I have been married for 14 years and over the years my husband seems to annoy me all the time.Like when we sit on the lounge he hits the cushion next to me every 3 to 5 minutes.Even his laugh annoys me now,he sounds like a girl when he laughs.I can't wait till he leaves for work.When he goes to work I feel so much more relaxed and happy.
2007-10-23 18:46:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
About after 2 years of marriage I fell out of love with my husband.I don't remember how it happened.Now I feel like I don't love my husband.We have been together for 21 years altogether.I am not attracted to him anymore and when he touches me I feel annoyed.Does this mean my marriage is over?
2007-10-23 19:02:54 · update #1
14 years is a long time to be with someone....after that long *anyone* would annoy you. I don't think it means anything terrible, maybe it just means you and your husband need to spend more time together appreciating the reasons why you got together in the first place. Make a conscious effort (on both of your parts) to start up something romantic-it'll put the spark back in and make the annoying things less obvious.
2007-10-23 18:55:48 · answer #1 · answered by lovelymrsm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're being a bit of a *****. If you don't love him anymore, leave. If you do, get help. No wonder he's annoying you, It's been 14 f**king years!
2007-10-23 18:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your marriage never really existed. You don't fall out of love with anyone. If the attraction fades, it is because you were never really in love. Probably some kind of infatuation.
Why do fools fall in love?
They don't. They only think they do.
2007-10-23 19:25:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I so don't understand how can you feel this way if you have been together over 20 yrs altogether. If you don't have any love in your heart for your mate, why stay together; I really don't understand.
2007-10-23 20:54:10 · answer #4 · answered by anthony b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll find annoying habits if you look for em. but if you really love him the annoying parts should be overwhelmed when you guys have a good moment together or soemthing
2007-10-23 18:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by Blake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sound like you and your husband or going throught some
things, talk to someone about why you feel as you do, then
you can do what is right for you and your husband.
2007-10-23 18:58:11 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You married him. You need to work at remembering why you married him and concentrate on that. Don't concentrate on hating him.
2007-10-23 18:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ruth..dump him and be with me.
2007-10-23 18:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋