can you please tell me why a woman would tell on her self after she thought a man around.19. wanted her. but didnt. when she has.4. children. and a husband. and she.s in her.40.s . and thinks oce she was well used by the younger one wanted her. no way isnt she degrading her children and husband. she was no more than trailer park trash. to think what she did . is this the mommy type for her family. once she cheated .why would a woman that age think a .19. year old would want her. no way .can she compare to a woman my age . tried but failed .would you not say she was cheap. on having sex with one at.19. years old and now is being divorced over what she did. and getting other.s in trouble as what she had done. she isnt really fit to be called a mother. why woul a woman her age think she was decent. after she did that isnt she more like a child molester rather than a woman after all she was older and married trying to act like she was in her teen.s no way isnt that degrading.trash.
2007-10-26 19:21:22 · 8 answers · asked by matthew v 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when . she.s more at fault for rather than the .19. year old man and she.s in her.40.s isnt she libile by law rather than who she was with in a case like it .
2007-10-26 19:25:49 · update #1
any woman or man would tell this on there self is both sicking. and as you put it very degrading and in my thought.s are both very sick so you.2. ought to get along very well . legal speaking. yes it.s called common sence to get mixed up in other.s marrage but since you are well both are sicking. my opion?
2007-10-26 19:47:56 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, at some point the 19 year old thought she was good enough to have sex with. Now he's facing the consequences of having had sex with a married woman.
As for her, it was a foolish thing to have done, and it has destroyed her marriage. Obviously it meant more to her than just a quick roll in the hay.
Degrading? Yes, for both the 40 year old and the 19 year old. Not because of the age gap, but because of the actions of being involved in infidelity. He and she are over the age of consent.
Too late for the 19 year old to start complaining that she shouldn't have taken him seriously and that she doesn't compare to women his own age. As for calling her a child molester, he wasn't thinking that when he got into bed with her. It's just a convenient excuse now that it's all coming out into the open.
Hopefully the 19 year old is learning a good lesson early in life - infidelity causes lots of problems for everyone involved.
2007-10-26 19:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you know what's degrading? People Like you.... YOu don't know how this women felt and what she was going through.... And no one is trash but people who call others that.... get the hint..First of... every women cheat, so do men, it's not good, but it's reality.... now the Guy was 19 not 16 or 17.... the only wrong thing she did was cheat... And that she would ruin her marriage for this meant she in her mind thought it was the real thing. didn't you ever think, there is another side to the story... degrading, not her, but people like you
2007-10-26 19:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
A guy at 19 is not less at fault. He's over 18. He should have been thinking with his brain at the time. No use crying over spilt milk. They are both wrong. Why? One was married to someone else.
2007-10-26 19:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first let me say that women in there 40s are a lot better than a 19 yr old girl, have seen some that would blow ur socks off, secound, she has u tore all to pieces dude
2007-10-26 19:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably just proud she's still "got it". Women are very proud to land a younger man. That much younger is wrong, wrong wrong. But hey, some people get off on nasty things. Her loss. she has been punished enough losing her marriage and kids' respect.
2007-10-26 19:27:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she a child molestor ,yeah there are big gaps in couples ages but when do you draw a line ....after all he is old enough to be her son
2007-10-26 19:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by justanother1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya I agree. You already answered your question dude.
2007-10-26 19:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by Mike C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋