Ok, this guy at work is married and so am I. Sometimes when I'm not looking, he would just stop and stare at me for a few seconds. I think that he would walk by my office just to see if I'm there or make a few excuses to get close to me.
I thought perhaps he liked me, but then I noticed that he also flirts with another young and attractive female worker as well.
At first when I thought that he was attracted to just me, I was flattered, but then I found that he was the same to someone else, I became disgusted and glad that I'm not his wife.
What do you think of this guy? When is flirting wrong?
2007-10-26 18:55:48 · 17 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask yourself this if you hadn't found out that he was flirting with someone else and only you would you have considered it disgusting then? You should have let him know that although he may not have as much love and respect for his wife as you do your husband he needs to take his flirtatious antics back to his office. If its not pertaining to work then he has no reason to be sniffing around your office like a dog in heat. The day you said I DO all player cards were revoked flirting included the only exception is when your flirting with the one you love.
2007-10-26 19:35:21 · answer #1 · answered by H Town Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all I'm glad that your smart enough to know that he is flirting. Secondly why did you want him to just flirt with you knowing that both of you are married. It sounds like that you are a bit jealous that he was flirting with another woman. You can't have this feeling towards him, remember you are married to someone else and he is married to someone else.
Your thankful that you are not his wife because of what he is doing at work, can you imagine the betrayal that his already doing behind his wife's back? Next time that you see him,try not to think of how good it feels because his trying to make you feel special. Let your own husband do this to you not from someone else that you work with,...........I apologize for my bluntness but I'm just being honest with you.
2007-10-26 19:42:27 · answer #2 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just flirtatious by nature. They like to flatter women, and they like the reactions they get. My best friend is one of the most flirtatious men I know, and he is happier than I have ever seen him with his fiancee.
You say you were disgusted and glad you were not his wife after finding out he was not attracted to only you. But what kind of wife does that make you?
2007-10-26 19:10:44 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always wrong to flirt with a married person. Flirting can lead to cheating. Do U want to be known as "the other wome" ? "a home wrecker" ? Guys never get the blame. That is also Y unwed mothers get THEMSELVES pregrant. Stay away from married guys they are nothing but trouble.
2007-10-26 19:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by bhappy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm with weechi. And it's funny that you were okay with it and even flattered until you found he was doing it with others as well, then you became disgusted. Quite opposite ends of the spectrum. Sounds like you have some soul-searching to do.
2007-10-26 19:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by Magaroni 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When it feels wrong. Just always ask yourself... How would I feel if it was my partner doing this?.. Still feels innocent and friendly? Then carry on.. I know I would be hurt if I found out my husband had been flirting with another woman.
2007-10-27 02:10:01 · answer #6 · answered by gellygoggles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of innocuous flirting actual facilitates a dating. It boosts your self belief then you definately circulate homestead and use that advance on your boyfriend. i does not flirt in front of him nonetheless, it will only make him jealous and you do not % that throughout your existence. Scoping out warm adult males with single acquaintances is relaxing and innocuous as long as you do not act upon it.
2016-10-02 21:53:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirting is always wrong if you are committed to another person. why were you entertaining the thought that maybe he liked you? and why be disgusted when you see is like that to all the women? really you need to bring your husband to work with you, not in literal sense but in way that will help you to avoid these traps. ask yourself if my husband was with me now what is the best way to carry myself?
2007-10-26 19:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by C B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's just flirting it's not wrong. Flirting makes us feel good about ourselves. It's not like you are going to start some torrid affair. You said yourself that he flirts with everyone.
2007-10-27 02:57:13 · answer #9 · answered by jennyღ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh so when you thought it was only you it was all good, and then when you found out his a real dog you got disgusted and glad your not his wife.
So if it was only you then it would be okay.
Am the devil and am disgusted with you.....BLAH
marry peeps make me wanna puke
2007-10-26 19:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋