It's been quite a long time since the hubby and I have had 'relations' (*L*) so we are a bit rusty but I have a feeling tonight is the night to get things going again....
What do you like for your wife/girlfriend to do? Fave positions?
2007-10-29 05:16:53 · 11 answers · asked by Alison 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Thanks everybody!
We did have sex and it was great...could've been better had we not had been interrupted by our 4 yr old but I can see us getting back into the swing of things!
Oh- and thanks to reminding me how great the reverse cowgirl is!
2007-10-30 01:06:12 · update #1
There should be no set agenda. You should be there to please eachother and not let it be 1 way traffic. Over time you'll know what the other person likes and doesn't like and it'll be natural. If your partner is caring he'll want to please you and get satisfaction from seeing you happy. Start of simple and communicate softly. Us men feel alot better if we know we are hitting the right spot and as everyone is different you'll have to guide him. Spending 80% of the time making your partner happy and him the same will allow strong sensual relations develop into a time of blissful happiness. Good luck and hope you are smilng soon.
2007-10-29 05:27:50 · answer #1 · answered by Fool to my self 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's like riding a bike, you never forget.
But I will say that if you make a HUGE deal about it, there is too much pressure for it to be a magical fairytale evening. This leads to disappointment and another long dry spell. I say have a nice dinner, a glass of wine, maybe listen to some music together and snuggle on the couch. I'm thinking it will go just fine from there...
=)
2007-10-29 12:49:51 · answer #2 · answered by C>/ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever position I can get her to take it deep...doggie, or reverse cowgirl. My wife is the best...love when shes in full control then passes it to me... wow I'm gonna go bang her now...thanks
lol and my wife is the CrzyB_tch on here...Hi honey
2007-10-29 14:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by uloseallurmarbles 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Miss Alison, Dear I personaly enjoy begining at her feet, then slowly kiss and lick my way up ! Pausing for the big O at her nest ! Then gently caress and nuzzle her breasts ! Then rise up to her lipstick covered lips and become one flesh plus a kiss for the second big O !
2007-10-29 14:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The order is arbitrary. I just wrote things as they came to mind.
1)Lingerie, preferably the slutty kind, but a classy long neglige can be nice too if she takes time to set up candles incense and music.
2) oral sex
3) crawling on the floor begging to be banged into oblivion
4) asking to be tied, cuffed, whipped, spanked, clothespins on labia, waxed or any combination---or just ask/beg him to have his way with you
5) back to lingerie, both wearing sexy slinky silk on upper body---love the way it slides-uh oh, getting excited here
It sounds to me like for this special night you need a combination of romance and kink. Have flowers, candles, wine (or tequila or iced tea or whatever you like) lingerie, lots of touching making out carressing, but get kind of dirty too.
I'll leave some educational links in the sources part below
Best wishes
2007-10-29 13:01:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby loves the reverse cowgirl(but in the back door) cuz I take total control...He loves to tie me up and then to have his way w/ me... he loves when I talk dirty to him, were just a bunch of freaks in the bedroom!
2007-10-29 12:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by NONAME 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love the doggy position my wife likes reverse cowgirl pos.
2007-10-29 14:38:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Doggystyle rules!! You gotta really stick your booty out and take it like a pro. Let him go to town like that. He will love you for it.
2007-10-29 12:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tie him down, and tease him for a while first.
2007-10-29 12:33:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I dunno, but if its been a while you might want to try them all and see if maybe your interest in each has changed.
2007-10-29 12:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by billgoats79 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋