Marriage & Divorce - 29 October 2007

ok like my husband and i have sex alot in every position but me on top. i have been on top maybe six times in 4 years. when i do we both have greast orgasms but i don't get on top for a couple of reasons and one is i always just move back and forward and i wonder if thats wrong? and two is i have very big breast and thats a problem and i just always feel ugly and like i am just awful at it . whats wrong with me/

2007-10-29 05:41:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just don't get this - you have your entire adult life ahead of you and you've cut out all future experiences by at least 1/2, probably more. I mean, if that's what you really wanna do, more power to you. You're an adult and can make whatever decision re: yourself that you'd like. But I just do not understand it and cannot think of a single good reason to go through with this.

And what's worse is when someone will marry the first (and only) person they've had sex with. That just... it almost makes me feel sorry for them, in a way.


Thanks.

2007-10-29 05:30:38 · 27 answers · asked by Brandon's been a dirty Hore 5

It's been quite a long time since the hubby and I have had 'relations' (*L*) so we are a bit rusty but I have a feeling tonight is the night to get things going again....

What do you like for your wife/girlfriend to do? Fave positions?

2007-10-29 05:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by Alison 5

If an unmarried girl has a married guy as a boyfriend and has physical relations with him, is it possible for the married boyfriend's wife/family to take legal action against this unmarried girl for having a relationship with him? If yes, what is the expected punishment as per Indian law?
P.S The unmarried girl is NOT ME. Its someone I know.

2007-10-29 05:01:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with my partner for a little over 5 years and have 2 children with him.
Recently his attitude has been really getting me down. Well that's coz it stinks! He's a very negative and controling person. He never does anything with me or the kids, complains about stuff i do or don't do. I'm fed up with being called a c#*t or stupid ***** etc when he doesn't get his own way. He sulks and stomps about and pulls faces. I'm quite a perky person ( not annoyingly perky mind), i'd say pleasantly up-beat! he's really childish and spitful. For example after all morning of either ignoring me or speaking to me like shite, 2 minutes before he left for work he asked to borrow my mp3 player. I said no, you don't respect my stuff and you can't treat someone like crap and then go 'oo can you do me a favour?' That's not how it works, so he left in a huff, i got called a fat lazy ***** and he took the t.v remote with to wind me up! He feels the need to criticise everyone, i think he's insecure....

2007-10-29 04:50:11 · 22 answers · asked by kate e 2

how long did you date before you got married & how long have you been married?

2007-10-29 04:46:53 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy has commitment issues with me to the point that I don't believe what he says to me anymore. This is kinda long so bear with me!

We've known each other 7 years. He left home for job corps, 5 years ago. After that he went straight to the Army 3 years ago.
We haven't had much time face to face. There were always other people stopping us from being together. He was married 2 years, I was engaged for 3. We both got out of our relationships recently. We are now together but he says he will never be able to trust me because of what his ex-wife did to him. He says we might never get married because he might not be able to trust me. Despite this, he told me he wishes he never married his wife, and that he and I were meant to be together all along, and he loves me more than he ever could have loved her.

What can I do to convince him, that if he loves me as much as he says, he should be able to trust me? I cannot wait forever for him to get over her!

2007-10-29 04:34:14 · 33 answers · asked by MuñecaBarbie 3

2007-10-29 04:28:55 · 14 answers · asked by Ricardo N 1

aren't proper?

She's slipped her hand down the front of my boxer shorts amongst other things. And She tells me that she has feelings for me and has had for a long time and now she's texting me..... She's a nice girl but this can't go on.

She was pissed the night she slipped the hand and so afterwards I just pretended that nothing happened. To let her retreat with dignity. [we all behaive like idiots now and again and so need a chance].... *But*, she hasn't forgotten and it's something she just wants....... but, well, I didn't make marriage vows with her and I never encouraged her love nor teased her so I owe her nothing in that department....... But how do I keep her as a friend whilst stoping her from just slipping her hands etc?

She's a good looking girl and I know boys are interested in her,,, but she just seems to want the unatainable.... eeeeesh.

2007-10-29 04:24:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-29 04:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wonder what will you think of a 21 years old Asian girl, who is attending Ph.D program in a quite good school in the US, getting married to a 40 years old up-middle class white man? They do love each other very much.

2007-10-29 04:17:43 · 16 answers · asked by Shan 2

I am working on a speech for a group of couples that will be getting married soon. I would like mens opinion on what are the things they "hate" when they get into a conflict with their wife and are trying to solve the problem. please be honest. (see my other questions.)

2007-10-29 04:15:14 · 16 answers · asked by Stuck 1

Known my fiance for a year have been in a non sexual relationship for 6 months

2007-10-29 04:09:14 · 24 answers · asked by newtral90 1

I have been goping through a difficult time so I am looking for suggestions about making me happy so the family can heal. I heard this expression over the weekend and I am taking suggestions about making me happy again, please write em no matter how silly. I think the mere ideas of happiness can help....... Thanks so much I promise I am working on not feeling sorry for myself today, well its pencilled in for this afternoon. Thanks again all!

2007-10-29 04:09:07 · 6 answers · asked by itsjust me123 2

a girl and also friendship with three other girls. He says its friendship but it goes beyond their limits. He used to send them money and anything they want. BUT HE ALWAYS SAYS THAT HE LOVES ME MORE THAN THEM. Since he lost his mom he felt alone and maintained close relations with them. After our marriage it took me 1 year to completely get rid of their problem. I changed his phone number and our home and everything. I took his passwords and used to check his mails very often.This went for another year nothing happened so I started trusting him. But few months ago he found a girl who was one of his so called friends contact number somewhere and called her. Everytime when I ask him about these things he says I am sorry.I didnt mean to hurt you I wont repeat this..but he does it again. He stays more time on phone on computer he never likes to spend his time with me. I need to remind him that I am still alive and I need him..I am feeling insecured and lonely...what to do

2007-10-29 04:06:23 · 18 answers · asked by New Mom 2

My fiance and I have been together for over 2 years now, and have remained pure for all this time even while studying at the same college and living in the same dorm building. This has been extremely difficult, but we have upheld it to the point of suffering. Recently, however, we've been praying about it and it seems like it's time to get married. We are getting close or are already at that point where we can't physically resist being together a lot and wanting to be extremely close. We are both spiritually and emotionally united, and have been counseled that we are ready for marriage. My parents are not Christians and would never allow me to marry as long as I'm still in school. I have 2 more years to go in college. My fiance and I are hearing the call of God to be married, but with my parents it's simply impossible. Our bodies want to be united, but we don't want to commit fornication. What is there for us to do?? Please help. Thanks!

2007-10-29 03:57:47 · 18 answers · asked by reba 1

2007-10-29 03:54:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married 20 years and my husband is 42. After I caught him cheating 2 years ago he left but is now back home. He says he needs to feel that he is free to do whatever he wants and that it is not about sex. He says I am his wife and always will be but we got married when he was very young and that now he is halfways through his life he feels it has so far been one dimensional. When I suggest he goes back to his apartment which he still keeps so that he can feel free, but I would like to do the same as I too feel that life had passed me by, he says we should wait for our daughter to go to university as we don't want to upset her etc. I would never do anything to upset my daughter and I am bluffing when i suggest that we give each other freedom, inside I am a broken person. I can't decide whether he is saying these things because he is embarassed that I found him out, I am not sure if he still sees her or wants to see other people hence why he says he feels restricted

2007-10-29 03:53:09 · 18 answers · asked by Angela O 1

I know this isn't right, but I need an excuse to divorce him. What should I do?

2007-10-29 03:44:22 · 51 answers · asked by Sheryl P 1

What do you think about carrying a baby for someone because they can't themselves? A couple of years ago my step sister wanted me to carry a baby for her and her husband at the time. I'm so glad I didn't do it because now there divorced. What do you think of me doing this in general. I always think what if I did do that for them? By the way I've never had any children of my own yet. My boyfriend told me that I shouldn't do it if anyone else asks because he said Id get to attached and get really upset.

2007-10-29 03:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by shy girl 3

My wife refuses to make my stepson mind and she will not allow anyone else to make him mind. She says she saw alot of abuse when she was young and when I raise my voice to him thats all that she can think about. We have seperated because I now have my 16yr son with me and I will not allow him to do the things my 13yr stepson gets by with. My wife and I still love each other very much and see each other as often as posible. I told her I have to be a father to my son and if we have to be seperated because of this then so be it.
Question is we don't like being seperated but she still refuses to make this kid mind. Any sugestions?

2007-10-29 03:33:08 · 18 answers · asked by Atheist 3

Got a situation too long to tell, but just wanted to ask the guys how can a woman that your interested in but for (your) certain personal reasons backing away from, your still very attracted to her how can she keep your interest? What would you do if you just didn't see her for a while forget or miss her? Would you look forward to seeing her and when you don't wonder where she went or relieved you don't have the temptation anymore? Wondering what goes on in your minds in this type of situation.

2007-10-29 03:32:47 · 1 answers · asked by Maria 5

I have a daughter and always wanted to do things right of not bring a child in the world before marriage. Now that my girlfriend is pregnant, I want to make things right of getting married before the baby is born. Definitely don't want to spend alot of money and want to keep it simple. Plus I want to surprise her on the marriage thing. What should I do? Explain answer.

2007-10-29 03:29:08 · 11 answers · asked by Asantee L 1

I need help I amgoing through cancer treatment
I have found several things on my husbands phone
over the past 3 years
from women ,I told him i will not stand it anymore
i was leaving the next time something happened
well guess what at my immune therapy in Pittsburg
I live in arkansas
I was having a infusion and he met someone outside of our hotel
she was sending him porn and telling she missed him
i asked him where did he meet her
he told me the internet
well i finally talked to her and she told me she met him
outside of our hotel ,and that he was divorced and was in pittsburg with his crazy sister
what am i going to do
the patterns never change or stop
his cell phone accompanies him to the shower
please help
I a winning my cancer battle but i can not handle the stress
anymore

2007-10-29 03:28:49 · 15 answers · asked by messageinabottlebynic 2

My boyfriend says I don't trust him. We have been together 2 years and he says that I should stop acting jealous. I love him and I trust him but I don't trust some of the girls he talks to. He says that he loves me and tries hard to be faithful and he feels that inspite of all he does it is for nothing because I still treat him like he is cheating. If you really love someone shouldn't it be easy not to cheat? and Why doesn't he want to help me work through my trust issues? Will my jealousy drive him away?

2007-10-29 03:27:55 · 10 answers · asked by honeyluv_2010 4

After a 5 + years relationship can you stay friends ?
Did you experiance this ?
How did it work ?
Where their kids involved ?
did it last ?

2007-10-29 03:26:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

this question is for the women out there. ever got a divorce then realize after going through 10 more guys that it was a mistake and that your ex really was a good man? I wonder how many people would own up to this. It goes both ways as well. guys leave their wives for the mistress only to realize what they had. If this is the case, why don't two people try to then work it out? it's like they go through this whole divorce process that turns ugly then when it's all over realize they made a mistake. is this pride, ego or what? I've seen it a few times where the woman keeps bitching about her ex then is horribly jealous he's dating someone else or can't ever find another man that will stay with her for very long. same with guys by the way.

2007-10-29 03:11:23 · 13 answers · asked by survivor 1

if you could do it all over?

2007-10-29 02:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by Freakalicious 3

We have a 1 year old boy and a 4 year old girl. It has been an aweful marriuge since the begining. Im dying inside right now and dont know what to do? She is a stay at home mother. and says that she is going to make my life Hell, well it already is. What should I do?

2007-10-29 02:32:34 · 16 answers · asked by group138 1

The problem with that is that he seems to use this "gift" mostly in me. He constantly points out my wrongs and mistakes. He constantly uses opportunities to show me why and how something I did was wrong. I guess he is trying to help me. It makes me constantly feel like I can't do anything right. When I talk to him about it, he says that he is just telling the truth. What can I do to not let the things he says get to me? I know that you cannot change a person, but how you react to the person...

2007-10-29 02:32:15 · 15 answers · asked by Jaedyn=God has heard 2