Marriage & Divorce - 20 October 2007

if it sounds too good to be true, is it too good to be true? what is the status of her relationship? btw, she has been with him for around 7 year years, married for a couple

2007-10-20 23:28:18 · 19 answers · asked by teh smooth 2

I met my wife in china. Shortly after we got married, I had come back to the states to work. Now there is something makes me don't feel comfortable. My wife doesn't want people around her to know that she has married, she told me not to visit her at work when I go to china to see her this coming Dec. She also ask me to trust her. Now she still talks to her old boyfriend, she want me to understand that there is nothing between them, they are just friends... hell, that's not the girl I think I knew before, what should do? What does it mean?Please give me some suggestions. Thanks! jk

2007-10-20 22:49:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i recently had break up with my g/f simply because our family opposed the relation. we wanted to get married but consition is worsed now. we are not on talking terms since 6 months. what to do i love her and want her back in my life. i feel very lonely and dont want to get married with any other gal. moreover, we will not marry against the will of our family...............life sucks!

2007-10-20 22:33:14 · 9 answers · asked by butter-boy 1

i don't know why the ratio of divorce rate is so high in america.
why the american's won't think a lasting relationship.if parents took divorce altimately the victims are childrens.i think in every realtionship some problems are there but divorce is not a good solution.why the american's won't sacrifice thier life to their family.before marriage we should know each other and love each other.

2007-10-20 22:28:30 · 12 answers · asked by p.praveen b 1

I have read that the natural biological urges of the woman only guarantee a four-year period of fidelity with each man. Any exceptions are only because of extreme will power on her part and/or a disenchantment with romance. Is this true?

2007-10-20 22:26:09 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I came home from work yesterday to find my wife in bed with the neighbour...who just happens to be female. She promised me she'd stop her bisexual activities. Am I wrong to consider this a betrayal ?

2007-10-20 22:17:59 · 32 answers · asked by Mr X 1

2007-10-20 21:49:07 · 18 answers · asked by 1212 2

Is it ok for a person to change their spouse to "help them grow up"? Is it ok for them to make them change their habits and friends because they were a "waste of time"? In a marriage such as that, would trying to work it out still be the right thing? How would you be able to work it out when the changes would still be there and the unhappiness with it? If anyone has seen some sort of book on this topic, that would be greatly appreciated as well. thank you.

2007-10-20 21:29:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 21:26:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 21:22:41 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it really just not that important to you? Like it is something to be crossed off a list? Do you anticipate it? Do you think that just because you're married, you don't have to put the effort into it anymore?, now that you bagged your man?
Case in point: I know two husbands who have very pretty wives, and think their lives are all hunky-dory. What they don't know is that they are being cheated on when their guys are out of town for work during the week. One paid for some nasty hookers in Raleigh, and the other brought a 300-pound gal back to the hotel room on a different job trip. As it stands, this is a fairly regular occurrence, and shocks the hell out of me, because I find their wives attractive.

They both claim they don't get any from their wives and are tired of the non-attention.

So wives, my question to you is, why does sex become an afterthought to you. Why is pleasing your man not as high on your list as watching Survivor?

2007-10-20 21:19:57 · 18 answers · asked by lovinglifeina69 2

Just because i wasn't tight and he cheated on me. So now i GOT to be cheating on him

2007-10-20 21:03:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

why would a married woman once they get caught or tell on who they been with this isnt right to get the other party involved in what they happened to get caught doing .why drag the one who was with them in it no caring if it causes the one problems with there wife or girlfriend . and why even tell your husband you was cheating on him. makes no sence to me telling there husbands this. why dont they just keep it to there selves.

2007-10-20 21:01:40 · 4 answers · asked by matthew v 3

to eat tomorrow for breakfast with our 1yr and 4 yr old.
Is he bipolar?

2007-10-20 21:00:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 20:23:54 · 13 answers · asked by mony y 2

was using his laptop yesterday and found out that he had been googled search for news of his ex-fling (he had an affair with her 3 years ago). what should i do? is this just out of curiosity/boredom/something more? obviously he doesn't know where she is right now, so what is he trying to achieve? should i confront him? i should also mention that he had done this before a few months back, when i confront him about it, he apologised and said it was silly of him, and he was just bored?

2007-10-20 20:22:39 · 14 answers · asked by kate 1

what if your wife stated out all night and wont tell you were she was and that i should trust her what true

2007-10-20 20:14:05 · 37 answers · asked by sparo425 1

2007-10-20 20:13:02 · 20 answers · asked by David V 6

I have been reading "The Sociologically Examined Life" by Michael Schwalbe.

Here is a quote from it followed by a question Schwalbe later asks. please answer and explain.... Thanks

"In the past, women gave up their family names upon getting married and took the last name of their new husband. This practice served to indicate that a woman as a piece of property, had been transferred from one male(the father) to another(the husband). Men did not change their names. Men were owners, not property.
Today we reject the idea of women as property, yet this name changing practice persists why"

2007-10-20 20:12:09 · 7 answers · asked by Atomic New Theory 5

have you ever fallen in love and loved that person so much but that person did something to you that just maded you hate them so much but you can help to love them

2007-10-20 20:12:08 · 19 answers · asked by Joc164 1

2007-10-20 20:10:35 · 14 answers · asked by Gabe 3

my bf and i have been dating for almost two years. the majority of our relationship has been long distance. we are very much in love and have indirectly talked about marriage but both agree that living in the same place is a must before making such a statement. we are both virgins and are waiting for marriage. i am fairly certain i want to marry this man. here is the issue: he will be moving to my city in a few months. we have discussed moving in together. he is 100% for it. i am nervous. the facts that we have not lived in the same place for an extended period of time, we are maintaining that we want to wait to have sex, and the fact that the idea of moving in together and then finding out that it isnt working simply terrifies me. what if it all goes wrong?! on the flip side, as i said before, i dont foresee a breakup and i anticipate marriage, it makes sense financially, and we truly enjoy spending time together but we also appreciate and accept our need for space. help!

2007-10-20 19:39:11 · 10 answers · asked by anna8324 1

My wife came into my home office tonight, with messed up hair, wearing no makeup, wearing a baggy t-shirt and asked "Do you want to DO me?" and then walked off to the bedroom and curled up under the covers.

I am a very romantic, as well as visually oriented guy, and I can't get turned on when my wife approaches me this way... it results in a lot of bad feelings between us.

My dream come true would be if she wore a little makeup, maybe combed her hair and and wore ANYTHING other than a baggy t-shirt when she is in the mood and approaches me. I talked to her about this, and she got very upset and went to sleep on the couch. By the way, she always looks very good when she goes out to see other people.

What should I do to get her to understand what would help, so I can fulfill her needs and be a loving husband who wants to (and is able to) make love to his wife? She is interpreting my reactions right now as saying I don't love her :(

2007-10-20 19:36:29 · 22 answers · asked by steve 1

I just got married a week ago and my husband is the service. I miss him alot and honestly he isnt being very nice to me. He tells me today that I am clingy and I nag him... WTH!? Why marry me then? We are already 1400 miles away what the hell am I clinging too. I love him and I know he loves me but I am lost as to what I need to do. I want this marriage to work, but for the both of us... I dont want to make him happy while making myself unhappy. Any advice?

2007-10-20 19:30:00 · 10 answers · asked by Iamscaredformylife 3

what are the rules and all those other stuff?? you need to deal with

2007-10-20 19:24:31 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you have a little something stashed away in a secret account that your wife doesn't know?

2007-10-20 19:20:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Should I wake my husband up for sex or just go to sleep?

2007-10-20 19:18:28 · 18 answers · asked by CFol27 3

Maybe taken from personal experience?

(my friend and me were wondering about the best way to get that type of point across; only for a guy who'd deserve it of course)

2007-10-20 18:59:21 · 7 answers · asked by Lacy 1

I know it isnt okay to sleep with another womans husband, but ive been doing it for years. I do always feel guilty afterwards. Now im in love with a married man. He tells me that he doesnt love her and hes only there for the kids sake. Should i wait around for him? I also feel real guilty because when his wife goes away some times he invites me over and we have sex in their bed..and sometimes in the kids room when they arent home. Im not really comfortable with that and id like to stick to the living room and kitchen. How do i tell him this?

2007-10-20 18:59:05 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is there men out there that don't look at porn when there married cause they know it is wrong and will distroy a marriage and actually lives for there family and puts them first then themselves and know how to treat a women with dignaty and respect or are you all just scum bags and all you care about is drinking smoking checking out woemn and porn no matter what you have at home waiting for you . Are church going men more differant and respectful then those who don't go to church ?

2007-10-20 18:57:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous