2007-10-30 23:52:01 · 11 answers · asked by mandm68 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I raised one of my sons for 9 years before my ex told me that I wasn't the father. She then proceeded to try to reunite with the biological father (he came from money).
All she ended up with was a broken arm and a couple of black eyes from this guy, and a son on drugs who can't hold a job. My daughter will not speak to her unless she is forced to, and my "son" wants to see me but is ashamed as if he did something wrong.
Oh, and this all has been going on for 12 years. My daughter was 12 and her brother nine, they are now 24 and 21.
My ex ended up moving out of town, because she was totally huumiliated and scorned. When she finally told her present husband about all this he nearly threw her out. Now he keeps her on a very, very, short lease.
HONEY...I HOPE YOU GET EVERYTHING YOU DESERVE.
2007-10-31 00:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Jonny B 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
i in my view do no longer think of i will ever be like that. regardless of if, i think of maximum women human beings lose their libido because of the fact they are drained from chasing teenagers and looking after the homestead all day. The husband's day normally ends whilst he gets homestead and he can loosen up, the spouse's day by no ability ends as she is contantly looking after the babies. My husband and that i the two artwork finished time and he does help with the babies, yet I shield them the main. stay at homestead mothers in all possibility get even much less help because of the fact their better half assumes it is the spouse's activity considering that she is homestead all day. i think of exhaustion takes over and each minute of sleep is useful for many. There are days as quickly as I merely elect to sleep, yet there are extra days whilst i could spare some sleep for some action ;)
2016-11-09 21:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by monsalvatge 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol,There are millions! The smart ones never say a word unless the child is hurt or needs surgery or something and it comes out that way.I told this a week or so ago.A friend of mine was married over 30 years,had 5 children but when one of them needed surgery they checked the DNA of them and it turned out not ONE of them was his! To top it all off the judge forced him to pay child support for the kids even though they weren't his because he had acted as the father for years.He cashed out his life insurance gave everything away and put his 12 gage in his mouth and goodbye.Good luck.
2007-10-31 00:04:45 · answer #3 · answered by notagain49 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why ask such a question?
I believe many women have done this and are still doing it.
Is it fair to their husbands deceiving them that the child is theirs? These women will have to deal with this in their conscience for the rest of their life's.
No peace of mind because of their deceit.
2007-10-31 00:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex had at least one child (out of 4) I know wasn't mine. I raised her just as if she were mine and never treated her differently than the others. I never told her she wasn't my boilogical child, but years after the divorce, her mother told her. She broke off all contact with me and I haven't seen her in about 4 years.
2007-10-31 03:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by David W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Lets understand something, what ever Women or a man does at the end of their lives they have one God to answer to, Repent heathens
2007-11-03 23:59:58 · answer #6 · answered by Beck's57 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no. But if I wasnt sure it was my husband's. I wouldnt tell him.
2007-10-31 02:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by lagina j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very recent Straight Dope topic: http://www.straightdope.com/columns/071019.html
2007-10-31 00:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by Chipmaker Authentic 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The smart ones say nothing.
2007-10-31 00:03:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
BAD!
2007-11-03 23:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by holly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋