My 14 yo son has extremely poor vision, with nystagmus (involuntary movement of the eye from side to side). He is legally blind without his glasses, and nearly so even WITH his glasses. Took him for regular eye exam yesterday. I asked the doc privately if my son would ever be able to drive, as he is looking forward to taking driver's ed next year in high school. Doc said he would never be able to drive with the vision he now has. Dr. also told me there is no surgery that can correct his vision problems.
At his age, he is wanting to be more and more independent, but his disabilities hinder him a great deal. I know I probably need to get him into therapy. I am taking him next week for mental health evaluation referral.
How do I break this to my son, the fact that he may never drive? He will be heartbroken. He already has some other health problems, is very small for his age, and gets teased at school a lot. Please help me figure this out.
2007-04-20
01:58:57
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~RedBird~
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