What do you think about carrying a baby for someone because they can't themselves? A couple of years ago my step sister wanted me to carry a baby for her and her husband at the time. I'm so glad I didn't do it because now there divorced. What do you think of me doing this in general. I always think what if I did do that for them? By the way I've never had any children of my own yet. My boyfriend told me that I shouldn't do it if anyone else asks because he said Id get to attached and get really upset.
2007-10-29 03:42:57 · 6 answers · asked by shy girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I feel that you have a heart of gold!!! I wish there was someone in my family that could carry a baby for my daughter. She has been trying for years to have a baby and can't seem to conceive. If I was able, I would carry it for her too. Even if my daughter and her husband got a divorce, my daughter would have her baby that she has always dreamed of having. I think everyone is always so negative. I only have one daughter, so there is no one to help her in the way that you was going to help your step-sister. Even though they may have divorced, she would have still been able to have a part of her to love for the rest of her life. You may become bonded, most always do. But when you look at it as a gift from God that you are giving someone you love the gift of life then to me I feel I could do it. In your situation you would still be able to see the baby. I commend you for the willingness to give a miracle for your loved one!!! God Bless You!
2007-10-29 04:05:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will get attached so until u have kids do not consider it...However for family is different my sis had a hard time carrying a baby she had many miscarriages so we discussed the possibility of me carrying the baby for her if this last time didn't go well, I already had 3 kids and no problems w/ carrying them or health, well I had told her I would do it in a heartbeat I wouldn't think twice about it! Thank goodness for her she did end up carrying and had a "miracle" child and miracle is no lie he was born at 23 weeks, 1lbs9oz but it all worked out for her...
Until u have kids u are NOT ready to carry for some1 else cuz u have no idea how much u bond w/ a baby growing inside u!!
2007-10-29 10:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by NONAME 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How is the conception going to occur?
Seeing as you have no kids yourself I would strongly object to it, it's not like your are just going to be a mindless incubator for 9 months, you will bond with the child wether you like it or not. I think there is probably a select few woman who could carry a child and just give it up at the end
2007-10-29 10:52:32 · answer #3 · answered by Diamond Dogs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have never done it, but i have 2 children of my own and i could not imagine carrying a child for 10 months and then having to give it to someone. however, i guess if it were for a family member, it's not as if you would never see the child. it's up to you. there are definite medical risks involved.
2007-10-29 10:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD BAD idea! Your boyfriend is 100% correct....
2007-10-29 10:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you do it your nuts... nothing else to say.
2007-10-29 10:55:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋