if you could do it all over?
2007-10-29 02:37:50 · 17 answers · asked by Freakalicious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wouldn't, I would be single for a lonnnnngggggg time.
2007-10-29 02:45:39 · update #1
Recently divorced as of April 07 and although getting married again is not in my plans right now, if I found the right woman, I would get married again. Mind you, this time, my eyes are wide open and there is a lot of scrutiny of any woman for me to consider wanting to marry her. I have changed a lot as a result of being married once and there are a lot of things upfront that I refuse to put up with and certain things such as immaturity, insecurity, emotional instability that will automatically disqualify a woman in my eyes. I just don't have the desire to deal with that anymore.
2007-10-29 02:45:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am speaking only for myself, but if I could do it all again I would tell ya HELL NO. But again I have been married 3 times don't know why I got married the 1st time or was stuipd enough to do it 2 more times. I am not against people being married and it can be good for thoscouples who are truely happy. But I think its alot easier to just live with someone or you each have your own place and when and if you break children or no children its a whole hell of alot easier and cheaper than going through a divorce. Or I would recommend pre-nuptial agreement.
2007-10-29 10:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Cindy T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been in a committed relationship for 20 years, and married for 13. This actually is a question I ask myself from time to time. I love my husband to no end .. and am very happy to be married to him. But at times I still miss my freedom ... not that I would do anything with it if I had it, but I miss being able to if I wanted to. I guess I am undecided, also it would depend on if I was marring my current husban or someone else (For him I might, for anyone else most likely not). I guess this will be a question that I ask my self from time to time, and I hope I never wind up with a hands down no.. because that would be quite hard on my marriage.
2007-10-29 09:56:04 · answer #3 · answered by L. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would simply because I believe that God has made a special man just for me. I think when I got married the first time it was not in His plans but my own. So I say again yes i will do it again. I think marriage is a wonderful thing. It is all in what you make of it! It's like a job and you have to give it 100 percent and sometimes more and you have to have a partner that is willing to do the same.
2007-10-29 09:43:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshyne 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I've never had been married, at age 43 because somehow I haven't found the right woman wonder if she's the one for me, even if I had I probably wouldn't want to get married ever again.
2007-10-29 09:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by slimdude142 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you find the right person then I would do it again. I know that after a failed marriage it is very hard to think that it will ever work again but you need to keep your head up and heart open to new things and who knows you might find MR right
2007-10-29 09:55:43 · answer #6 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Again and again and again until I get it right. I love it. I won't need to get married ever again though...we have a good marriage in our home..it works so well...been divorced in the past though..didn't work at all that time.
2007-10-29 09:55:33 · answer #7 · answered by Rein 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you think what will help u way the hell not but if u think its going to happen all over again then u should get to know that person a lot better
2007-10-29 09:44:10 · answer #8 · answered by aliiiiii 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I made a lot of mistakes in my marriage...but I would not re-marry again today. I wouldn't get my alimony anymore..I'm set to receive my alimony for the rest of my life and I'm only 48.
2007-10-29 09:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I am getting married on Friday... will I do it all over again... No.. to much work and money just say I do...
2007-10-29 10:25:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋