My grandma is about to die. She is in the hospital. They tried to fix that last time. They being those that said she is okay to die. Me upset at everbody in the room you took everything. She could have lived in another place, she would have been better.
Am I wrong to say she had 200K that financing? Am I wrong to say, maybe if you used the 200K instead of taking it and putting it in your own pocket.
Did they steal it? If that money could have been used to give her 1 more day.
Do I have a right to judge.
2007-09-25 11:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by financing_loans 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
what a sweet child you are and you have such a giving heart i know that you grandma knows your heart and she looks down on you today and wishes that sh could spend one more day with you to ...oh god I am crying
2007-09-25 11:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In this case you have a right to have your opinion. I had a similar situation, my grandmother was perfectly ok, I still recall the day she was standing on the dinning room chair dusting her china cabinet for my youngest uncle's wife's ....... b-day party, (the racist twit) anyway my uncle was suppose to take my grandmother to have a pre-screen to make sure her count was ok. I informed my grandmother that my husband was simply a phone call away or myself to take her to her appt. granny was determined to have her youngest son take her. He didn't and the prescreen was never done, a day later she had chemo (nerve gas) and less than two weeks later my grandmother was no more. I miss her so much, however; I still talk about her (the memories). I have never shed a tear because she is no longer suffering. Usually when the money plays a role the green eyes of greed usually prevail. But know this one thing for certain there is day "Judgment Day" and we will all have to give an account before God.
2007-09-25 12:05:03 · answer #2 · answered by Titus12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very possible that they aren't taking proper care of her, that things could have turned out differently had they done something different with her/their money. Greed might indeed be a motivator rather than caring for her. However, one never knows the decisions faced when caring for an ill parent....it SUCKS. My father had terminal cancer and I remember getting so angry at one point because he wouldn't go see a second doctor/second opinion....and in the end, he did what he wanted to do, got the treatment he wanted to and I had to let go of the anger.
You need to let go of your anger too. If you really feel that your relatives acted poorly, then distance yourself from them, but remember, your grandma wouldn't want you to be an angry bitter young man, she would want you to have a good life, full of good things and feelings.
2007-09-25 12:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not entirely clear on what happened. It might be easier to understand if you didn't make personal opinion statements and just state what happened. Then, we could give our opinion to you.
2007-09-25 11:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by sweetsum691 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we all return to dust in the end,,the saying goes,,let he who has not sinned cast the first stone.judging others puts you down farther on the list of goodness to offer.
2007-09-25 11:52:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are only thinking of her. God is the one to judge and not you. I think He is thinking the same things. But you can't prove it, however God can use their conscious to deal with them.
2007-09-25 11:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by mary 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait....what?
2007-09-25 11:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by MuZzZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋