my ex husband and me start going out at high school i got pregnet when i was 16 and we have a girl.I drop out of high school so i could start my family things change he got mad at everything and was jealous of everybody that talk to me.I never cheaded on him and one day i got tired of his bad attitude and left him.After a month i started going out to clubs with my friends and start having fun i did not want to think about him.I was like this for two years until one day i got pregnet of my best friend we were drinking and i told him that i miss my husband and that i love him alot and he told me that he loved me and that he could make me and my daughter happy.I did not want to be with him because i see him as a friend know my son is 4 and my ex husband got married and haves a 2 month old daughter and everytime he comes to pick up my daughter i get sad because i want to tell him that i love him and that i will never forget him i need help his married and i dont want any problems.
2007-10-23 20:13:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if he's not happily married, and you can see that he is happier with you and you would change to make things work, then definitely tell him. if you love him that much, it's worth a shot. but if you see that he is happy in the place that he is right now, don't. Let him be happy. You had your chance and if you really loved him, you would see my point.
2007-10-23 21:24:15 · answer #1 · answered by Loving.You 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see...you have two kids from two different men, one man is willing to do the right thing and even take extra responsibilities and the other guy that you think you love is now married with his own family and really wants nothing to do with you. Time to grow up. If you are not careful, you may wind up alone, losing custody, and by the way you said you get over relationships probably wind up pregnant again by someone new.
Take your first relationship as the past. Be glad that there is a man willing to have you and take the responsibility. A good man is hard to find and too many women throw them aside. Count your blessings and raise your children proper. Nothing is as important now as that...
2007-10-24 03:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by n2dfyrigo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not tell him. It will cause a lot of problems. There is a man out there for you . You just have to find him.
2007-10-24 03:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry.... you had your chance and you blew it.... leave him alone if he has a new wife and a new life.... you made your bed so lie in it.
2007-10-24 03:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by DavidV 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would tell him at least you got off your chest,and will know where you stand
2007-10-24 04:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by sky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋