.But yes you should discontinue talking with him.Even though it's only online,doesn't mean it couldn't become something else.Now,I just think of the immaturity of the both of us
2007-09-25 09:05:49 · answer #4 · answered by First Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only if your not talking as just friends.on my myspace i have a very good friend who i have never met he has a girlfriend but i still talk to him if you guys talk like your dating then sorry too say but it doesn't seem right its technicaly a form of cheating and also how would you feel if you were his grlfriend and and he was talkin to some chick online?
not trying to be rude but think about it from her point of view
2007-09-25 09:03:40 · answer #5 · answered by S[he];BE[li]EV[ed] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, lets put it this way....would you want YOUR boyfriend chatting and flirting with someone else online? Your answer to this question should be the determining factor in what you should do. Good luck.
2007-09-25 09:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Rogue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been through the same thing. Dump him. Leave Him.Move on. But before you do let him know your intensions were for yall to hook up but since he has a gf you feel yall should just be friends. So don't talk to him as much to let him know you feel HURT AND BETRAYED.
2007-09-25 09:02:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't know about what he is doing on line with you, he is a cheater and you are part of the problem if you continue talking to him. Enough said.
2007-09-25 09:04:25 · answer #8 · answered by old crow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you could tone down how often you guys talk. i mean 3 times a day does seem a bit excessive.
2007-09-25 09:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by destiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id stop talking to him if i were you. like, continue to be friends, but don't flirt and limit the amount of time u talk online.
2007-09-25 09:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by {chelser} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋