2007-10-29 04:21:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No!!! I'm not in one or after one! I'm just bored!
2007-10-29 04:29:20 · update #1
I think they are wrong and very painful if you are married. You go into an agreement when you marry and both of you should stick to it. It makes honesty and trust go out the door and really hard to gain back. It makes a person not trust anyone again if the marriage is over. All the dreams that you felt with this person is shattered and also that feeling that they loved only you and no one else is ended. You have a hard time thinking that they ever loved you and it was all a lie! It is worse then a death because you cannot eat or sleep and feel total emptiness. When you marry it really is becoming one as they say and that part of you is torn away and you are not whole any more! I did not do the affair but my husband did and it was too much for me to bare because I loved him more then myself.
2007-10-29 04:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by craft painter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no excuse ever under the sun for a person to have an affair,it is one of the cruelest no No's and taboos in a relationship,if you are thinking of doing this please be honest with yourself and your partner and split up first. It shows bad integrity and bad character for anyone to do this and I see no excuse. If you or someone you know has the guts to do this then they should be able to have the guts to split up first.If I was to search for an excuse it would only be if you were stuck married to someone abusive but then you risk danger so I would go to a women's shelter for help.Don't make a vow that you can't keep.
2007-10-29 04:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by Tray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Affairs are only what you believe them to be remember think about what you would feel if some cheated on you then make up your own mind if you think it goes away you are wrong it never goes away and then you wind up not trusting in anyone and you start haveing jealousy issues even if the other person is faithful its not an easy road but if you can't be faithful to the one you are with then maybe you should only be dating good luck
2007-10-29 04:28:24 · answer #3 · answered by Robert P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you are discrete (that is, don't get caught - and most don't), don't get anyone pregnant, don't bring home a disease and don't become emotionally involved, it can be a very healthy thing. When half of all marriages end in divorce, and half of the other ones have one or both partners cheat at some time, you have to acknowledge that monogamy is not natural.
2007-10-29 04:31:22 · answer #4 · answered by Fred S - AM Cappo Di Tutti Capi 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think they are wrong. I've been the other women, and its horrible the amount of pain both women go through. Decieving your partner because you want to be selfish is horrible. No one is a winner to me, no one!
2007-10-29 04:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Chrystal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act of sheer selfishness for the most part, but many times, it is the result of lonliness and being ignored by spouses.
2007-10-29 04:25:25 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Also known as cheating? It stinks...
People just having sexual relationships (not cheating) is fine, as long as they are being responsible and all parties are consensual.
2007-10-29 04:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah they are great!
Umm....sarcasm there.....
What kind of question is that? I hope you don't find many people who think that's it's fine.
Affairs are wrong. ALWAYS.
2007-10-29 04:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not bad once in a while makes you feel great and wanted
2007-10-29 07:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by bright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they are appalling and disrespectful, not to mention painful.
2007-10-29 04:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by Shelley L 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋