Marriage & Divorce - 20 October 2007

Please, please help me. My fiance and I got into in argument last night about past relationship history (previous partners, etc.). It was started by me, but he got into the fight too.

I don't know how to not care about past history and not bring it up. Also, what happens after things that shouldn't have been talked about were. Is this the beginning of the end?

Please help me, I'm so upset.

2007-10-20 06:48:35 · 15 answers · asked by footballer 2

I am a 27 year old guy living with my parents getting married to a22 year old girl .Our is a arrange marriage & I love her very much So I would be graceful to you if you can give any advice or suggesstion to me so that I can keep my bride happy

2007-10-20 06:40:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my husband are going on a cruise for our honeymoon, but the problem is that he is somewhat ugly but very caring and he is a virgin obviously cause of his looks. cause he is a virgin i dont think i will have a good time, he also doesnt party much, so if i party more than him and meet someone and come back in the morning after spending time with someone else will he notice or will he think i just partied? what should i do?

2007-10-20 06:30:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very much in love with my husband . I know he still loves me . But we are separated at the moment. He left because we have a ton of problem and is not sue he wants to deal with them any more.I am fixing as many as I can . But he just says hes tired of it all and its over. I didn't relieze how much I would miss him and basically told him to leave if he wanted to . But now that hes gone I feel like I am dying inside. he is unwilling to talk me . About anything other than the kids. but when I confronted him He told me he stikll loves me . Just that he tied of everything. Any one have any ideas on how to get him to see how much he is giving up to have total freedom and no responsibilitys

2007-10-20 06:20:35 · 10 answers · asked by looking for ideas 1

1) What is your marital status?
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2) Every marriage should have a “head of household”.
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3) The term “head of household” is determined by gender.
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4) In a marriage, whoever makes the most money is given the title “head of household”.
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5) In a marriage, the more sexually dominant person is the “head of household”.
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6) In a marriage, the “head of household” has the final word in a disagreement.
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7) The “head of household” is responsible for disciplining the children.
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8) The head of household is responsible of the physical security of those in the home.
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9) The “head of household” is responsible for the emotional security of those in the home.
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10) Culture is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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11) Ethnicity is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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12) Religion is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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13) Societal influences are a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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14) The couple’s socioeconomic status is a factor in determining who is the “head of household”.
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15) In a few words, please describe the term “head of household”.

2007-10-20 06:15:00 · 18 answers · asked by nestly7 1

and our sex life is also better than ever!! Anyone else in a similar situation? Life is good :-)

2007-10-20 05:45:23 · 18 answers · asked by Rick 2

By the relatives? If so how did you deal with it? Thanks!

2007-10-20 05:34:11 · 7 answers · asked by Lover of Blue 7

im a 27 year old virgin and were going on our honeymoon, my husband is a virgin too. we have read some books on "getting intimate" but maybe your help would be better, any ideas??

2007-10-20 05:26:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

im leaving for switzerland in 3 days, to separate from my husband for a bit. Im thinking of asking him to move out for a bit to give us a break from one another.
what do you guys think i should do?
serious comments please theres been a lot going on in my life.

2007-10-20 05:24:24 · 22 answers · asked by Lucia F 1

My wife is a wonderful woman and we've been married for year and a half. We rarely argue and have no major issues. However, my wife tries to solve her parents problems on a daily basis. I can understand if they are health related issues but they are not. She gets involed with their marital problems and all other issues that should be handled by them. My wife and her dad exchange emails on a daily basis. Today I walked in and she was arguing with her mom on the phone. I tried to politely inform my wife that they should deal with these issues themselves and not involve her married daughter. we got into an argument and there goes my weekend. how do i solve this ? I'm beginning to get irritated with my in-laws and rarely talk to them on phone.

2007-10-20 05:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by Bike Lover 1

My husband and I are so in love, we have a very happy marriage. But, his brother is always trying to cause problems between us...he hates me, always has. My husband does his best to keep his relationship between the two of them, but his brother always finds a way to weasel himself back in and start causing problems again. What should I do?

2007-10-20 04:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by loquita.bella 4

me and my wife have been together since teenagers and we are considering have some fun sexually with others we have been together 15 yrs and are child is older and now we get to have some fun...anyone out there that can help with advice on how the best way to approach this by the way me and willing are both in agreement on this but havent decided if another woman , and or man would be best first step!

2007-10-20 04:17:28 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2

top during sex she says she prefers it that way to any other position, women please help me to understand why thanks

2007-10-20 04:06:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

well, my husband of 18mts cheated on me and left me to live with his mistress. i have started divorce proceedings, he is not being very co-operative. child support have added an order to his wages as he was also non co-operative with them. he has had next to no contact with the children and everytime we speak we end up argueing, i have now blocked him from my messenger as im sick of the arguements. he still has my phone numbers and my email address so could contact me anytime. the answer i need is iv told him he can see his children any time he wants but he is not allowed to take them anywhere near his mistress, to which he replied im not going to stop them seeing her she is my life now. so i told him he is not allowed to take them out of the house but he could have them at my here so i can keep an eye on who sees my children. am i wrong to do this? he has said b4 he is willing to never see his children again if his mistress cant have a relationship with them. i think this is ridiculou

2007-10-20 03:56:12 · 36 answers · asked by Kristie R 1

My partner and I have been deeply committed for 6 years. Due to painful emotional issues, we eventually decided that we would not marry but have tried in every way to live as though we were. My partner recently took a new job that only provides health insurance to full spouses. I work serveral part-time jobs and thus don't qualify for health insurance on my own. So we went to city hall and got married(meaning we had a judge sign our marriage licence-there was no ceremony or emotional involvment). Since it means nothing to us, we're keeping it secret so that other's won't try to make it mean something. We thought that only the book-keeper at my partner's work needed to know but now we find out his boss does too. His boss is kind of a clueless guy whose also loud and chatty. So we fear that he will make a big deal out of our "wedding" and/or spread it around the office. How do we approach the guy to get him to respect our feelings? Or should I just give up the insurance?

2007-10-20 03:48:49 · 11 answers · asked by KazaKu 2

What can i get my wife to make this anniversary special and memorable ?

2007-10-20 03:41:33 · 12 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

My fiancee has picked a best man that isnt his best friend and his best friend has never been included in any of this (Wedding plans). His friend has always assumed that when my fiancee gets married he would be best man. I know when he finds out he will be very upset should i do anything to avoid this or just let it be.

2007-10-20 03:36:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am with a man who says he loves me, a bigger woman, but I get the feeling that i am not enough. Now I don't care if he checks out other women, he's a man he is going to look anyways, but why does he only check out skinny women? And if this is what he likes then why should I believe him when he says he wants to be with me? I know not all men tell the truth when it comes to issues like this, they just dance around the subject, so I want to know why would men say one thing and do another?

2007-10-20 03:34:17 · 20 answers · asked by Kikikins 1

I prefer to only date with the premise that my boyfriend could potentially be someone I marry. I am not ready for marriage right now, but will be in 3 to 5 years (I'm 24 years old now). My current boyfriend has revealed to me that he has no desire to marry at all. I don't want to be foolish enough to think that he will change. We have a great relationship right now, but the future prospect of being with someone who won't want to marry me is bothersome. Am I thinking to much about this or is it a valid concern? Should we call it quits or should I just enjoy what I have in the present?

2007-10-20 03:04:12 · 11 answers · asked by alisafmorris 1

How could the woman you have been married to for over a decade, started a family with and truly adore; say the most hurtful words to you? Based on the way she "feels". I have never laid a hand on her, or cursed her. I have addressed previous concerns that she has presented to me (Friends, spending time, etc.). All to no avail. The only thing that I can come up with is that she wants to split up, however she denies that, but I'm told that I must want to. Then, after a couple of days, no sort of apology, except for, "I wasn't trying to hurt you". No retraction on the vile words that she said. As a matter of fact, tells me that she meant them. I am truly stunned and confused about how to proceed forward with this marriage. She says she does not want to split up. Give me a break, if I were to say the things that she said to me to her; there would be a major shakeup in my home. Please give me the skinny. How do I proceed forward with this 'Sybil' situation?

2007-10-20 02:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by 2blessed2bdissed 2

Ok I have to ask.....They were talking about the law that is in some states where one spouse can sue the mistress or lover of the hubby/wife..If you watched it what do you think about it and making it a common law among all states?
You think it is fair to only be able to sue the person with whom they are sleeping with or should they be able to sue hubby/wife too? Cause what if they didn't tell the lover they were married?
That one woman sued for 500,000.00 and settled for 50,000.00
Think less people would cheat?
And no I am not cheating just wanted to know what everyone thought about this......

2007-10-20 02:44:49 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't seen them in two weeks however the last time I saw them they yelled at me and were really mean and rude...Over nothing, I had not scolded them, I had taken them shopping and had been very good to them all weekend. They got their mother involved by telling her lies, they have every idea that it is a good one to break my husband and I apart. I am really angry at them. I don't want to lower myself to their level, however how should I act when they are here. My husband doesn't like it when I go into another room and do other things when they are here, however I am still very upset. they are all teens....I love them, but I really don't like them right now and just don't know what to do.

2007-10-20 02:02:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-20 01:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

all our friends are fighting and he's in a realy mood. I don't want to deal with him today, so I'm on Yahoo.

What should I do?

2007-10-20 01:41:44 · 14 answers · asked by Fancy That 6

What should i do? he stinks.

2007-10-20 01:39:54 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

available at his resi then how will the case proceed how will she be free ??/

2007-10-20 00:25:54 · 10 answers · asked by shubha97 1

2007-10-20 00:24:07 · 62 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanted raisins at the time. Basically I poured out the cereal in a very large bowl and picked though it and grabbed most of the raisins and ate them and then put the bran flakes back in the box. I was sooo hungry but had a huge craving for raisins at the time and I had used the raisins I did have before to make cookies with. When my husband poured a bowl of cereal the next morning he poured him a bowl and was upset that there weren't many raisins at all in his bowl and I told him what I did and he got sooo mad! I told him I just had a craving for raisins and he got so mad he put my purse and my baby smurf stuffed animal (i've had him since I was a baby) in his safe. Do you think I was wrong to do that and how do you think I should go about asking for my smurf and purse back? I like to sleep with my smurf when he isn't in bed with me because it makes me feel safer and I need my purse!!!!

2007-10-20 00:20:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous