I have this anoying niece that gets on my nerves so much. She just won't stop. She is 3 and I am 13. All my life I've been the one eveyone likes but now she is the one. She goes to my room and starts to mess it up. I clean it then is uncleans it. Then when my mom goes in my room she says, "I thought I told you to clean it!" I get in trouble I tell her the truth sometimes she believes me. But when she does she says oh my god she is just a baby, she doesn't know any better. I still have some of my old toys that I admire very much and boom!!! She has to get them and ask my dad if she could have them...guess what he says...of course anything you want. OMG I feel like slaping her in the face. Please give me advice in what to do!
2007-09-25 07:14:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Lock your bedroom door when she comes over, or have your mom put up one of those gates that keep toddlers out.
2007-09-25 07:19:15 · answer #1 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should sit down and have a talk about it with your parents. Don't yell, scream, or blame, I know this is hard when youre 13 as I was there not so long ago myself. You can ask for a lock to be put your door. If your parents dont like this idea, say that they can have a copy of the key or just make the lock high enough for your niece not to reach.
You could also try talking to your neice, even though she is 3, she can begin to understand the idea of sharing. Tell here this is my space, and your room is yours. That you can go in my room if I'm in there or if you ask first.
And everyone still likes you, but you are not the baby anymore. You are either in Middle School or High School now and growing more dependent.
2007-09-25 14:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by Brown Eyed Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL sorry for your troubles sweetie, but thats how things tend to work a lot. What you need to do is talk to your dad, tell him that, that toy meant a lot to you, that you had wanted to keep it. Yes she is 3 and still a baby, but she is learning very quickly how to manipulate the people around her. You really can't blame her for "taking" what is "offered." Try not to get too mad at her she really doesn't know better, if anything it is the adults who are causing the real problem here by not enforcing rules on the little one. Ask your parents for a high lock that you can slide close when you leave your room. I had little cousins who were the same way when I was little and that is what I did. I no longer had little hands in or on my stuff!
2007-09-25 14:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Wanted*~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hide your stuff, or lock your room.
And tell your parents you are not ready to give up your toys yet,
I know you are 13, but in a few years you may have a kid of your own, and want to keep your toys for your own baby,
if you use that arguement you might freak them out, the thought of being granny and granddad....hehe
But, not being the baby anymore is just something you will have to live with
2007-09-25 14:27:57 · answer #4 · answered by steven m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up....this little girl loves the death out of you and looks up to you. Quit being a spoiled brat and act like the aunt she loves. You would feel terrible if something happend to her, and if you don't want her going in your room, SHUT THE DOOR. You will be noticed more in your parents eyes, if you step up and teach this little girl something, not compete w/ her, she seriously doesn't know you want attention from them, much less is trying to steal yours. Goodluck!
2007-09-25 14:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by Peng-you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is 3! If you want your things kept away from her, put them in a special place that has a lock. In fact, lock everything that she might mess up. Use real metal locks, not those chincy child proof (child proof my ***!) My neice lives with us and I set ground rules for her. She knows she is not allowed to go into my room and she has to knock to enter (I spent three days teaching her how to knock correctly and learning that a shut door means stay out)
2007-09-25 14:19:40 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lock your room,hide your stuff!
2007-09-25 14:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes only 3 so she doesnt know any different fom rite or rong so she will hopefully grow out of it.................ur dad idsbeing a total bastard by spoiling her.......................... just slap ur dad and ur lil 3 year old upside their heads
2007-09-25 14:23:22 · answer #8 · answered by xxxmiss_mayoxxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, yeah. Go out more.
2007-09-25 14:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being so selfish.
2007-09-25 14:17:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋