I keep hearing people complaining of people fancying others just based on how they look. But as I see it, if you like someone's personality then you'll want to be friends with them, but, surely, you need something more than that to want to get them naked and stuff. So maybe we're all shallow in that way and it isn't such a bad thing? What do people think?
It must be better than these people who go out with people because of status or money or something really naff like that?
2007-04-18 23:53:06 · 8 answers · asked by Princess Paradox 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Say it once and say it loud, I'm 27, I'm with a gorgeous boy and yes, I'M SHALLOW, whoopee!!
2007-04-18 23:53:47 · update #1
I didn't mean that personality isn't important, of course it is, but looks are equally important in a sexual partner, otherwise they would just be a nice friend.
2007-04-19 00:20:35 · update #2
i agree, i am totally head over heels for my fiance, every time i look at him i want to rip his clothes off,
he is such a lovely lovely guy but i fancied the pants off him from the second i met him.
to some degree we are shallow because its the first look of a person that has the lasting impression on us!
2007-04-19 00:15:46 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So how important will looks be when you are 60 years old? The looks go away hun. It's far more important to have the personality and chemistry. I hope your man also has a great personality because if you are still with him when you're 60 those gorgeous looks will be gone and you'll be stuck with an ugly boring guy. Looks should play a part but a person shouldn't soley base their attraction on someone with looks alone.
2007-04-19 08:22:55 · answer #2 · answered by teacher101 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is gonna sound really bad... (evolutionary standpoint) Being shallow is like protecting your potential kids from being unattractive & if they're unattractive the less likely they are to pass down their genes. So there's nothing wrong with being shallow to a point, but if you're only with someone because of how they look then that's a problem.
2007-04-19 08:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by brown eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only shallow if you gorgeous bf is rude, ignorance, bad behaviour and treat you like dirt and cheating, and you stick with him because of the look, it won't last. You will only can take so much crap from someone you love. If you gorgeous bf is caring and love you and has a good personality and you are one of the lucky one.
If you want to live with him for a long time, believe me good looking only is not enough, good character make relationship much longer and easier. but if you only want to have fun for now -why not, some guys like to have trophy gf, why not you have a trophy bf.
2007-04-19 07:08:29 · answer #4 · answered by lala 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's not really anything to be proud of.
Surely when you get older it all sags and droops anyway (both men and women) so does that mean if you're shallow you dump them for a younger model?
Maybe if you weren't so shallow you'd have a gorgeous "man" and not boy. not having a dig, but personality counts for a hell of a lot too.
2007-04-19 07:04:28 · answer #5 · answered by dee-lightful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shallow people don't care what others think - so why are you asking.. just go girl!
2007-04-19 06:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree. shallow is a way of life. how can you live otherwise!
2007-04-19 06:57:07 · answer #7 · answered by lilshadygal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not when it gets you what you WANT
2007-04-19 07:07:13 · answer #8 · answered by vanpuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋