Im very honest,loving and faitful woman whos been looking for a years now for someone who have the same qualities as me.Why its so hard to find one?Im not into fun and games only,I want a real and lifetime relationship/commitment and it doesnt matter what his nationality is as long hes honest.Is there someone still existing like that in this world?
2007-04-18 23:54:05 · 22 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there are men like this,keep looking
2007-04-18 23:56:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are men who know how to treat a woman, with dignity and honesty. But don't go looking for it, it will find you. The more you look the harder it will be to find Mr right. Age has nothing to do with finding the right person for you. There is someone out there just for you and you can meet in the most unlikely of places and in the unlikeliest of situations. DO NOT POUCH on others husbands as this can only lead to disaster. Let love find you don't try so hard in looking. the man of your dreams may not be the one you fall in love with but it will be a lasting and loving relationship. Love at first sight rarely keeps going. Love grows in you for others and in them for you. just let it happen. don't try so hard. All the very best. from one who knows.
2007-04-19 00:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by coofooman 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi there, me too. i was in a relationship for ten years up until 14 months ago, kids as well. i am now ready for a good and decent and honest relationship. but have found out that its not that simple, i am 32 and when i was younger i enjoyed playing games, flirting etc, Now i don't want to play games, but i don't think there is a choice. it seems that if you are honest about wanting a relationship then your desperate and will be treated like crap. if you are even slightly guarded with your feelings then your hiding something, a girl just can't win!!!! so i have decided and maybe you should too, to enjoy being single while you have the chance, and really who needs a man? Us girls can put our own garbages out, mow the lawn and buy a vibrator! ...lol....good luck.
2007-04-19 00:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by mummapink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Although there probably is potentially someone out there for everyone, not everyone is prepared to put the effort. The journey involves becoming the person that "the one" will meet, and involves alot of very painful work on yourself.
You can't guarantee that you will meet "the one". All you can do is deserve it. To deserve it, one needs to work through one's baggage, and many people lack either the courage, self-awareness, or persistence to live the "examined life", i.e. demand to be loved despite their faults, while refusing to address them.
2007-04-19 00:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Vitruvius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have to focus on the qualities that you want in a man and see what happens. Keep the faith it may take awhile. I have also been waiting for years for a good man to come along and I have had to make some changes in myself first, especially learning to love myself.
2007-04-18 23:59:56 · answer #5 · answered by papermango 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course there is, maybe you're just looking in the wrong places. I've got a lovely boyfriend who's got a fit bod and beautiful eyes as well. If they get as good as that then you certainly should be able to find a nice one somewhere. I met my boyfriend in a kung fu class and he certainly wasn't the only nice one there. They definitely exist, so maybe if you just chill and enjoy yourself, one will come to you,
2007-04-19 00:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by Princess Paradox 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no perfect men like this but if you would just open your eyes and see someone out there which is not perfect but real go for it. It's really hard to find the right person.
2007-04-18 23:59:59 · answer #7 · answered by Jenna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've probably been looking in the wrong places. There are singles groups sponsored by churches in almost every city or town. There are groups that meet for various activities. Get out and meet people and once you get to know them you will be introduced to single guys they think you would like. People who are married love to meddle in single people's business and try to get them married also.
2007-04-19 00:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Course you can. I found mine when not looking and on this site believe it or not. We met completely by accident and the chance of meeting him through this site very remote. So dont look too hard, just have a bit of faith in yourself. Good luck
2007-04-19 01:24:33 · answer #9 · answered by runningbabe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes... but men want fun and games too... so find some fun and you might find a guy that likes the same fun.... play some games.... relationship?
2007-04-18 23:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by maddogcrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not finding the right boy but being the right person for a boy
2007-04-22 02:45:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋