I HAVE BEEN MARRIED FOR 20+ YEARS. LATELY WE HAVE SOME PROBLEMS WITH OUR SEX LIFE DUE TO MEDICATION MY HUSBAND TAKES. NOW WHEN WE DO HAVE SEX I TEND TO ORGASM ENTIRELY TO QUICKLY .I KNOW ITS BECAUSE OF THE TIME IN BETWEEN. ANY IDEAS TO SLOW ME DOWN?
2007-09-25 06:58:51 · 15 answers · asked by mybluechicken 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have a hard time having more than one now- though when i was younger that wasnt a problem. i tire out- lol
2007-09-25 07:07:30 · update #1
also he can go on FOREVER-which i know isnt a bad thing but -i tire out!!!
2007-09-25 07:09:03 · update #2
slow down a bit talk to him more regularly and try not to get overexcited
2007-09-25 07:01:29 · answer #1 · answered by Perfectionist 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about extending the foreplay. Certainally you can orgasm more than once right? Perhaps if he performed alittle oral or manual stimulation (or both...wow what fun) then this would help keep things on an even keel.
have him bring you right to the brink of orgasm and then stop. Then start again. by the time he does that a few times you should be damn near climbing the walls.
Give it a try. Submit your findings to me and if it doesn't work we'll try another tack.
2007-09-25 14:15:23 · answer #2 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about slowing down, just enjoy. But if you are not totally out of it then why not satisfy your husband with your hand or orally?
2007-09-25 14:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by cyranonew 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about "Baseball". Hahaha- just kidding.
I wish I had this problem.
Sounds gross, but during the "in between" times maybe you should pleasure yourself. That might help. Good Luck!
2007-09-25 14:11:39 · answer #4 · answered by Mars1111 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not too sure why the sex has to stop after you've had one, go for more orgasms.
2007-09-25 14:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mergler gave you the correct answer the more O's the better.
2007-09-25 14:37:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put on some music by Madonna , lol
2007-09-25 14:01:57 · answer #7 · answered by Rob C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
who cares if you orgasim to quick. keep going and have another before he finishes. try also to get him excited with foreplay prior to the sex so that maybe he will orgasim quicker too.
2007-09-25 14:03:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do "it" yourself earlier in the day, it helps you hold out longer later. Good luck!
2007-09-25 14:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What's he taking?
2007-09-25 17:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by br_wy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋