Marriage & Divorce - 26 October 2007

last night after coming home from work, cleaning the house and cooking me a meal ( a really nice curry ) she refused to get off her lazy backside to get me the TV remote control, when it was clearly out of my reach !! hmmm ...divorce or not ?

2007-10-26 23:48:10 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question goes out to both men and women. whether it be latex replica of the female anatomy alot of our servicemen are forced to use...shhhh! it's a secret, or women using their millions of choices they have.

2007-10-26 23:43:10 · 17 answers · asked by Shane S 1

If polygamy became legal, I think I'd consider a second husband. The first one would continue his role has my friend and lover, but the second one would be good for housework and other chores and sex whenever my other husband is not interested. My current partner and I would benefit because he would never have to do housework anymore and I would benefit because I'd get sex whenever I wanted and the other guy would benefit because he could have the joy of being a homemaker, I wouldn't make him get a job, but I would give him an allowance for food and what not and he'd get to have sex with me 'cause I'm just that awesome. Sound good or what?

2007-10-26 22:20:24 · 18 answers · asked by some female 5

i have debts and am about to be married. my bf knows my debts but is it ok to ask him for financial support to pay for my debts since i dont have work yet. will it not affect our relationship? to depend on him for finances?

2007-10-26 21:33:52 · 8 answers · asked by cheena 1

This is a serious question.....How does a person fall back in love with the same person? MORE INFO!
Been married 26 years, he was not nice, abusive verbally. (I know the problem there!) but the thing is I have fallen out of love with him and he keeps asking and trying to have me fall back in love with him. He thinks hes changing But I dont. I have told him I want out that I dont love him anymore but he keeps trying. He's afarid of being alone. (so am I )So do I try and I find that love again?

2007-10-26 21:23:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 21:15:02 · 19 answers · asked by XtremlyME 3

Im starting to think Australia is the "lucky country". I have answered questions about child support and divorce and get the thumbs down quite often. Maybe they are from people who live in the U.S and dont have the same kind of services...although I thought child support was world wide....I thought it was the same in every country. The more questions I answer and get the thumbs down, the more I am thankful I live in Australia. We obviously have a better system over here....its much more simple. Do Americans really think they are superior...do they really think their government is good? Gee, from what I have seen and read, Aussies are far better off than the Americans.....we have better pay rates, we have better conditions. Child support handles child payments without the need to go to court.. Ok, Amercians do you really think you are the superior race...if so, tell me why?

2007-10-26 21:11:14 · 8 answers · asked by rightio 6

I just recently got a job and my hubby is still complaining about how he's paying for things. I've told him once I get paid, I'll give him money. I truly appreciate what he does. Why can't he appreciate that? I clean house and cook, too. He says with the "food I [he] buy[s]".

2007-10-26 21:10:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you marry past the age of 30?
Are you married or divorced?
Why do you think you are still married or not married?

How old were you when you married?
How long did you date prior to marriage?
Are you still married?

Please do not answer, "dont know", since that is not an answer. Please answer all 6 questions. Please write more than 5 sentences. I am doing a research project on love.

Please share a story. Please use detail because that is what I am seeking. I got the time to listen.

Thank you for respecting my wishes and for answering my questions.

2007-10-26 21:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi, My hubby used to smoke pot that bad years ago that he put himself into rehab. He has started it again behind my back a few times now and stoped again. He is now smoking it again ( i know as he hides in his shed to smoke it and i know where his stash is). He is smoking it more and more, and what pisses me off is that he smokes it while he is looking after our two kids while iam at work. I have tryed bringing it up in the past and telling him how much i hate him smoking it, but he gets defencive and pretty much abusive and argumentive to the point iam to scared to confrount him now. it has totaly changed who he is now from when we met and the longer it goes the less iam liking him........... anyone have any ideas how i can confrount this issue with out him getting argumentive about it?

2007-10-26 20:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

If love means not giving up on each other even in times of good and bad, how do you know when to let go. My husband and I just recently got married and he is in the army stationed in korea. I am asking this question because even when I'm crying my heart and I beg and plead for him to stay on the phone with me, he leaves anyway. I still remember when he broke up with me on christmas day and my grandma was sent to the hospital because she was sick. I cried and begged him to give me more time because everything was happening all too fast, he said "too late, already done." I married him anyway because I thought he would change. I have forgiven him for all his mistakes in the past such as cheating, yet he won't even stay with me on the phone. I have given up everything for him. I am scared to imagine my future if one day he is determined to leave me even when I beg on my knees. Will I ever get past this? I love him so much but how do I know when enough is enough? How do I let him go?

2007-10-26 20:46:41 · 30 answers · asked by Loving.You 4

conceder the following
1- your 1st is wife is very sick
2- your 1st is wife cannot get breath
3- your have relative she is widow with kids cannot support her self
4- you need some body helping you in your live
5- woman need protection and love
6- you love the new woman and you do not divorce the first one
and you don’t want to cheat on your wife all the relation must be legal
7- you know there are more woman than men

2007-10-26 20:23:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 20:01:06 · 5 answers · asked by rin 1

My husband and I have been married for 5years and together for 9. My h has always been rather depend on me for house work, and meals. He does not cook, nor does he clean up after himself. I made a mistake 4years ago, and feel like I am still paying for it now. I work full time, 13-14 hour shift, and I get NO help with anything around the house. Im not sure if I am just whinning, I know that I should not have let it start, but I came from a house where I was the caregiver, and needed to continue for my own transition. Now I feel that I have grown and he hasn't. I need help and don't know how to ask for it.

2007-10-26 19:49:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex bf is going to marry hes wedding day is tommorow..what will you do?hes my 1st love,they said 1st love never die.i knew it because he told me..and he said he wants me back because he still love me even hes married..im 21 and hes 23.and hes girl going to marry is 26.i dont know what in hes mind.he said hes life is too complicated.he still communicate w/me if he have time because he is too busy in his wedding..but for me i want to be his friend and dont want to be his mistress..why some guys cheating?is he not satisfied w/ her wife to be?or his such a coward?

2007-10-26 19:47:09 · 18 answers · asked by mariecris 1

Mormon?, Islamic?

2007-10-26 19:43:36 · 7 answers · asked by Mark 7 1

I want to make our reunion extra special for my husband. For those of you who are soldiers and away from your wives, how would you want her to greet you?

2007-10-26 19:43:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm going thru some"stuff" right now and I really need some support. I don't want to"burden" him with my issues. I've cried alot lately and I know I'll get through this thing I'm going through, but I really need his support and I don't want him to feel like I'm crying again, ya know?....but the thing is..to get through it, I need HIS support....i have no one else I can be open with like I am with him.(he's my hubby!)..and it's so personal that i don't want to turn to friends.
So my main question is...
Should i tell him I really need him right now?...OR...
Do I suck it up and deal with it on my own?
I just don't want him to get tired of my tears...

2007-10-26 19:42:14 · 10 answers · asked by surat108 3

My husband is in the military and I got pregnant before he left for basic. Since Feb I've seen him about 3 weeks total..Actually less. This will be the first time I will be seeing him since I gave birth 6 weeks ago. Any creative ideas for him? I missed having a good romp, and I think it would be really special and cool for him to get something new after 9 months of belly...to go along with my new bod. Down 2 jean sizes from before I was pregnant! But like I said we haven't seen each other since I was in the hospital! Thanks for any new suggestions!

2007-10-26 19:41:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know that every couple is different, but still from your own experience how long should it take? Ive been dating for 3 months and been talking about family and stuff. I wouldnt say that i know for sure that i want to marry him but wanna know when he might propose( hopefully its gonna be romantic cuz he's not). I asked him when he thought a guy should ask girl to marry him and he said from 6 to 12 months dating. He already finished college a few years ago and has stable salary. I just went to college and work part time. We re in our 20. Also, how long do u think is enough to date in order to know your partner and be ready to have healthy longlasting family? Thanx a lot!!! All oppinions about this topics r welcome:)

2007-10-26 19:36:21 · 5 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-10-26 19:29:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

can you please tell me why a woman would tell on her self after she thought a man around.19. wanted her. but didnt. when she has.4. children. and a husband. and she.s in her.40.s . and thinks oce she was well used by the younger one wanted her. no way isnt she degrading her children and husband. she was no more than trailer park trash. to think what she did . is this the mommy type for her family. once she cheated .why would a woman that age think a .19. year old would want her. no way .can she compare to a woman my age . tried but failed .would you not say she was cheap. on having sex with one at.19. years old and now is being divorced over what she did. and getting other.s in trouble as what she had done. she isnt really fit to be called a mother. why woul a woman her age think she was decent. after she did that isnt she more like a child molester rather than a woman after all she was older and married trying to act like she was in her teen.s no way isnt that degrading.trash.

2007-10-26 19:21:22 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3

accept what I've told him? I've told him that there's no chance we will ever hook up...but yet he keeps trying. Why? Will he ever give up. At the same time, he sends me mixed messages. I'm confused. I wish he'd just move on.

2007-10-26 19:14:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-26 19:12:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

when i first met my husband i was 5'9 and 150 pounds.....nice chest, big butt and small waist....i did not realize how cute i was until now looking back..but anyway..since i had my lil girl who is now 20 months old i have had a hard time with my weight...I am 5'9 and i have gotten down to 185pounds (smallest i have been in 2 years) but i have no self esteem left....i dont even get naked in front of my husband and when we are intimate all lights off and i dont let him look at me or we may not even get intimate b/c i get ashamed of my body and i cant enjoy it.....how can i build up my self esteem and feel sexy in my own skin? i want to feel pretty again but when i look in the mirror i just see this gross person and i cry!

2007-10-26 19:12:01 · 12 answers · asked by jewelry lady! love my job 3

People would say: "move on". But I met a girl when I was young and fell in love with her. I wrote her a letter that the USPS did not deliver. I asked for a response and got none, so I figured she cared less about me. Recently, after 30 years I found her. She told me she never got the letter, was married for a brief time and was divorced and was single for 20 years looking for someone like me. She cried when I told her how I have felt. Now that I found her, she got married 3 years ago. It's too late. Should I pursue her? Should I give up? If I give up...I really have decided my life is over. She has been my inspiration...there has been no other and never will be.

2007-10-26 19:08:33 · 11 answers · asked by Richard C 1

What profession are you in?
What profession was she in?
How long did you date prior to marriage?
How long have you been married?
What went wrong?
How come you did not see it before marriage?

Please answer all 6 questions. Please do not submit answers like, "I got married when I was 26......" because as you can see the question SPECIFICALLY asks for the age 30. Please do not answer, "I do not believe in marriage" because as you can see the questions imply that you do. I am doing a research project in psychology on love.

Please share a story. Please be descriptive because that is what I am looking for. I got the time to listen.

Thank you for respecting my wishes and for answering my questions.

2007-10-26 18:58:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, this guy at work is married and so am I. Sometimes when I'm not looking, he would just stop and stare at me for a few seconds. I think that he would walk by my office just to see if I'm there or make a few excuses to get close to me.

I thought perhaps he liked me, but then I noticed that he also flirts with another young and attractive female worker as well.
At first when I thought that he was attracted to just me, I was flattered, but then I found that he was the same to someone else, I became disgusted and glad that I'm not his wife.

What do you think of this guy? When is flirting wrong?

2007-10-26 18:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1

When picking the one, what clues do you look for to tell that she will be "wife material"

2007-10-26 18:52:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

What are the characteristics of your dream woman be? (ie, describe her personality)

2007-10-26 18:50:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous