Marriage & Divorce - 23 October 2007

the husband bought the home and land be4 they were married. She was wondering how the courts would divide them. Just what she was entitled to having.Please no nonsense..Serious only .....and where she could find out what part was hers.....

2007-10-23 23:43:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you have more with another woman/man?

2007-10-23 23:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by benj 2

2007-10-23 22:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by James 2

Also highly likely he has kids by the other woman

2007-10-23 22:26:03 · 37 answers · asked by xxxyyyzzz 3

I've read some places that you shouldn't apologize to your ex. But here are my thoughts... if you offended someone shouldn't you apologize, especially if you are sincere? Why would it be any different than apologizing to anyone else? Isn't that just an escapism mentality for not taking responsibility for yourself and your actions if you don't apologize?

2007-10-23 22:01:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

married to the one he got pregnant 20 years ago,that's why he married her?

2007-10-23 21:56:34 · 22 answers · asked by dee 1

I was taking a group picture, then I got into the picture but at the opposite end of the group from my husband, and he got mad. He made me promise never to get my picture taken away from him again. Then, 6 months later, I take a picture for a guy, and afterwards he tells me to get in his place. I step between two male acquaintances of ours, and they get my husband on the end, and take a picture. So the line up is my husband, a male acquaintance, me and a male acquaintance. My husband has been furious ever since. He says there is something wrong with me, and that I don't know how to conduct myself. He is accusing me of cheating, checking my cell phone bills to see who I talk to, listening in on my home calls, and the only place I have been for the last 4 months by myself is work. He goes everywhere else I go. We've been married 20 years and this is the worst our marriage has ever been. He says I need help, but I say he does. Who's right?

2007-10-23 21:45:39 · 33 answers · asked by Patricia 1

Befor marriage the boys and girls love each other very much. After many years of marriage the sex becomes monotonous and there is no much interest left in it for the man as well as the woman. In western countries they swap the partners and try to bring some spice in relationship. Is this prevalent in India? We heard it happens in rich and elite society. Is it correct? They say in some clubs the car keys are mixed and picked up by the ladies and then they have sex with concerned partner? Is it true? What are bachelorett parties? I think the girls in western society are far more free and open about sex and relationship than in India? Which is better?

2007-10-23 21:16:25 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

Hi ..

Request your suggestion.

We met in a marriage before 10 yrs . Spend time for 10days became very close and seperated. She went to her native place and I came back to my Native.

we are contactless till now.

Now ...I came to know that their relatives are trying to do her marriage with me.

No contacts with her now.

Is is better to have a positive mindset on this girl based on our frendship before 10 yrs. ???

I cant just ignore their offer simply.... coz she may be the better match for me .

Please suggest me ...wht to do now ?

2007-10-23 20:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by hazarath r 1

we all get pissed off at times but theres such a thing called lettin it go,but i dnt know y he always goes on n on n on in arguments saying horrid things n then its me to blame for mking the initial comment.though that was a result from his action.apologizing doesnt wrk.y has he a short temper,by the way its only with me not with his family.wat do i do?

2007-10-23 20:48:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-23 20:44:19 · 21 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5

i'm 20, my bf has no job yet, but he is responsible person. I'm living with my mom. My 1 brother has 2 baby and did not yet marry. my other broher's wife is pregnant too but married last year.. They both have no work-also their wife.. they are still finding.. my mom is a Christian and teaching the word of God and we, her children (4) grew in the love of God but I don't know what happened to us.. I still believe that in every person, comes disapointment.. now, my mom is very depressed because of my brothers and i don't like to add in my mom's burden.. My mom dreams for me is to have job, marry before having a baby.. i felt guilty that I ruin her dreams and I don't like too to destroy her reputation.. many people respects her a lot for advising and teaching the word of God.. What will I do now? Will i marry my BF now that I'm pregnant or marry him after I will gave birth? How about abortion? no one knows yet that I'm pregnant for 1 month except my BF..help me out.. advice me..pls..

2007-10-23 20:25:30 · 11 answers · asked by cute 1

diff understanding of things, diff cultures, diff age groups affects thinking, and of course diff locations diff upbringings. i am from Delhi, India.

I am a guy and thinking of getting married. i am going for arranged marriage so before that i want to assess the personality of the candidates/females. cos i do not want any crook, evil, dominating, selfish etc kind of a girl.

I want a adjusting, loving, mature, understanding, and not a crook kind of a girl.

so how do i assess the girls. since i am not a psychiatrist.

what are the ways of assessing a girl or a person through conversation .

what are the other things by which a person can be assessed as in his overall personality.??

Thanks for answering and your precious time.

Take care .

have a nice day.

God bless u.

Bye,

2007-10-23 20:18:33 · 4 answers · asked by Jerry Maguire 1

my ex husband and me start going out at high school i got pregnet when i was 16 and we have a girl.I drop out of high school so i could start my family things change he got mad at everything and was jealous of everybody that talk to me.I never cheaded on him and one day i got tired of his bad attitude and left him.After a month i started going out to clubs with my friends and start having fun i did not want to think about him.I was like this for two years until one day i got pregnet of my best friend we were drinking and i told him that i miss my husband and that i love him alot and he told me that he loved me and that he could make me and my daughter happy.I did not want to be with him because i see him as a friend know my son is 4 and my ex husband got married and haves a 2 month old daughter and everytime he comes to pick up my daughter i get sad because i want to tell him that i love him and that i will never forget him i need help his married and i dont want any problems.

2007-10-23 20:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

been with my bf for almost 3 years (will be 3 in Feb). we have wonderfully loving relationship but it's had ups and downs due to me being diagnosed w/PMDD about 5 months ago (now see a counselor and take meds). we dont live together but i spend all my time w/out my 3 daughters at his house. he's 29 no kids, never married and i'm 28 w/3 girls from previous marriage.

he loves my kids (sees them at least once a week) and we are VERY close. have discussed moving in and living together but he says things have to fall into place and can't be rushed.

we are seeing my counselor together tomorrow and she asked us to answer 2 questions but not show each other the answers. well i emailed him the questions so he wouldn't lose them and he accidently emailed me his answers!! pls read rest...

2007-10-23 19:59:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does love ever feel the same? i've split with my ex 5 months ago and i still miss her terribly, i still love her and can't imagine been with anyone but her but this isn't going to happen and if it ever does it won't be for many years. She was the first person i've ever really truly loved. Will it ever feel the same to fall in love again? i can't imagine feeling anything towards anyone else like i did with her. Does love feel the same the second time around or is it not as strong?

2007-10-23 19:52:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and i have been together for almost two years, and recently he expressed to me that he did not love me at all. he said he hadn't loved me for a long time. i just dont understand how you could tell someone you love and dont mean it. thats hurts so much more than to just not say it at all.

2007-10-23 19:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by Kristen S 1

She fell in love with a happily married classmate and they met in a remote resort and none of them informed their respective spouses.Neither his wife nor me know of their secret email correspondence till I found her passionate love letter.He cut off this relation later though she contacted him on phone.When I contacted him he said it was only a frienship and that he did not know she was loving him till I told him.She even dragged me to a lawyer but refused to give divorce as she never thought of it anytime of her life, even during the affair though the letter suggests otherwise.Now she asks me to forgive her and I feel she loves me now.But she gets so wild and disrespectful sometimes that I wonder whether my life with her is worth so much pain and insult except for two wonderful kids who we love very much.For the past 9 months,she has been very nice to me and I am also beginning to love and respect her unlike in the past.She asks me to trust her and never bring this up as she lovesme

2007-10-23 19:27:39 · 23 answers · asked by havah 2

My husband lies about everything. He lies about where he's at. He lies about who he's with. He comes home at all hours of the night. He says he's at work but he's not. He doesn't answer my calls. I've tried telling him how it makes me feel. He said he would change all of it but an hour later he's right back at it.

2007-10-23 19:11:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My exgirlfriend of two years now has another boyfriend. She met this guy 2wks after she and I broke up, and has been intimate with him (sexually as well) during a week in knowing this guy.....It's now been two months.

She has remained in a relationship with this guy, while creeping by to my apartment to have sex with me, tell me she loves me and etc. ( I love her and am not over her, and I know I'm a fuucking fool). She has deliberately lied to this boyfriend of hers, telling him she's going to class, when in all actuallity, she spends the day with me. The time we spend together is as if we're still together, but then she departs, and goes back home to him. I feel used afterwards. Does this make her a hoe? A whore? She sleeps with me(her ex, that she claims to love me still,) and then leaves and go back to her "boyfriend" (my replacement). In the past I've called her a slut but didnt mean it, but does her actions prove her to be. I've always suspected of her to cheat, but..

2007-10-23 19:06:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

alright so I am 19 but in 22 years I can come back and this statement will be true. I have never had a girlfriend, barely any friends that were girls, dont even think you can call them friends cuz I have never hung out with a girl. Girls just dont like me I dont know why. I thought I was pretty normal athletic/built, smart, nice, kind,respectful, thought I looked good(girls must not though). So I am just done with girls and want to know how to just not be attracted to them anymore

2007-10-23 18:50:00 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 14 years and over the years my husband seems to annoy me all the time.Like when we sit on the lounge he hits the cushion next to me every 3 to 5 minutes.Even his laugh annoys me now,he sounds like a girl when he laughs.I can't wait till he leaves for work.When he goes to work I feel so much more relaxed and happy.

2007-10-23 18:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

money is being deducted from my earnings on a monthly basis. The money being deducted is NOT backpay. My question is...
since i have agreed to take my kids for a month do i have an immediate right to the child support that is being deducted?

2007-10-23 18:27:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious of opinions, these days in the US so many women/men (hooking up) living with their partners for months or even years, then to split up. Aren't these folks pretty much similar to divorsed women/men. I mean if they had a place together, lived together, even had kids together. The fact that they did not get a marriage license should not really make a difference, no? Is there a category for women/men like these, more that just "dated", since it was so much more?. Furthermore, same idea could apply to gf/bf that has a place but lives with bf/gf most of the time - say 4 or 5 days out of a week. Thoughts?

2007-10-23 18:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by malk e 2

my ex husband has full custody of my 4 girls under what i would call suspicious circumstances. despite the fact that i have not been stripped of any parental rights he does have the ability to keep me from my children. during the custody proceedings he was treated with respect, listened to and catered to, why, i honestly do not know. i have a decent 3 br apt in the burbs and the capibility to give my girls all they need. without even assesing the situations the children were remanded to his custody. i have recently found out that he is living in a 2 br house with a woman, her brother and her 4 boys. so thats 6 males ranging in age from 2 to 18 yo kids and my ex, and 5 females 7 to 15 yo and a grown woman. 11 people in a 2 br house. is this even LEGAL? and how in the world could they release my girls into that overcrowded situation rather than with me, where there are no other kids and 1 br more to house them in? do i need a lawyer? if so can you help find one that might work pro bono?

2007-10-23 18:07:58 · 12 answers · asked by colts_pet_lioness 2

IM REALLY IN A BIND RIGHT NOW.... ME AND MY HUSBAND ARE HAVING TERRIBLE MARRIAGE PROBLAMS, BESIDES THAT HE IS IN THE NAVY.. SO THAT DOESNT HELP TOO MUCH..I HAVE BEEN STAYIN WITH HIS MOM OVER A YEAR AND ITS LIKE HE IS NOT EVEN TRYIN TO GET A PLACE... I FEEL STUCK.. CUS IM NOT HAPPY .. THEN HE CAME AT ME TEH OTHER NIGHT AND TOLD ME HE DONT WANT A DIVORCE BUT HE WANST TO BE SINGLE... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO THINK.... I HAVE ASKED HIM WHY...I HAVE DONE ALL I CAN AND EVEN TRIED TO SIT AND TALK WITH HIM BUT ALL IT TAKES IS A COUPLE DAYS AND HE IS BACK AT POINT ONE SAYIN HE WANTS TO BE SINGLE.....WE HAVE A 4 MO OLD CHILD AND ANOTEHR ON THE WAY.... WHAT SHOULD I DO??? SHOULD I GUVE HIM HIS FREEDOM... CUS IM FED UP WITH HIS CONFUSION!

2007-10-23 17:59:57 · 11 answers · asked by twanz_sexii_wifey 1

I met this guy on the internet and he is 22 and I am 34. I'm also married(divorcing), with 2 young children. He knows all of this. We met on the internet and connected right away. Texting, talking, web cam, all on an almost daily basis. He's in his senior year of college and an athlete. He's really busy and i kinda screwed things up becoming too attached. he was ignoring me for a few weeks, then he called me Sat. to let me know that all of this was too much for him cause we don't even know eachother yet. He says he likes me but feels uncomfortable cuz of my marriage(until i'm divorced). We had sex once a month ago and we both agree it was amazing!!! But he says he wants to get to know me as friends first; as a person before we become intimate again. What would you think of this? I can understand but we really have fun together and i enjoyed him sexually and as a person, but i admit i don't actually know him yet......What to do????

2007-10-23 17:57:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i want her to understand that is a form of 4 play and boy do we need to put the spark back in our sex life we have been together for 11years HELP ME HELP HER

2007-10-23 17:55:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was watching a movie today and a thought crossed my mind. In movies and general culture, it's generally accepted that Bachelor Parties include strippers. However, I wonder how many of the groom-to-be's actually sleep with them.
Can you married men give me a hand on this question and tell me your personal experience?

If you're a man, you've been married or are married, and had a Bachelor party with a stripper, how did that turn out? Did you sleep with the stripper, have fun with her, or completely turn her away?

Just curious. Thanks! :]

2007-10-23 17:53:58 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Taylor 3

If your husband posted on myspace that he had a matching tattoo with another girl for a survey that you posted for him to fill out would this hurt your feelings?

2007-10-23 17:46:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous