I chose to leave the marriage after 13 years. My leaving her was, because everithing in my life with her has to be a nag and complain. I just could not take it anymore. Control issues, lack of patience. I love her, and she loves me. The divorce is imminent, and we are still together. She says she wants to be with me but she cant, in accoubt that I left her. I did not leave to be with another woman, in fact that was the last thing I needed then, more complication, no way. Just needed peace. She begged me back and I asked her to please make sure that if I did , to not be resentful or make it an issue, (I knew it would become one). I bought myself a car while I was separated, and she did not like that. I needed a better car for work. (only an issue because of what comes next). She said , If we are going to be back together, then I want a diamond ring. (not a 1 karat or 2 karat, but a 5.5 karat ring). I bought her one with my savings, which I knew thatit was stupid, but I love her so what.
2007-10-30
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