2007-09-25 12:13:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stay away from that girl and find one who will treasure and protect that special heart of yours, or just stay away from that girl. Like my doctor says, "If it hurts, stop doing it!"
2007-09-25 12:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by momo5j7 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go on by realizing that the person who claws at your heart is not worth loving. Or do you enjoy pain? There are plenty of girls out there and some way more interesting, younger, more beautiful, and more clever than the one you are wasting your time and energy on. Ditch her and be a man.
2007-09-25 12:18:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, I am going to tell you something a little bit different than what I am seeing on these replies.
You need to figure out what is going on. Who is it that keeps repeating the mistakes that are hurting the two of you.
The reason I say this is because most people tend to fall back into patterns of terrible behavior untill they are able to repair whatever it is that caused thier damage in the first place. This may be why you are in such a relationship as now.
I have done this myself, repeat patterns of fighting in relationships. You need to find out why, and then work towards behavior modification either in yourself or your girlfriend to create a better flow of communication.
Usually one person or the other feels undervalued or unloved in some way. Find out what is bothering this girl, what really...if you care to fix it. Otherwise you have no choice but to move on, but you may develop or be attracted to her type because of some unaddressed issues of your own. :) Good Luck hun.-Rachel.
2007-09-25 12:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get away from her, she's no good for you. Do you really need to have your heart broken AND stomped on? I don't know what happened but enough is enough. If you did something that was not good, apologize. You need to move on. It's hard, it unfortunately takes some time... but you'll grow into a stronger person, who is hopefully wiser and in the end happier. Anyone who keeps beating you down is not nice. You deserve better.
2007-09-25 12:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by spiffy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her go you already know she is the one that broke your heart why keep letting her bring you down? Find someone that will love you and treat you with the respect that you deserve and after you have done that then you will be breaking her heart because she no longer has the power to break yours. Good luck and keep your head up.
2007-09-25 12:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Spacious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the same girl is clawing your heat out you should stay away from her. It's completely illogical that you should stay close to a person that hurts you. Perhaps that means that you love to be destroyed by her. If so, enjoy the torture, but my advice is walk the F away!
2007-09-25 12:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos Mal 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is such a cliche but it will go away through time. I once thought that I couldn't live through unrequited love or should I call it maybe unrequited lust. I was dazed and confused at the time but anyway, you will live. Also, someone found me to ease what I was feeling and that is none other than Jesus Christ.
2007-09-25 12:19:00 · answer #7 · answered by Coeli A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Clutching your heart, and wishing you were dead. :) Seriously, avoid her at all costs. If you stay away from her you will slowly start to heal. You will never feel whole again, but at least some of the pieces will be put into place.
2007-09-25 12:18:56 · answer #8 · answered by Lena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cut all ties to that girl untill you can fully get over her. It is impossible to get over someone if they are always calling you or vice versa. Erase her number, email address, myspace blah blah and heal the right way.
2007-09-25 12:16:42 · answer #9 · answered by California Kush 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sleep with her sister or her best friend. Then she won't want to be around you and you'll get a little payback.
If it works out really well, you can keep dating her sister/best friend.
2007-09-25 12:18:44 · answer #10 · answered by Van 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋