It does matter if you are rich, poor, middle income, tall, short, skinny, fat, or have muscles. It all comes down to how you treat women. True, some women go through a phase where they only go for the bad guys. You can either wait on them or move on to someone that appreciates you now. Anyway, nothing curls my toes faster than having a man call me honey, hon, sweetheart or some other pet name. Sit beside me with his hand on my leg. Or hold my hand while we are grocery shopping. If I thought a man honestly cared about me and treated me special, I would be there for him no matter what. Try it for a day and see what happens.
2007-09-25 09:18:10 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are absolutely right. I didn't think this through. I should have said this is how to keep them happy. You definitely don't want to try any of what I said on anyone you just met! I am laughing soooooo hard. Women will be drawn to you by the way you treat people in general.
2007-09-25 10:53:00 · update #1
Indeed I shall, mon petite fleur.
2007-09-25 09:32:50 · answer #1 · answered by Mathsorcerer 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The problem with your theory is that those are the kinds of things guys should do once they have already attracted a woman. If you want to go out and meet a woman, you don't walk up to her and say "I want to hold your hand while we go grocery shopping". If an actual nice guy walked up while you were out, not in a sleazy way or sexual way, and called you sweetheart that you would be more attracted to him.
So before you go around trying to act like you are doing all men everywhere a huge favor by letting us know this great secret, make sure it make sense. It is girls like you who don't think before they try to prove a point that drive men insane!
2007-09-25 09:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with "disco stew". You cannot do these things to a woman that you don't know yet in order to attract her; these things will do the exact opposite and get yourself arrested.
And if you do these things to someone that you are already in a relationship with, you can run the risk of appearing to be too clingy.
I also noticed that what women say that they want is often different that what they actually respond to -- no offense.
2007-09-25 09:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Grandpa S 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are giving us ways to make women we are already with happy, although your question asks how we can attract women.
Presumably these women are not already with us. Holding the hand of a woman, or putting my hand on their leg, when I am not in a relationship with them is more than likely result in me getting into big trouble.
2007-09-25 09:23:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL u are absolutely right
i witnessed how my bosom friend, a very beautiful girl , fell in love with a ordinary boy whom he met on sugarmommymeet.com, she once mentioned to me how considerate, careful wonderful that boy was, in fact, i thought he would be a perfect boy, but after i met him once, i feel surprised, he was so ordinary, for quite a long tie ,i could not understand why, but now i know why my friend was attracted
2007-09-26 01:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Linda l 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The bad boys treat women that way till they get them hooked, and once we're hooked, they go back to their jerkish, mean ways. If guys would just be nice all the time instead of changing into monsters, they could have any woman they want.
2007-09-25 09:22:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sassie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My husband has been doing that everyday for the last 10+ years so it is nothing new honey.
My toes curl faster when there is spice and an element of surprise added to the mix.
2007-09-25 09:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That sounds great!!
I am married now, but from my past dating experiences that was not true, I was always the nice guy, very polite, etc. girls never went for that sorry nice theory though. I had a friend I would hang out with and he was a total ^%*(& to the ladies and the loved him for it.
2007-09-25 09:36:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sparky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know....I was attracted to my man's caveman ways and that is what keeps me coming back for more...i just like a really testosterone driven man....I do not know why.
2007-09-25 09:31:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
good advice. i have done the following plus some to show my gf i love her.
i was also the bad boy at the beginning of our relationship, but things have simmered down now. I still have the urge to be a little crazy and do some crazy shizznits, but other than that, we are crazy to be with eachother.
2007-09-25 09:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Me 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I so agree with you Nanna. it is the way the man treats a woman..that gets the woman to stick of her man thru thick or thin..but also appearance and smell counts and courteuos and well mannered to other people too...
2007-09-25 09:23:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋