If your husband posted on myspace that he had a matching tattoo with another girl for a survey that you posted for him to fill out would this hurt your feelings?
2007-10-23 17:46:55 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think your insecure. But there is nothing wrong with that. Your husband should respect the fact that he's married to a beautiful women and not married to some other girl with a matching tattoo.
2007-10-23 17:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think the Myspaces cause more damage than they're worth. I'm waiting for the courts to implement The Myspaces as a reason for divorce right along with irreconcilable differences...
I wouldn't worry too much about a matching tattoo, or the fact that he mentioned it in the first place. It's trivial. However if he had stated, "I was looking at this particular woman while she was naked and found that she had a tattoo on her 'credentials' that matches mine..." I'd worry. But he didn't so don't over think this. Because believe me, he probably doesn't even recognize the correlation between a matching tattoo as someone else and the fact that you could possibly be jealous of it, in the first place.
2007-10-23 18:45:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is something to be hurt over [that is, if I am reading this right]. If your husband, on myspace, said that he had a matching tattoo with another girl, which was probably something from a long time ago, there is no need to be mad.
2007-10-23 17:50:09 · answer #3 · answered by Don't Do Sadness 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Depends....did he get a matching tattoo on purpose? Has he known about it for a while and not told you? Does the other girl have any significance in his past?
If you answered no to all of these questions, then you are wrong to be mad. Otherwise, he has some explaining to do. If he can put it on myspace, he can tell his wife about it.
2007-10-23 17:53:02 · answer #4 · answered by dlb_blair 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
YES your wrong to be mad about this , cause how he would know some one else had the same tatoo? in the 1st place most tatoo shop's run off a pre-printed booking system , so 99% of all shops have the same designs of tatoo's , you gave him the survey to fill out stop being silly , its just a survey.
2007-10-23 18:44:03 · answer #5 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do I understand this question correctly, you posted a survey for your husband to fill out and now you are mad that he may have told the truth in your survey???????
So long as my Hubby isn't doing "TATs" with some one else, after he married me, I would figure so what, he is mine now and he is humoring me with this silly survey when he would rather be making whoopie with me or watching Nascar.......
It is not fair to ask something if all you are going to do is throw a fit if he tells the truth....................
2007-10-23 17:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Judy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it would make me feel hurt. I would have to know who the other girl is. I have a matching tattoo with my best guy friend, and my boyfriend knows. He doesnt seem to mind. I dont believe it is something you need to get steaming mad about but wouldnt be a bad thing to ask about.
2007-10-23 17:52:16 · answer #7 · answered by not_an_angel_just_a_girl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Girl, delete your myspace account if you are going to get mad about ****. Computers can ruin a marriage. Leave it along.
2007-10-23 18:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by RONNIEKAT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It would hurt my feelings too, but you have to look at the circumstance. As he was filling out the survey I doubt he thought about his answer hurting your feelings. I am sure if he knew it would bother you, he wouldn't have done it. As long as it is not out of malice, then I would tell him how I felt and let it go.
2007-10-23 17:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Penguinous 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Hahaha...I love how myspace is the thing to discuss these days...lol
Anyway
I would be a little hurt, but I have to agree with another poster. It's an insecurity. If you feel uncomfortable with it, talk to him about it. Don't confront him, but you need to open about these things or your relationship will be held back. Trust me!
2007-10-23 18:03:34 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋