Marriage & Divorce - 20 October 2007

yes i want to DIVORCE them and i need help all my dad does is abuse my sister my mom and me. I have thought it through and there are no minuses to them getting the divorce considering my mom is making all the income and its MORE than enough. But my reason for this is b/c he is abusive and un-needed

2007-10-20 10:51:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 10:24:09 · 17 answers · asked by Amanda M 5

Let me start off by stating that I am not religious, so please skip dogmatic answers that offer no tangible help. My behavior may be shallow, and I may be a dog, but I seek a real answer to my question. With this, I will fill in the details: I began a purely sexual relationship with a woman two years ago. She is ten years my senior. As time progressed, I did indeed fall in love with her (or as close as I can personally come to being in love). As the time period for chemical release waned, though, I've found my sexual appitites wandering once more. While I have remained faithful, but I am subject to temptations. I know a relationship can be built on more than physical attraction, and that looks matter less as we age. I'm 34, and she's 43, and I've become "bored." I care about her, and don't wish to hurt her. Is it possible to overcome these failures on my part over time, or am I simply dilluding myself?

2007-10-20 10:21:14 · 25 answers · asked by voidedlives 3

I want to feel appreciated and worth for the things I do for other people. Not just people in general. But my bf, and family. Why do they take me for granted???

2007-10-20 10:17:25 · 7 answers · asked by hurley59gurl 2

I moved in with my b/f 14 months ago, at his request. I wasn't sure since I've had such bad experiences with men, but after 4 years of seeing my son thru Cancer, I felt that it was my turn to "Live" a little. I was lonely. I met Steve through his cousin with whom I am friends. We hit it off. Now, nearly 2 years later, he says he never wants to marry, and I want to be married again. Steve says it won't be with him. I pray, I cry, my 10 year old asks "momma why are you always sad?". I get very little affection. Why do men ask a woman to move in, to love and care for them, only to ignore them as if he despised them.

2007-10-20 10:12:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've learned my soon to be ex-wife had been cheating on me while were were actively trying to get pregnant.....

I am crushed. Thank God there was not a pregnancy, but what if there had been?

2007-10-20 10:07:19 · 13 answers · asked by ? 4

If you treat your Husband nicely, he will say that you are in LOVE with him. If you do not keep him nicely he will say that you a PROUD.Is it not true?

2007-10-20 10:01:36 · 17 answers · asked by Raghavendra R 5

2007-10-20 09:59:51 · 23 answers · asked by wondergirl 3

Married 28 years. Husband cheated and had an affair. He asked for divorce. Settled out of court. The trauma of all of this still haunts me after 4 years. Does it ever go away and does life ever go back to normal? At 53, I did not think I would be struggling in life. This has been too much to handle.

2007-10-20 09:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom just told me the other night while i was laying down with our boys my husband took the phone and made a very secretive call to someone who my mom thinks may be named loretta, and she thinks my husband has been cheating on me.... I dont know what to do, she told me not to say anything to my husband, because she lives with us and he helps me take care of her, she is suffering from dementia and i am wondering if she is imagining it ??? what would u all do would u confront your husband or would u wait to see what happens??? we just came home last weekend from a wonderful marriage retreat and i found new hope for our marriage but now i am sooooooooooo confused please any and all advice will be appreciated, but please i beg of all of u dont get nasty ok??????? just tell me how u would handle this???? thanks bunches and god bless each and everyone who answers.....

2007-10-20 09:54:35 · 19 answers · asked by THE UK WILDCAT FAMILY 10 6

2007-10-20 09:51:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is in the Millitary in another state working, he threatens me over the phone, in a sexual way, for when he returns, not caring about what I don't want, or any pain, he said he is a sexual deviant, I am home taking care of the children, but these threats scare me, what should I do, legally? for myself and my children.

2007-10-20 09:45:42 · 17 answers · asked by l 2

2007-10-20 09:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 09:33:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

She is very likely having an affair now and has designated me as the enemy. I would like to save the marriage - there are also children involved. She is going to counseling - but is not ready to accept a bpd diagnosis. Is there any hope that she removes me from "enemy" status? I have removed all conflict and disagreement - yet I am still viewed as an enemy, cannot do anything right - and she does not love me anymore and does not think she ever can. Should I walk away and try to seek full custody of our kids or should I hang in there as long as she is participating in counseling?

2007-10-20 09:21:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have what most people would say a good husband, but I find it very hard to stay true to him. I have had several affairs all of which he knows about. He has stayed with me through these times. I have tried to stay faithful but for some reason can't. I am currently having a 4 year affair with a man whom I love . What do you do in this case

2007-10-20 09:12:59 · 29 answers · asked by rehab_diva 2

I used to play in a rock band 10 years ago, make a long story short. i was having an affair with my drummer and rythm gutarist, ok ok yes it was wrong. because i had a long time boyfrend at that time.(who was VERY abusive) my drummer and my lead I had many sexual encounters. (seperate) No 3 somes.well I ended up pregnant. and kept the baby neither one of them knew that the baby could have been either of theirs. 2 days ago, I saw my drummer, at community mental health,(HE WORKS THERE) I hadn't seen him in almost 8 years. my youngest child has autism,who is 8. and was checking up on his meds. I almost died. I KNOW this man and he should not BE picking peoples brains.now they want him to become my sons case manager, with means (HIM) comming to my home, and spending time with his, 8 year old (possably). I cannot ask for another case manger, due to the fact they have very limited resourses. and I REALLY don't want people finding out what I had done.I am hapilly married now for 8 years.

2007-10-20 09:10:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I got drunk and married a hooker who also gave me the crabs. I got lotion for the crabs, but how do I get an annulment if I cannot find her?

2007-10-20 09:04:02 · 16 answers · asked by M Taylor 1

2007-10-20 09:01:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 08:54:12 · 15 answers · asked by Alex J 3

Question We live in Michigan and my boyfriend is paying child support to his ex now I was wondering does that fact that he has a new family to support (mind the kids arent his) and a household to run and he pays about 1/4 of his check in support every week would it be reduced or changed because of this factor? And also If she remarried 10 yrs ago and claims thier daugther one her new husbands taxes does his income count when they are figuring out the income of the parents to set the child support payments?

2007-10-20 08:50:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

we live in illinois and I am worried about my future now i work as a full time attorney and make 100 thousand a year but now half of that goes to this girl who hasn't worked a day in her life since we've been together and only went to school to do nothing with it, I WENT TO LAW SCHOOL FOR 8 YEARS

i really feel like my wife is getting way too much from me how is this even possible I worked my whole life to only have my hard work split with someone who hasn't earned it...

is society going to tolerate this forever or start making things more equal for work and non-work?

50 percent of future income for 5 years plus half of my liftetime pension doesn't strike me as equality and leans a lot towards the wife non-worker

life is not fair and maybe i cannot change things for me but future generation im warning you

especially you guys out there DO NOT GET MARRIED never it will be the end of your life 50 percent of marriages end in divorce now and look what happened to me.

2007-10-20 08:29:44 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you enjoy having the house to yourself?

2007-10-20 08:25:01 · 19 answers · asked by jennie 4

We have an eight year old child together, and I'm a police officer, so is my husband, well he basically wants me to quit the force because he wants to be the provider in our household, and wants me to watch our daughter, and stay home, i guess because he fears I might get hurt on the job, or something, but I love my job, should I just stay home, even when i know i won't be happy.

2007-10-20 08:17:03 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been with my wife now for six years (three years married, three years bf/gf) and it seems it just keeps getting worse with her hatred of everybody. I know that her being a CSR doesn't help because she has to deal with the worst of everybody that calls but what can I do? I try to be as good to her as I can and try to tell her a lot there are great people out there in the world but she just constantly says she hates everybody and everybody sucks. What can I do to help her be more positive regarding people? Any help would be greatly appreciated. God bless you all.

2007-10-20 07:30:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

if you had to choose for one to be alive an well who would it be

this is just a question doesn't mean anythin would actually happen if you pick one

2007-10-20 07:28:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, Its like this. We recently got married, and My wife is now prego. we live with her also. My mother inlaw (and family memebers) constently make remarks, and offend me right in front of her. Whats worse is they are good at menipulating her to get her to do what they want. I get no help from her mom even when it would be easy to do so, I have helped her mom so much. I pay her $$$ for her house. I mean I get it I am stealing the baby (shes 18 and I am 29) I am not here to just take her away, but do want to spend my time when I am not working with her, not alone. She wont stand up to her mom,and when she does she makes her feel like crap. It would be easy to get an apartment and leave, but I dont want to leave her behind, or my unborn child. (it kills me..) I am afrade everyday that where heading for a devorce. Most of the time there is so much tension, that it's unbearable. There has got to be a better way, we need to take control of our own lives. any advice?

2007-10-20 07:16:14 · 20 answers · asked by Robert W 1

2007-10-20 07:09:22 · 19 answers · asked by Jennifer P 1

So my 6 year old is a bit on the "difficult" side. But he's just a kid. My Husband is super hard on him and constantly argues with him and acts like a 6 year old himself. I feel like I cant be a good mom and a good wife bc Im constantly stuck in the middle of their fights. I beg my hubby to work on it but he wont. What should I do??/

2007-10-20 07:03:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was at a friends house the other day and this girl went up and slapped this guy right in his parts. It looked sopainful for the guy, but for some reason all the girls were laughing histerically. what do girls find funny about a guy being hit down there?

2007-10-20 07:00:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous