Marriage & Divorce - 17 October 2007

I am indian national and my wife is a foreigner, I want to register our marriage.under which act i can register?pls help.

2007-10-17 23:52:31 · 3 answers · asked by littlecrush28 1

my ex was my highschooL boyfriend. we haven't seen each other in 10years. i found him on the internet and since then we had communication... he still loves me and willing to accept me and be with me and my kids. but the problem is that, my husband (who's in the US) is so much in-love with me. he wouldn't let go of me... my ex (who's also abroad) would be arriving next year and he wants to marry me. my country doesn't have a divorce and i don't think my husband would be willing to give me annulment. what should i do?

2007-10-17 23:49:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

my father-inlaw came on holiday, he was meant to stay with us for 2mths and now is staying for 5mths. I am not happy with the arrangement as we only have a 2 bedroom house and i have 2children. My father-inlaw is sleeping in their bedroom whilst my sons sleep in my bed with myself and my husband. I work full time and have explained to my husband that i cannot cope with entertaining his fathers guests, plus cooking his meals on top of working and dealing with the kids. He thinks i,m making a big deal out of nothing. My husband booked him self 1wk holiday to go to America, leaving me to cope with the kids, during this time, his father went to stay with a friend. Now get this i am alone at home with 2kids 6 and2, have to drop 6yr old at school, 2year old at the childminder, go to work and pick both up. Plus i dont drive, my father-inlaw doesn;t ask how i,m coping but decides to bring his laundry over from his friends for me to wash. my husband thinks its not too much for me to do this.

2007-10-17 22:45:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 22:21:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

that most of the people got committed/married because of having a baby

2007-10-17 22:09:02 · 15 answers · asked by jeni 1

I have been with my wife for 2 years she really is a wonderful person. She smiles when ever she sees me and I know she loves me with all our heart. Yeah, she does some chilish things sometimes but, thats only another reason I love her. For her Innocence.
For some reason, I have been looking at another woman.
She is an *** to me most of the time and glares almost all the time. Her ex died years ago and she tells me all time that she was not like this when she was with him. If all she did was hate me then, it would be easy to hate her back but... every so often when I push her, she tells be something personal and even hints that she does not hate me as much as she lets off.
She always seems to do it when I think its not worth the trouble too.. I know she is not as mean as she is trying to act and the few times we laughed together, I told myself: "I want to do this forever.."
God, I am in love with two people. I know its wrong and selfish but I cant help it! Advise anyone?

2007-10-17 21:31:57 · 26 answers · asked by Ince 2

Once I got married to a girl according to special marriage act. Then I gave divorce to her. Now I have got married to another girl according to Hindu Marriage Act. I never told my present wife that I had married a girl and divorced her. Now we ( my wife and I) are on the verse of divorce. If my wife can find out that I hid the fact from her, can she do anything against me? Can she take any legal step against me? Please give me legal suggestion. I never stayed with that girl, only marriage took place in between us.

2007-10-17 20:58:29 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 20:37:53 · 10 answers · asked by searcher 1

we were finally going 2couples therapy at 3am (the day threapy) he says "we dont need to go all i need to do is trust him and listen to him. He was loudso i saidlower your voice &lay down lets sleep tomorrow we are going to deal with those issues so i turn around (my back to him) He then went on a rampage of how i was rude &disrespectful for turning around, tried to have me answer his questions but since he was in my face &loud i told him i would not talk to him until he calmed down (according to him he was fine) He verbally abused me until sun rise i got up &started changing so things would not get worse but that made things worse, as i was changing he started shoving me around,all of a sudden i am on the floor being dragged then on the loveseat being chocked i started scratching & slapping him then on the sofa &i felt his fist hit my jaw,i called 911 he was arrested, its his 1st time being arrested for anything what will be the max he can get? we have an apt lease thats my worry

2007-10-17 20:21:15 · 5 answers · asked by beautiful 1

My mom is going through a tough time, her husband (not my Dad) and her recently got a divorce and she's completely lost it. She drinks, gambles and is basically partying it up. My Dad won't even let us spend the weekends with her anymore because all she does is party and make us clean her house. She is very emotionally unstable and is liable to shout at me or my siblings anytime she is irritated. we tried to be sympathetic at first but enough is enough. what should i do ?

2007-10-17 20:14:42 · 7 answers · asked by style assimilator 4

2007-10-17 20:11:30 · 22 answers · asked by Sasha K 1

My boyfriend's parents came over and I went out shopping the other day. The way I see it is "we're not married, they're not family yet anyway". I don't see why I have to talk to them when I have chores and shopping to do and I don't even know them. Agree?

2007-10-17 20:10:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 20:06:03 · 23 answers · asked by Sasha K 1

I recently read in a woman's study magazine that the reason we women are cheating in our marriages now are that we feel entitled to cheat!

How ever when told by spouse that they will not accept cheating in their marriage of any kind and will most likely ruin their marriage upwards to 86% of women who say they would have cheated say that it not a possibility now Why?

Status say if wives are informed up front that we can't have our cake and eat it too, that chances of her cheating is under 14% Why?

Also I should point out that when it's brought up to men in the same fashion that better then 41% of men who would have cheated, but know that their marriage can and will end don't cheat why?

I ask these question because in 15 years of marriage I can say I never cheated but have been tempted but refused yet it seem the freedoms we women have these days has been just as harmful as it's been helpful WHY?

Have we become so transient in relationships, we need to hear DON'T CHEAT?

2007-10-17 20:02:55 · 2 answers · asked by The Lady 1

After 8 years of marriage, she simply walked out. Now shes back, saying shes changed and wants to continue with the relationship. It was very hurtful and I felt betrayed. Not sure what i should do.

2007-10-17 19:59:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-10-17 19:53:22 · 11 answers · asked by Boogie27 1

after the consumption of too much booze, and you spend the nite and am with the guy and then you leave then he contacts your bgf and says that he "cares" about you and wants you to phone him would you?

2007-10-17 19:52:52 · 8 answers · asked by Dreamer 2

"you're just a flirt", while trying to get to know me better and im just taking it real slow while i figure out whether to trust him or not, does that mean he thinks im a tease or what?

2007-10-17 19:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by Azul 2

I am 28 years old and for a long time I never wanted to have kids. However, I have been lucky enough to find the man I have been looking for....finally. I know he wants to have a baby with me. But, I have a brain tumor that is causing my pcos to get worse...to the point Im not ovulating. I have been to numerous doctors and they all say the same thing...I shouldnt do this to my body. I know he wont leave me because he loves me, plus he has kids from his prior marriage. But I badly want to share this with him. Do you think I am taking anything from him?

2007-10-17 19:34:39 · 13 answers · asked by specialpromise 1

tell me. I called his job because the toilet overflowed. I called twice and spoke to two diff people. One took a message as if he was there. I told the man to tell him to call home. Then I had my mom call. Finally, she was told he wasn't scheduled for the day. He left the house at 3:30pm. Said he had to work at 4pm. He had his cell phone off until 9pm. Then I called and he said he went over his brother house. And he was scheduled but someone asked for his hours. So, basically he saying he was out having fun w/ his brother.

2007-10-17 19:25:50 · 18 answers · asked by sexyascanbe! 1

How do you keep your relationship special? My husband & I seem to be drifting apart!!! When we go out together (which is very rare) we can still have a good time (sort of) but if any of his friends happen to show up, off w/ them he goes & I'm out of the picture.

2007-10-17 19:00:47 · 12 answers · asked by ♥bigmamma♥ 6

why cant my wife who is leaving me over something that happened .5. years ago just forgive me and stay rather than go .when i was well fooling around with this now ex. married woman .she lives .5. states from us. my wife contacted this women.s .ex. husband. she has called him and knows he is.53. but dont look his age my wife is .20 aand planning on divorcing me she meet him while telling me she went to visit her mom. but meet him and talked to him . she had the nerve to tell me he was a very good man and had respect aat all times . that sounds like him . this i know from past meeting.s when i ws in that state . why cant she let him alone and forget my mistake. after all that was.5. years ago

2007-10-17 18:59:58 · 10 answers · asked by matthew v 3

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2007-10-17 18:48:40 · 18 answers · asked by Honey786 4

2007-10-17 18:37:53 · 16 answers · asked by yana k 1

My bf and I cant seem to get along to save our relationship. I know for me I am scared to trust him again, and I suspect that he feels the same.

I know it sounds corny but we have talked about "letting go" and not being afriad but no one wants to be the one to go first and like I said we've lost trust to believe that the other would 'let go' at the same time.

I know that there is no way to get back to where we were before the trust was lost, but is there any way to get past a loss of trust and back to that place where love matters? Or does the love diappear when the trust is gone?

2007-10-17 18:35:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you and the Mrs's have little fantasy's you share? Or do you keep then to yourself?

2007-10-17 18:17:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

You stood with him/her and loved each other at that point in in time.

Now you want a divorce, why?

Money Problems?, no sex ?

2007-10-17 18:15:04 · 13 answers · asked by skulty 3

know that he is a good man, but he has made bad choices in the past as far as women are concerned, I will be wife # 2..But he has had a few engagements between the ex-wife and me..Which makes me wonder now, if its HIM or that he really has poor judgment..Also which makes this worse, is that his 8 year old son, is partial to my son, they have bonded, as have we..I love the kid like he was my own flesh and blood, so I am confused on what to do? Do I marry him with these doubts, or end the relationship, which will hurt everyone, including the kids, and I don't want that...but I dont want to be exwife #2....I do love him, but is that enough ?

Could I just be having "cold feet"?

2007-10-17 18:14:29 · 18 answers · asked by Mommy Dearest 5

I posted a question earlier and someone hit the nail on the head. I am turned off by some of my husband's personality traits. I feel so bad in saying that but it's true. We are like night and day in the personality department. Where do I start?

He is very non-chalant and care-free. If it doesn't affect him directly he doesn't care, but it usually affects me. For example, we may have a bill that's due and limited funds left. He'll throw a fit because we have to pay bills and there's not enough money to eat out with or mess off. I have to come up with creative ways to get around that to make him happy, therefore I do all the worrying.

He is a mama's boy to the heart. His parents live an hour away and he has to see them regularly or he gets cranky. We go there all the time and one day he asked if I wanted to go. I agreed but wanted to know if it would turn into an overnight trip (as usual) or if we'd be coming back. That's all I asked. He then told me I didn't have to go.

2007-10-17 18:13:51 · 8 answers · asked by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4

She (lets call her foolish) wants her little girl to come and visit her. Foolish goes to her parents, who are living in a pay weekly hotel. However, her dad is a registered sex ofender. My son, refuses to let her have their 2 year old daughter over there. Which I agree with. So now foolish is 'claiming' that she has already talked to the cops, and they say she can have their daughter stay there for every other week. Well, according to the national sex ofender registry, her dad is not to be near ANY minor child. Also, before staying where foolish's parents are, foolish has stayed with 3 different men. To top that off, foolish got kicked out of each place. Foolish only got to stay maybe 2 or 3 weeks at each. Foolish has no job. Foolish has no common sense when it comes to shuffling thier daughter from one guys place to another. She really thinks she can trust each guy she stays with. Any suggestions about what my son can do to protect his daughter from Foolish's Stupidity?

2007-10-17 18:10:52 · 7 answers · asked by desperate77 2