this question is for the women out there. ever got a divorce then realize after going through 10 more guys that it was a mistake and that your ex really was a good man? I wonder how many people would own up to this. It goes both ways as well. guys leave their wives for the mistress only to realize what they had. If this is the case, why don't two people try to then work it out? it's like they go through this whole divorce process that turns ugly then when it's all over realize they made a mistake. is this pride, ego or what? I've seen it a few times where the woman keeps bitching about her ex then is horribly jealous he's dating someone else or can't ever find another man that will stay with her for very long. same with guys by the way.
2007-10-29 03:11:23 · 13 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My divorce was just finalized on Sept 14th of this year...I realized and always knew that my "ex" was and is a good man but, people change and who I fell in love with is not who he is today...Not someone I would want to be with....Whether it was the separation that changed him or that he grew up, his current girlfriend is doing me a huge favor by being with him so he's not trying to stress me out...We have two beautiful boys together so we do have to communicate as co-parents but, thats enough for me...I have someone now who completes me and who is my perfect match....So as we sometimes may have regrets the realities measures up to alot more...It's apart of life and you have to continue moving on....
2007-10-29 03:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Grass is always greener on the other side. As simple as that. It is about not only realizing when you are wrong, but actually learning from it. Sometimes it is just easier to dump your spouse for some new adventure, when in real life what you are getting is not always better. You have to realistically ask yourself a question - ok, we can get divorced, but in the long run will there be someone who will treat me better? Or do i deserve what I am getting? I think a lot of the times people get divorced, not because they dont want to be together but also because they want to hurt the other person.
2007-10-29 03:30:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting married again to the same person is not something that I would want to do. Maybe the ex has changed and it would work out. I have known couples who divorced and remarried later and it did not work out. I got divorced and there is no way that I would ever want my ex back. He is my ex for a reason.
2016-04-11 00:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistake or not, I think people have a hard time getting back together because of the "nastiness" of the divorce and things that have been done afterwards. People have a hard time letting go of that.
2007-10-29 03:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm divorcing after 31 years, I know I'm doing the right thing.
2007-10-29 03:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, both of my ex husbands were lying, cheating, unfaithful men, I even caught one of them in bed with a girl, so it was glaringly obvious that I had made mistakes.
2007-10-29 03:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hasn't happened to me, but it did happen to one of my wife's friends.
She was married to a guy, divorced him. About 8 or 9 years later remarried him.
2007-10-29 03:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by CHARLES R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but I got married twice and realized they were both huge mistakes.
2007-10-29 03:25:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't however my husband and I live with his ex wife in our lives because they have children......she had two committed affairs when they were married and she realizes now what she lost....a great man!!!!! She would take him back in a heart beat.
2007-10-29 03:15:54 · answer #9 · answered by Rein 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I made the right choice the first time.
2007-10-29 03:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋