my hubby love to watched the porn from internet.. sometime in front of me. I dont feel its a turn on for me..but he said its a turn on for him...any suggestion pls?????.. can I tell him to stop watched the porn?? How??? Thks for answering..
2007-09-25 07:08:30 · 11 answers · asked by back2future 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can tell him all you want that you'd like him to stop - it doesn't mean he will.
There's nothing wrong with him watching porn - the fact that he's open about it & doesn't try to hide it says that he's comfortable with it and comfortable with you knowing about it. For most guys - getting visually stimulated & excited by porn is NORMAL. (Why do you think it's a multi-BILLION dollar industry?)
What is it about this porn that you don't like?? Do you feel that he's somehow "cheating" on you by watching it?? He's not... it's the equivalent of you watching a romantic movie... reading erotic / romantic novels... or looking at a good looking fella on the television and fantasizing about it.
If you're truly uncomfortable with it and MAKE him stop looking at it at home - he'll just start sneaking around to see it. He'll stop looking at it when HE grows tired of looking at it.
2007-09-25 07:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I hope this can help.Maybe you could do something different in the bedroom or go to a make out point and give him a night he won't forget.I hate to say this or even recommend this but, maybe u should buy a porn and watch it with him or watch it by yourself and figure out what he likes about it and maybe do the same moves or do something wild one time.I learned sex is everywhere.I think its awful how the world is about sex.But its only gonna get worst so if I was you, I would try to keep his mind and eyes on you.Or you could disconnect the internet or tell him how you feel, being nice about it, if that don't work then just be a *** about it and put ur foot down.Hope this helps.Computers and sex is ruining the world and many people lives.Good Luck Honey!!!
2007-09-25 14:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by justtra 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes i think, when a man watches porn in front of his wife, or with her, that there is something missing in there relationship, people in this day and time seem to get bored so easlie with each other, and i really dont understand why, to put things so bluntly, when it comes to sex, one woman doesnt have anything that the others do, same as the men, i guess its just boredom, so try different things
2007-09-26 11:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him it's your turn now to watch the porn you like and what turns you on. Tell him you like to see two men getting it on watch him go ape s h i t .Tell him if you can't watch what you want then he can't watch what he wants. Don't let on that you are just trying to get him to stop watching porn you have to be more clever then he is.
2007-09-25 15:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Teenie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you can tell him to stop. i think you should tell him that it makes you uncomfortable and that you wish he would stop watching it or at least not watch it ever when you are around.
I had a friend who her husband had a tree way curtain around the computer area so he could watch porn without bothering his wife. isn't that creepy?
2007-09-25 14:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by ilovedragonflies6 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he was like that before you got married then it is a slim to none chance that he will stop now because its an addiction. Tell him how you feel about it, ask him if it would be helpful for you to dress up for him or to make your own movies together... Anything is worth a shot. Get creative. Just don't get your hopes up.
2007-09-25 14:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Momma 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Try sitting down and looking for porn that might interest you. There are many porns out there that are meant for females. I enjoy watching porn with my boyfriend and reading Playboy. There are ones that he likes and I don't like, and ones I do like, and he doesn't, but we always watch diferent ones to see what are preferences are.
2007-09-25 14:14:32 · answer #7 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
why do women just seem to think that they get to DEMAND that a guy stop doing something that they don't like? how would you feel if he wanted you to stop shoe shopping because he didn't like it? you don't like it and that's fine. but he he does,and he's not neglecting you because of it, then let it go and let him watch it.
2007-09-25 14:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Quit watching porno. You have me, you don't need that. I don't care if it turns you on, I'm your wife and I deserve respect!"
If he doesn't listen....leave. NO woman should take being second to a bunch of trashy wh*res on the net.
And no, I don't feel inferior. I'm just as attractive as them. I just have a higher moral standard.
2007-09-25 14:18:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
Buy yourself a huge dildo and when he asks you about it tell him:
"I just want you to know what competition feels like"
Replace HIM with THAT....That will fix him.
2007-09-25 14:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋