Women always act like they don't like you, when you're a decent looking guy. And if your actually a nice guy too, then women don't understand that you may be shy, and perhaps you haven't dated every woman in town. You walk in and they ignore you sometimes; it's like you're not even there. And if you try to make a move, sometimes they are even on the defensive. The only way seems to be to overcome all the obstacles oneself (AS A MAN), but that sucks...big time! Especially if you are actually a quiet person.
2007-09-25 01:27:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The feminsts have filled our heads with the fear of sexually harrassing women so we don't know how to approach them anymore.
Old school men like my friend Geoff aren't afraid to be cheeky with women and they flock around him.
2007-09-25 01:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is this - men who are eager to pick up women, whether or not they show it, give off invisible signals that women are able to pick up. So even if you stand at the bar and talk only to some random guy without so much as glancing at a woman, every woman in the place will know if you are out on the hunt.
The only way to overcome this is to stop putting out these signals and you do this by concentrating on pretending woman are just guys that you want to chat to and be friendly and polite to. If that's too difficult, then Plan B is to jam the signal by broadcasting something else, eg appear to be slightly gay or be extra friendly to the ugliest girl around. The latter is always a good move and pays big dividends.
2007-09-25 09:01:42 · answer #2 · answered by Rolande de Haye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you seem confident (pretend you're not shy) and just seem friendly then neither you nor the woman you talk to will feel put on the spot or ill at ease. Ask if they've seen any bad movies lately...or any good ones. Tell a joke. Try to seem spontaneous and unrehearsed. Don't immediately introduce yourself. Try to remain a bit mysterious. That would reel me in.
2007-09-25 14:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by compendious 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree...You're actually pointing me....Strike one!!!
You really remind me of my past...i did that to my supposed bf....But all i knw...im just hiding what's inside myself...but actually...im just afraid to express how much i loved him....i feel insecure...afraid to love....i feel not ready.....priorities..studies..work....family ...religion.....these were my considerations....
But that was 6 years ago...and i learned a lot from it..now i wanted to see him again.............hope he is happy now.....
This time....im waiting for a guy, someone like him.....who will make me important in a lot of ways....
Tnx so much...for the privilege you've given me to share my views...Hope one day, u will understand us...
Anyway, it's just matter of patience & understanding about us, women....All you need is time to know us more....the more you know abt us..the more u will understand us...the more u will learn how to love us better....
2007-09-25 09:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by The Sexytary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is also difficult to approach men by women
2007-09-26 12:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to chill out, man don't try to be cool, just be yourself, a relationship is always based or at least should be based on honesty and not on a lie with you pretending you something you not, would you like to build a relationship on a lie????????????????
2007-09-25 08:35:46 · answer #6 · answered by zuppe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋