2007-09-25 07:15:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
The main thing is to be her friend and to be there for her. Depending on your girlfriends age [whether or not she's a minor], constantly remind her that it isn't her fault. Minor children often times blame themselves for their parents' break up. They usually get shoved in the middle of it, too...depending on the maturity level of her parents and, not only that, parents that often times THINK they're doing right by their children...aren't. Sometimes they don't even realize they're putting pressure on their children.
Depending on whether or not she's still in school, some school counseling might help her, too. Good luck and stay strong for your friend.
2007-10-03 01:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by dark eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there WHENEVER or WHEREVER she needs someone. She's going to have a lot of mixed emotions, so things won't be easy. She may even let it affect your relationship, since she will probably have insecurities about anything serious. Be her shoulder and her rock, help her in anyway you can... but small things really do matter. Like if she's having a bad day suprise her... ask her to go for a walk to get away from it all and give her a flower. Or get her a sentimental card just because... show her she is very loved, because she will definently be questioning everything to do with LOVE and how it works!
2007-09-25 07:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Infatuation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when my parents divorced, my friends acted really differently, some of them were really great with me and always let me know they were there for me, but others seemed to be so scared of saying the wrong thing that they said nothing at all, and because i was so mixed up i was very prone to making arguments out of small things, which turned a couple of my friends against me which i just DIDN'T need :(
basically, the best thing you can do for your girlfriend is care, which you obviously you do or you wouldnt ask this question! just let her know you're there for her and that you'll try your hardest to make her feel better! hope you're both ok!
2007-09-30 09:44:14 · answer #3 · answered by sophie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is going to need a shoulder to cry on and someone to talk to so the best thing to do is be there for her and she is going to have mood swings and push people away just keep your cool and don't run when she does that show her that just because her parents are divorcing that you arent gonna leave her because she will wonder that also and if she don't want to talk about it don't pry just assure here that its gonna be okay
2007-10-02 17:52:17 · answer #4 · answered by christiangal27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be there for her in the time of need. stay near her call her often maybe have her over i dont' know how old you are. there are number of things talking on the phone and stuff like that hanging out and just talking in general and letting her open if she needs to talk stand in and be by herside let her know at times its best for them to split because it could be worse not careing for one another and living together. there will be ok times when things are settled.
2007-10-01 15:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Tsunami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best is to be there.
Offer to be a shoulder, someone to talk to, maybe even someone to scream at when she needs it.
Don`t push (i made that mistake) but be ready for her.
2007-09-25 07:20:06 · answer #6 · answered by U_S_S_Enterprise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen and make sure she knows you love her
2007-10-01 15:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be there when she needs you,comfort her and listen
2007-10-02 22:35:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just being there for her and listening when she needs you to.
2007-10-02 21:16:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just assure her that you are her Friend and be their for her
2007-10-02 15:12:43 · answer #10 · answered by Neil G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋