I worked with a girl for a year and we became very close. We clicked straight away when we first met. However, about a month after she left my workplace I found out that she was actually bisexual and had admitted to one of my colleagues that she had feelings for me.
I became extremely freaked out by this and started to think of ways I might have encouraged her. I did flirt with her quite a lot, but I flirt with lots of people. I wouldn't have done so if I'd have known she was attracted to me.
So I stopped contacting her and when she contacted me I would be very offish so as not to give her the wrong impression. I haven't told her that I know she has feelings for me. I think she may have guessed that I know though, because she has stopped contacting me now.
Do you think I treated her badly by ignoring her? I feel guilty because we were good friends and I did like her. She was very sweet and always there for me, and i feel like I've been quite horrible to her.
2007-04-18
23:59:09
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