When I was passing in the school hallway today I saw the girl that I love with her hand around the shoulder of an another guy.Then they holded hands together,and she laughed about something.Her girlfriends were around him doing similar things.The funny part is that she knows that I love her and she rejected me before,but now she does this just when I was passing by.They weren't doing anything when I was out of her sight.When I returned in the classroom I was ready to kill somebody,I broke stuff,shouted.(we don't study in the same class).I'm pretty much ready to give up of everything in life cause knowing that she's free kept me going.But do you think she did it on purpose or they're just friends(they study together so that is a possibility)?If you want to save a life from a breakdown please answer!
2007-09-25 01:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by DJ Statix 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that what butterfly says is true then I'm going to fall in the deepest depression possible.She is the only thing that I live for.
2007-09-25 01:54:49 · update #1
Well from what u just stated is that her friends and other girls are doing the same thing to the same guy.I think she is doing it on purpose and she is playing hard to get.Girls do those kind of things just to see how u will react.But if u like her just let her know how u feel and if she dosen't like u back then i suggest that u move on.you r still young there are plenty of fishes in the see.Don't get down about it.Trust me if she see that you have moved on she will began to regret and maybe become a little jealous if she see you w/ someone else.I hope this helps you pull yourself together you have alot to look forward to in life.ok
2007-09-25 01:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by lovelace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.
I'm sorry that the girl doesn't feel the same for you... believe me, this has happened to just about every one of us.
Sometimes we feel "chemistry" with someone, but they dont' feel the same thing... She's not trying to hurt you, I'm sure.
Perhaps you could set your sites on going out and doing something with another girl (or two). I'm sure there are a lot of nice girls in your school, and it wouldn't hurt to get to know one or two.
You seem to be feeling very rejected, but believe me when i say, it's not the end of the world (even if it feels like it). Depending upon someone else to "keep you going in life" isn't healthy, hon.
YOU are the person who needs to keep yourself going. Set some goals, find things to keep you occupied. Be proud of yourself and your accomplishments. Happiness comes from the INSIDE, not through others.
If you think you are going to have a breakdown because of this, maybe it's time to see the school counselor, or talk to your parents about some therapy?
Take care of YOU first.
2007-09-25 08:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is nothing wrong when she laughs with her boyfriend or her girlfriends....while they pass on you...as you don't really know what they are talking about. You may be bitter with her esp. that she's holding hands with another guy and that is why it triggered to the thought that it was addressed to you... Well, better not..
If it's hard for you to accept being dumped.. just stay away from her. You do not deserve to be bitter and to be angry...at least you know she does not love you and you don't have to expect anything from her..
Why not give a little glance from the other corner of your eyes.. you do not know,,,, there is someone with whom you can love and will love you back.!
2007-09-25 09:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, I've been in this situation before, exactly where you are. It's the same situation that caused me to use Icebox for my name on this website. However, I didn't have public outbursts like you did, (which she would see as creepy) I let out the frustration in my own home doing things I love like playing video games. Leave this girl alone. Please. It's in your best interest. She acts like that because she likes getting to you. She likes knowing that she has you whipped and crazy about her. It's an ego boost.
Start talking to other girls and pay no attention to her, though if you do see her when you're talking to another girl, I bet if she's anything like mine she'll be looking dead at you. She might start paying more attention to you if you ignore her but don't give her the satisfaction. Don't concentrate on trying to bug her or get her attention, trust me she simply isn't worth it. You don't want to become infactuated with this girl, like I did. Don't give up in your life because some ditzy girl doesn't like you.
Also, there might be another, prettier girl that actually likes you. In my situation, this was the case and I couldn't tell because I was too wrapped up in this girl that acts like the one you're wrapped up in now. I lost out on that girl and I didn't find out she liked me until she moved. Don't let this happen to you.
2007-09-25 10:24:56 · answer #4 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On purpose, she's conveying the message to you she's taken (although she might be not). Do you look or stare hat her too often? She might creep out by that.
This has happened to me also, best thing to do is surround yourself by friends and let it out of your mind. And don't go around going berserk on things, she might not be on the same class with you but word gets around, makes you look bad.
2007-09-25 08:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You don't always get what you want in life and to throw childish rages is not going to help you acquire anything.
2. Drama is very unappealing
3. Simply ask her what's going on instead of the dramatics.
2007-09-25 08:52:28 · answer #6 · answered by mosaic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible that she's doing it on purpose and i know you've heard this before but there's more people out there theres girld out there thats probley loving you like you're love ol'girl just open your eyes and leave her alone .....it will make u look desprate and girl dont like that ......look for someone else..theres more fishes in the sea ...think about it this way do you really want to be with someone that doesnt want to be with you????
2007-09-25 08:56:44 · answer #7 · answered by sexiba89 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she sees you in the hallway in a distance and you walking towards them and if she then started to "flirting" with that guy then she just making you jealous or somewhat trying to make you forgetting her, making you give up
.......or......
she probably flirting with that guy on certain times
Don't let Jealousy take over you, it might cause you to fight the guy who is surrounded by them, do not get steamed just relax if its getting into you. Don't think of anger.
2007-09-25 08:59:07 · answer #8 · answered by Andrew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im gonna answer this...but you may not like the response.
if you are truly this deeply in love with her...let it go...and if its meant to be...she'll come to you..
but if she was to find out about the slamming,shouting,breaking stuff...that might push her away.
because that is signs of violence,and some girls tend to walk away from that.
don't give up...maybe you need to try to do the same thing she is...or maybe you just need to give her time...
i loved a man one time...(still do).....and i loved him so much i walked away..to save him...not me...to save him heartache...
2007-09-25 08:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Susan C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing games with you. In truth she doesn't love neither one of you. She's using him and pissing you off. She's a PLAYER. You have to play the game. So what you do is, you find someone else to play the game with and throw it in her face. See how much she likes that.
2007-09-25 08:59:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋