Hi ..
Request your suggestion.
We met in a marriage before 10 yrs . Spend time for 10days became very close and seperated. She went to her native place and I came back to my Native.
we are contactless till now.
Now ...I came to know that their relatives are trying to do her marriage with me.
No contacts with her now.
Is is better to have a positive mindset on this girl based on our frendship before 10 yrs. ???
I cant just ignore their offer simply.... coz she may be the better match for me .
Please suggest me ...wht to do now ?
2007-10-23 20:50:33 · 8 answers · asked by hazarath r 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hi h@z@r@th....
Well dude frankly speaking i dont think that you should really go for it. I mean you were not in contact with her and suddenly after 10 yrs you'll again meet her. The situation will create awkwardness and this would be like an arrange marriage.
Maybe i am not supportin you as i am totally against of arrange marriages. I mean how can someone get married to a total stranger and get so much close to him/ her.
I think love is the best policy. So refuse the offer and find a better girl. Maybe she might be a better match for you rather then this girl.
But dude, if its in your destiny then this girl will automatically marry you. So dont worry, just chill and ya remember DO WATEVER UR HEART SAYZ.... ;)...lolz....tc...sweet dreamz..bye...
*****Do w@tevEr uR hE@rT $@yZ....*****.
2007-10-24 05:21:02 · answer #1 · answered by $@LLu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an arrange marriage, isn't it?
What seem to be the problem if you know her (before 10 yrs) or not?
Do you have a choice? You have the right to ignore if you don't want to.
The only problem here is that ... if you will agree to marry her or not.
You are lucky actually, because ... at least you already know about the girl you're going to marry.
Goodluck
2007-10-23 22:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by always confuse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you met before 10 years back is not important what is today situation about that girl is important might be changing in her mind, character and other so many question raise. First you should meet to that there after take any decision in the matter of marriage, that she is perfect choice for your marriage.
2007-10-23 21:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey
i think she would be the best choice for you. marrying a stranger is much better than marrying a known person. ithink is something bounds you both together .maybe u r made for eachother thats why somehow ur marriage is trying to be fixed with that girl.......i hope u take the right decision n all the best for your future......bye bye take care
2007-10-23 21:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by eammy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the common American female does have intercourse with distinctive companions before marriage, yet as quickly as she properly-knownshows the guy she truly loves and desires to be with, she'll stay dedicated to him. examine your data, although: maximum marriages give way because of the guy, not the lady. men are lots extra probably to cheat because of the fact they are able to't merely savor what they have have been given, or they're too stupid to realize that they could desire to in straightforward terms end the relationship if the ladies people they're with are actually not any further relaxing to them. additionally, numerous men grow to be lazy and too comfortable while they're married, thinking that their different halves will consistently be waiting to toddler them. we don't suggestions babying our men slightly each now and then, yet we don't want to attend on them hand-and-foot, and we get sick of being dealt with like we are maids truly than intimate companions.
2016-12-15 07:56:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead, you are lucky that you are engaged to the very girl you fell in love with 10 years back.You know you loved her at that time,else you would have given talked about seperation.Atleast you must have wished you met her again.Wish you all the best.
2007-10-23 21:11:46 · answer #6 · answered by havah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about an arranged marriage? I would think that she would be better than a stranger. At least you know a little about her and that you could like to be with her.
2007-10-23 20:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine.....it would strengthen ur marriage life...
if i were u,i would have grabbed the oppurtunity..
2007-10-23 20:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋